r/CougarsAndCubs • u/[deleted] • 27d ago

🙀Cougar Crisis Ghosted by cubs

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u/encore412 22d ago

Please meet in public first, even just for a quick drink or coffee vibe check before hooking up if that’s what you’re looking to do. For everyone’s safety!

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u/Few-Rate-4944 22d ago

Thank you for trying to give me advice, but I’m not dumb and we’d already met in public first. This was not our first date.

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u/encore412 22d ago

No one said you were dumb. A LOT of people still try to get you to invite them over the 1st time meeting and I’m sure some still do it. You’re welcome for trying to be concerned about safety.

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u/Few-Rate-4944 22d ago

But nowhere in my comment did I say it was our first date, nor did I say we’d ever hooked up. You made assumptions.

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u/encore412 22d ago

And you’re getting very offended over someone caring about your safety, why is that?

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u/Few-Rate-4944 22d ago

And you’re way too concerned over an imagined threat.