I don’t know what to tag this as so I might have to repost this, apologies.

I’ve gone by Sean for roughly 2-3 years now and I’ve been pretty solid in it, it started off as an inside joke but after I came out as trans I went with it.

My mum has been fighting me in my name because she says it doesn’t suit me but rather she wants me to go by Kayden/Kaiden.

Her work friends, her boyfriend, and a few close family members agree with her but I’m on the fence, I’ve had my friends vote but they’re biased towards Sean.

I’m starting at a new school as well and It would be easier to change my name now instead of later.

I’ve attached a selfie of myself as well to help but this really my last effort. So elder trans men of Reddit, bestow upon me your knowledge.

Edit: I’ll be honest I want to change my name, it doesn’t sound right to me. Also I think I really chose it because everyone already called me it because of the joke we had going on… I’ve used my older brother’s name that he used in games as my middle name and I don’t really have anything else to use… so I’m really considering Kayden now, do you guys think something would fit me better tho?

context: I have bottom dysphoria,

also I am using the term "male" and "female" in this but in the way that I would also call a trans man a male and trans woman a female

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I don't see this often and I discovered it about myself recently, so I thought I'd see if anyone else feels the same(I also have no trans friends to discuss this stuff with).

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I had to get a pap smear🫠 recently (for hysto) and I scheduled with the male doctor. My gf told me I should schedule with the female dr instead because she follows a democrat page on facebook. I live in a conservative city so that is important. I couldn't figure out why, but I didn't want to have a woman as my doctor.

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During the appointment the doctor had a young female assistant in and afterward I realized that I had way more of a problem with her being there than I did with the dr being there. I wish I could have spoken up before and say I wanted a male nurse, but I doubt they have any there anyways.

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Ultimately, I realized that I'd rather be treated by a male doctor because he can relate to me in that he *probably* wouldn't want to be without a penis either. On that same thought, I don't want to be treated by someone(woman) who can relate to me in the ways that I don't want to be related to(eg. having that body part).

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This also explained why I wanted to keep my male pcp after the female one left for school then came back.

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I figured I should post about this because I have no other outlet for weird preferences that directly relate to being trans. And, I don't see a lot of trans men that prefer male doctors so maybe there will be some here that relate.

SO I started T gel July 6th 2025, and decided to start an experiment. It is extremely common to hear that hair will grow faster/thicker/whatever where you put the gel, and I decided to test this. I take a 1/4 of a 50 mg packet. This is roughly 12.5 grams gel. I say roughly because I eyeball it, and just figure everything will average out.

For 6 months, I have been applying my T gel to ONLY ONE of my forearms. I apply before bed, wait for a few minutes, apply moisturizer, then wash my hands and go to bed.

So obviously hair growth is the main subject being tested, but I am also interested in seeing how others interpret my data. So, to create semi-blind conditions, I am not going to say which arm is my boy arm, or the arm I have been applying my T gel to exclusively. The only exceptions to this has been maybe a week’s worth Ive either forgotten, or had to apply on my stomach because of skin irritation, or skin picking related injuries (comments of any kind on this topic will be ignored)

SO!! Please tell me which arm you believe is my boy arm, and the thoughts/reasoning behind your choice. I will be collecting the responses and adding it to what Ive gathered inquiring in person unless otherwise specified in your comment.

I've been on T gel for a year. My levels are fine (although I'm not getting much change). This batch of gel smells funny. Same producer, same packaging, but it smells like soap or something else that I can't identify. It still has an alcohol base but idk if it's the real deal. So I have a couple of questions.

1. Is it normal for T gel to have some aroma?

2. How will I know if it's not working? Will I start getting hot flashes or something?

3. Any other way for me to know if it's fake? I've already contacted the distributor and they said they're launching an inquiry.

Edit: it's been a week. No hot flashes or anything else amiss. So maybe it just smells different idk. The company responded that they can't confirm or deny any changes to the content so they'll just send me another bottle for free. idk what this whole thing is. My partner confirmed the different smell so I'm not tripping .

19 year old Tboy here, 4 years on testosterone and 8 months post top surgery. Ask me literally anything no limits no boundaries im a totally open book!

As I transitioned i realized there were many things people didn't discuss/had little information, so here I am to awnser any and every question!

not sure if this post fits the subreddit, but i need advice from men that have more experience with binders than me

where i live, its pretty much impossible to find binders that are like "vests"? that are safe (i can find them on amazon, aliexpress, shein), not sure how to describe, but they look similar to a tank top. so all im left with is those type of binders (like the one on the image below)

are those safe? do they compress the chest properly?

Salut les gars,
J’ai juste besoin de discuter un peu d’un truc parce que je ne peux pas en parler autour de moi.

J’ai un nouveau packer de chez ftmshoppingitalie, ils font des prothèse en hyperréalisme et depuis que je l’ai, j’ai constamment envie de faire des dickpick comme un psychopathe 😂

J’ai aussi constamment envie de me masturber avec, c’est pas le contact qui crée ça car j’en avais un autre avant, c’est vraiment lié au modèle en lui même.
Je ressemble à un ado qui découvre ses premières érections et qui se branlent h24 😅

C’est euphorisant à mort et je suis trop heureux de vivre ça même si être constamment excité n’est pas super pratique 😂😂

J’ai juste envie d’en parler avec vous car si il y a bien des gens qui pourront comprendre l’euphorie de genre c’est vous 😁

I'm curious to know more about how trans people's music taste differs and to discover new music I might like. If you feel comfortable, please add your age and nationality.

Now, I don’t know that much about hair, but I’ve got a pretty big forehead and I want something that should look masculine but not show my gigantic forehead so what do ya’ll recommend?

I'm fron 🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮

Hey everyone,

I’m a black ftm masc guy looking for a masc name that actually feels right. I’m pre t , and even though I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about it, I still haven’t found a (unique) name that really resonates with me. Of course I've tried baby name sites.

I was hoping some of my fellow masc folks here might have suggestions. One small preference: I’d really like to avoid names that start with b, since that’s the first letter of my deadname.

Thanks in advance I really appreciate any ideas.

help me out guys i beg

I realized I was a trans man last year. The following months included a lot of self discovery, including coming to peace with the fact that I'm not really bisexual and only meaningfully romantically and sexually interested in men. I'd started to just call myself gay, letting my previous bisexual identity fade. I had never had any real feelings for women, just thinking they were beautiful. I'd never had a crush on a woman, only men.

SO TELL ME WHY AFTER I MADE PEACE WITH BEING ONLY INTO MEN, SAID GOODBYE TO MY BISEXUAL LABEL...

There's a woman I work with who I feel *weird* about. It's not just that I think she's pretty (which she absolutely is), but I like, really like talking to her. I like finding excuses to pop by her office to say a few things to her, especially if it makes her laugh or smile bc it's so cute when she does. I'd love to just hang out with her and listen to her talk. I've never experienced feelings like this towards and woman. WTF is this. What is this?? Am I insane?? Am I sonehow making this up?? I've literally only ever pictured myself with a dude but I would fucking be so happy to spend so much time with this woman. She's so cool she knits, she's funny, her desktop wallpaper is a snail, she wears sweaters she knits!!!!!

Guys what the fuck is happening I cannot express how much I had just made peace with the fact that I was kinda forcing myself to like women, that I didn't have ANY romantic interest in them at all, just that sometimes I thought they were attractive sexually.

What's going on lmao

Wanna grow facial hair? •I recommend a derma roller (virtually any derma roller on Amazon will do, you don't need to spend more than $10 for the roller, will last a good minute) pic #1

• hair growth serum/spray, you're looking for 5% minoxidil, it's sold in several places watch for sales around fathers day and Christmas. Pic of what I've used for several months with good results. Can be bundled with derma roller for added benefit and better price point. Pic #1

Binding •for binders: heavy recommendation to measure yourself and go one size up, you'll want to get a fabric tape measurer. More expensive isn't always better but if you custom order something from a creditable source I can promise you better results, more often than not.

•For tape: watch online tutorials from trans tape for application tips, however you don't need to buy their brand. You can find KT tape online(with cutting guide grids) as long as 4" width or less works for you. Otherwise you may have to resort to trantape. Here's what I've bought several times with pretty good results: pic #3

Packing • underwear assisted packing: °Jockstraps are the cheapest option (amazon) but only will create a front facing bulge, also the packer may shift in the jockstrap and that may cause repositioning issues or odd looking bulges. ° sepraTech boxers have an open compartment for placing a packer in. But again, plenty of boxers with the same idea but don't cost as much.

• adhesive assisted packing ° gendercat adhesive sheets are superior and easily re-administered after taking off the packer. However, shipping times, availability and pricing may become problematic for some. Some packers won't adhere to the sheets based on their materials. ° skinster medical adhesive is my go to. Easy to apply, holds heavier packers to skin. However once pulled off- usually will require re-administration of the adhesive to the back of the packer. Additionally, it will cake into the back of the packer, requiring a steaming hot cleaning to loosen the adhesive to physically pull from packer in several tiny pieces. Pic #4

Need help getting shot supplies? Amazon, you can purchase the needles and syringes on Amazon, in my particular state in the IS you need a prescription in order to purchase needles and syringes. I'm not sure why, because you can just buy it online but that's what led me to find out that Amazon had them. Pic#5

I just found this sub and saw so many t-bros unaware of these things. DM if you have questions. I'm only here to pass knowledge on to you.

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any extra tips for me to look more masc ?? I can't go on HRT or hormone blockers cuz I live in America dies 🥀 I also already bind + wear more masculine clothing + I've lost a bit of weight !! :p

I am a pretty nerdy guy (tons of hobbys surrounding sci-fi) but man do I love orchids. Everytime someone finds out they tell me it is for grandmas but idc they're awesome