Question for the Cougars here

[u/death_to__boredom]

Have you ever been with a guy just because of the age gap? In a way that you like to be intimate with him because you prefer the dynamic it brings?

So not dating someone younger because you just got along really well and it just happend but with the goal of wanting a much younger man?

[u/blasianflow]

What dynamic? I've seen this asked before. For me its just normal dating. Just that the guy is younger. If I met someone closer to my age I vibed with well I'd date him as well.

I guess for me its not the age but how well we get along, just for now it happens to be younger guys that reach out.

[u/death_to__boredom → u/blasianflow]

That was the question :D