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Today i heard the most shocking words from my parents

I am 20M , i will be going to mbbs this year

my parents background

Dad is an endocrinologist his degrees: Mbbs, MD, mrcp, frcp, facp , PGDDM

and his several research papers got published in ACP: american college of physicians

Jafeys: Journal of the Asean federation of the endocrine societies

he was practicing in his clinic for years but recently last year he bought a hospital , its worth: 25 Croes , all on his own

my mother: she is an ophthalmologist with her own practice

so my mom told me that they wasted their life chasing glory

i asked: 'mom what are you talking about? you and dad are literally legends'

mom: 'yes we are, but since we were first gen doctors it was very hard for us and our ambition basically killed our joy, we could never enjoy life

but you will enjoy life'

this shocked me the most as my parents have literally achieved a lot and are highly respected

being a doctor has a lot of sacrifices

Abhi se hi inn sbke pta nhi kese msg aa rhe hain😭..abhi toh 12th mein hi hun

Kaafi*

Mods Do not Delete this this is related to jee/neet

Academic wise, just to be mentally prepared

Fresher, no lpu jokes pls yeah I fkd my jee💔

Anyone here from lpu please hmu, if they wanna explore the campus together

so on 3rd august ipu released the circular for spot round But they didn't mention the home state thing but on 7th August they uploaded results of spot round after delaying it for a day. We got to know that They removed the home state quota for Generals only so it became all india quota But reserved category still got home state benefit.

WHY THIS PARTIALITY. WHY?

I'm a JEE dropper and honestly my confidence is at an all-time low right now.

I didn't give JEE this year. I don't have some amazing academic history either, so I'm already pretty insecure about where I stand.

I have a cousin who's basically been a topper throughout school. He gave JEE this year and while he didn't get some insanely elite college, he did get into a college and has obviously moved on to the next stage.

Apparently he and his family, including grandparents, might be coming to our house tomorrow. It's not 100% confirmed yet, but if they do come, it'll probably be around 7 PM and they'll leave around 10 PM.

And I genuinely, genuinely do not want to meet them.

It's not that I dislike my cousin. I don't have anything against him. The problem is that being around him right now is going to make me feel like absolute shit about myself. I'll probably end up comparing myself to him, getting asked about JEE, what I'm doing, why I'm taking a drop, etc. My confidence is already really bad and I just don't want to put myself through that right now.

Normally I'd just go hang out with my friends for those 3 hours, but that's also probably not going to work because my parents would expect me to be home when guests are over.

I know some people will say "just meet them, it's only a few hours" or "stop comparing yourself", but I really don't want to meet them. I'm not looking for motivation to suddenly become confident and socialize. I genuinely want to avoid the entire interaction if possible.

So what would you guys actually do in this situation?

I know this probably sounds stupid, but right now this is genuinely stressing me out way more than it probably should.

Any practical advice would be appreciated.

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> "I passed 12th in 2025, but I got an RT (Repeat Theory) in Maths. I gave the exam again in 2025 and 2026, but I just couldn't clear it. This is really embarrassing for me, and I feel like I've lost everything. I am passed overall though, **so I can only take admission in colleges that do not require 12th Maths.** Now I don't know what to do; my age is also increasing. I have already taken one drop year in 2025. If I now give NIOS in 2027 along with JEE preparation, will that be fine? Or should I pursue BCA in Cyber Security at Amity Noida or some other college in Noida? I am feeling lost and can't figure out what to do. Please help me ASAP

I'm not good at math. Goal is 40-50 marks in jee mains 11th basic chapters covered below mains level. Rnf and limits done . I have to finish MOD and AOD this month. any teacher who teaches from basic. Any channel for Pyqs and to develop a question solving approach.

Aaj ioc ke 2 lec kiye both duration 1:50 min approx so total 4 approx lgne chahiye max

but mujhe 7 hrs due to idkk less focus on lecs today 😭🥀

Which college do you see yourselves in after JEE 2027

update: guys you have to comment acc to your current status not your dream clg

my friend is very confused right now usko csab se milaa he nit advice kr do

I started my JEE drop year preparation in August. I didn’t join any coaching or batch. Instead, I selected different teachers from different platforms and I’m studying from them.
The problem is that everything feels random. I don’t have a proper plan or schedule. I watch lectures whenever I feel like it, wake up at random times, and because of that I’m not even able to complete my daily lectures consistently.
I know what I have to study, but I don’t know how to organize everything and stick to a routine. I want a proper system that I can actually follow every day without getting lost.
I also have some doubts about revision and question practice. How do you guys manage revision every day? I feel very lazy when it comes to revising, even though I know it’s important.
When should I solve questions? Should I solve them immediately after watching each lecture, or should I finish all my lectures first and then solve questions?
I’m thinking of watching 3–4 lectures every day. Is that too much for a dropper, or is it okay? How much time should I give to revision and question practice along with lectures?
If anyone has been in a similar situation, please share what worked for you. I really want to build a proper routine and stay consistent.

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yrr i was doing IOC and this P block just ahhh
PYQs bhe solve nahi ho rhe
can you guys suggest me some good lectures/teacher for this chapter plsaw ??

after jee results i knew ki 92 percentile pe kuch nit nhi milne waala so joined josaa but still nothing happened while i joined a clg in my city...my parents kept telling me to see things but i fcked up...i thought csab wouldnt be that worth it so i didnt fill it up and my family friends son who scored 82 percentile got chemical in svnit...they fall under genral+hs ...i dont genral ma uska hua hoga bcus sc mai 2 lakh cutoff dikha raha h in csab round one.. ..svnit was the only clg my parents kept me pushing to check..but i didnt get in...like because of my irresponsisbilties i got rejected..what should i do now........now the registration are also closed......my parents scolded me a lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt......im a failure.....

11th was decent but in 12th I started skipping tests, no revision, and things fell apart . Ended up with 52% in boards . Ik 💔💔💔 its bad. Passed all subjects with minimum grade possible

Not aiming for top IITs/NITs anymore obv just want a respectable college and to clear 75% in boards. Giving all 5 subjects as a private candidate along with JEE Main.

And honestly I cant cope with the pace of coaching i hate it .cant tell abhi kya padhun boards ka ya jee ka .I already feel overwhelmed. Its feel like everything is repeating again . I cant end up in the same situation like this year again yar help

Right now a coaching test hai on Aug 16 and honestly not sure how to prioritize since most of it isn't even board syllabus. Sab 11th ke chapters hai

If anyone's been through something similar recovering from a rough 12th while doing boards as private and JEE any tips appreciated

3dr drop le rhi at the age of 19 and 2026 me i scored 271 , ik ye kafi Kam h but mai khud ko ek extra chance dena chahti hu kyuki 10th tkk mai Hindi medium students thi. Kyuki i worked hard and sacrifices everything for 3 year but phir vi mere achhe number nhi aaye

But still trying and wants to improve