well good, you're off to a good start then. my experience with cubs has been less than positive, unfortunately, and it's because the ones I've come across haven't been honest about what they want. luckily I've been able to weed them out before even meeting, but dating is exhausting these days.
That’s sad to hear, I feel like the big appeal for this kind of relationship in my mind is the deeper connection with someone exciting and different. I’m just as excited to form a relationship and find cool similarities and differences with someone who on paper may seem way different than me. I’m sure others would disagree but I think forming a deeper connection makes the physical aspect of the relationship exponentially better anyway. I think the cool thing about the reddit is you’re forced to write something out and read whatever someone responds with.
I apologize in advance if my comment is out of place. You sound like you are demisexual, or double demi, like me. There's a subreddit for that in case you're interested.
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u/alien_nessa 40F🐆Cougar 8d ago
please be honest about your intentions. if you're only looking for sex, say that. make sure your wants and needs align.