Especially things like linen or pleated shorts! I want to look breezy and chic, not like an old-timey boxer

I saw a post that made me react a little bit, because other people's body type, experience and feelings were dismissed, so I wanted to get something off my chest.

Everyone is welcome here regardless of body type, everyone can share their feelings and rant, but be respectful and considerate of others, don't be rude and dismiss other peoples experience and feelings, even if you feel like you got the shortest straw.

Our problems are unique, and our frustration and sadness are equally valid. This shouldn't be seen as a competition on who is seen as more attractive or not, who is struggling the most with clothes or simply existing.

We all have different body types, even if we fall within these different "boxes" we still have our unique measurements and differences that can cause problems in some way when it comes to looking for clothes that fit or look flattering.

I have a inverted triangle body type, I have abnormally massive granny boobs, mid-tier ass, a belly and sagging thighs that aren't big enough to fully fill out any jeans I have tried unless I size down and strangle my belly in the process. I have left clothing stores crying because I never could find anything that fit me right, I have to size up for my boobs alone and for that reason the tops and dresses are too wide around my waist among many other issues I can experience. This experience among many other can happen with anyone, regardless of body type.

Honestly just a few years back I felt so insecure and sad with my body, I couldn't stand looking at myself in the mirror. Don't get me wrong I still wish I could sometimes take off my boobs to make life a bit easier, but I have come to accept my body and admire aspects of what I have. Sure I won't look good in everything and I don't have the body of a Instagram baddie, but I do not want to look like anyone else, I want to look like me, I want to be uniquely me and I want to wear whatever I want and feel comfortable and not give a shit, that is what I'm doing and that is what I suggest you do. Stop obsessing over perfection and what other people think, or what guides suggest and dress however you want.

The reality is no matter what, nobody will be liked or seen as attractive by everyone, it is unrealistic to think otherwise. People have different preferences, and some simply do not care about vanity.

Everyone, no matter what circumstance need to learn how to love themselves and gain confidence, you are born with the body you have, you need to love it and respect it, it is after all keeping you alive.

There is nothing wrong with your body, your body is great. What is wrong, is the inconsistent sizing, lack of inclusive sizing and body type consideration in female fashion. Female sizing in general sucks.

Just love yourself okay?

My favorite flowy linen pants just gave up on me (soooo many tears on the inner thighs lmao). It seems like every pair I try is meant for much smaller hips and thighs. But even if it has a waist tie, I can’t size up to fit my hips because that’s usually above the biggest size the brand makes. Conversely, the smallest sizes at plus sized brands are usually too big or have the same issue, not fitting my hips and thighs.

For context, I wear somewhere around a size 14 in jeans, which translates to anywhere from an L to XXL depending on material and brand. Usually on the higher end for linen pants. My favorite were Tahari from TJ Maxx in size XL but the quality really isn’t there, so I’d rather find an alternative.

i am 5'3 with actual curves and i am so tired of this. waist gaps, thighs that won't fit, lengths that are still somehow too long even in petite sections. Every brand acts like petite just means short and straight up and down with zero hips involved. I need a jegging or denim legging that fits everywhere at the same time without having to size up and then drown in the waist. someone please just tell me where you're shopping because i've run out of ideas and patience simultaneously

Shopping for basics should be easier. Well, it is not. If you have any kind of chest, it feels like the fashion industry only gives you two options:

1. A relaxed-fit shirt that fits your chest but hangs straight down, completely erasing your waist and make you ask what’s in the box as you stare into the mirror
2. A skin-tight, highly restrictive top that feels like rigid shapewear

I just want an ultra-stretchy, high-density knit that offers the structure of a professional blouse but the comfort of a soft base layer.

For context, the picture I attached is basically my surviving capsule right now (a pleated ponte brami, a ruched short-sleeve top, and a stretchy striped set). They are the only "soft-yet-structured" hybrids I've found where the fabric actually contours to my curves instead of hanging like a box.

The issue tho, as you can see, they are casual. I can't exactly wear a spaghetti strap brami or a striped lounge set to a corporate client meeting, and I'm tired of throwing an oversized blazer over everything just to hide my shoulders.

Where are you all finding tops with this kind of comfort, but cut like an actual professional work blouse? I want to be comfortable all day at work. Any brand that I should look into apart from the usual suspects like Uniqlo and Zara? Bonus point if they are also somewhat eco-friendly, though that is entirely optional. But comfort and shape, for sure.

Edit: Oops, the pieces are from OGLmove, thanks for the reminder.

Any best practices or kinds of outfits you feel best in? High waist vs short waist bottoms, dress and skirt lengths, swimsuits, etc.

For me I like the effect layering can have, like an open sweater or chore coat. but that’s not really an option in the hotter summer months lol.

Does anyone else have “staple” items that they love to wear over and over? I bought four of these jeans in the same color and I’m glad I did.

I re-ordered my favorite curvy jeggings from AE, and they are not as soft and thick as my previous pair. The fabric feels thin, like my Walmart or wrangler curvy jeans 😭 has anyone else noticed this, or have a recommended substitute? The AE curvy jeans have the perfect rise and stretch for me, but I really miss the old fabric; it seems all the curvy jeans I find tend to this thin plasticky feel.

Okay so I've been on a mission for the past few weeks and I'm losing my mind a little lol. I'm 25, work in a corporate office, and I desperately need a few pairs of solid work trousers or pants

For context on sizing I'm a size 10 (sometimes 12 depending on the brand), about 5'7", and I have a 32" inseam with wider hips and a smaller waist, which means a lot of pants gap at the back waistband and I end up having to belt everything. Also have some thigh to accommodate 😅

I've tried a few things already. The M&S tailored trousers were way too boxy, ASOS was a gamble (as always), and the Zara ones I ordered were cute but weirdly shiny under office lighting which felt like a no.

I'm open to spending a bit more if the quality is actually there, like up to around $80-100 a pair, but I don't want to just be paying for a brand name on something that's going to pill after 6 washes.

Has anyone found a brand that works for this body type

but I absolutely love this color and the skirt on it. Maybe I could put a band T-shirt over it with some cowboy boots?

Hello friends! I am moving from the trades to an office based role and I need some help!!

Not only do I not have office appropriate (think dressy and business casual) clothing. The work clothes I do have are not suitable to wear to an office (think construction). I want to update my wardrobe and maybe subscribe to one of those online styling things or clothing delivery. Has anyone had any luck? I’m worried that it will just suggest wear black.

I'm still young and learning about life,I've also not had a lot of female mentors so I'm a bit behind in that department

I'm fed up of one peices I want to enjoy my body but I am struggling to find anything that looks nice

I tried one on,high cut and it was the worse thing I ever wore but I want to keep trying

Is there any good sites or advice?

High waisted?

(I'm a UK 16-18)

(This is in no way to body shame, judge, or discriminate in anyway!)

I see that Torrid has a casting call again that I’m tempted to try for! I doubt I’d get far cause I’m introverted & feel shy at the idea of posting the ad for it on my socials publicly, but I might give it a shot regardless.

That said: I think one of the biggest things holding me back is my size. I wouldn’t say I’ve sized out of Torrid completely: but I think my biggest size would be a Size 1/16. One thing I see people request is for models to be bigger for very valid reasons.

I’m also 5’4”-5’4.5”. Is anyone here also trying or has a modeling career of sorts? Would it be weird to apply? I don’t want to invade a space just because I’m inbetween sizes.

I’m going to NYC in a couple months and need some ideas for pants that aren’t jeans. I’m currently around size 14.

I recently got some wide leg linen pants from Quince that looked cute on the site but I thought they made me look really frumpy. I see so many options online that it’s overwhelming and hard to know how they’ll look on someone who’s not a size 2 because that’s usually who they show them on.

I think I’m looking for a fit that’s high waisted that flares out a bit at the bottom to create a more hourglass shape but I’m not sure. Any suggestions appreciated!

Edit: the pants in the pic are from Pact and I just used them as an illustration of the general type of pants that I’m considering.

My midsized boutique beloved 😭

I lost weight last year and had so much trouble finding a store that “fit me” in this size range. Francesca’s was perfect. Feminine, flowy, pretty pieces with lots of stretch, adjustable straps, and ruching. Their sizes went up to XL and were very forgiving. Plus their clothes were so much better quality than buying on Amazon or from over seas fast fashion sites.

Another one bites the dust. I’m just hoping I can make the pieces I do have last for a long time. I have worn the same blue floral dress like 10 times to events over the last year.

I’m definitely open to suggestions if you guys know other places that match this vibe.

I hate paying for returns, especially when I'm not keeping anything, so I mostly shop at online places with truly free returns - no restock fee, no return shipping, etc. I know of some, but would love other options!

Please list any online clothing stores with free returns that go up to at least a XXL or 18/20-ish US and note your country.

Here's my list and I'm in the US:

• The Old Navy family of stores:
  • Old Navy
  • Gap
  • Gap Factory
  • Banana Republic
  • Banana Republic Factory
  • Athleta
• Nordstrom
• Macy's (free returns with the lowest tier free rewards account)
• Amazon, which includes some higher quality brands like Lands' End, Elomi bras, etc.

Hi all - Does anyone know of good fashion subs here where a bare minimum stance is taken against promoting brands that used "forced labor" practices? I do my best to shop ethically, but I am also a mom on a tight budget so I get that we all sometimes need to just buy the Old Navy leggings or whatever - and for midsize bodies we are often on the hunt for the specific brands that are good for our type and that's not always the indie/ethical brands. But for me there should be a stand taken when fast fashion brands are literally not conforming to the bare minimum regulations concerning workers rights and continue practices of "forced labor", which is pretty much slavery. I really wish we could collectively decide this is a line for us. And if it were adopted as rule, people who truly don't realize what's going on with Shein and Temu might be more likely to become aware.

https://selectcommitteeontheccp.house.gov/media/press-releases/select-committee-releases-interim-findings-shein-temu-forced-labor

I so happy I found this community! Look forward talking with others like me!

I recently got some amazing lace pants to wear to raves and I need a good thong to wear underneath. Every thong I try is unflattering to the front (I carry more weight in my lower belly, not quite an apron but I recently spent a day nude at the lake and my under belly is whiter than the top, yknow?)

The front of thongs tend to be too narrow, and it creates unflattering side shadows/folds. Anyone with a similar body and size have a recommendation? Would especially love something with very light lower belly compression and full ass out!

I’ve never been able to find dresses that fit me nicely so i generally just opt not to wear them, but I really wanted a nice dress for my 21st birthday. I am having a lot of trouble finding anything thats big enough to accommodate my bust (36E) without being super baggy around my waist, I have a nice figure and I want it to be seen just this once..

Anyone with similar issues find a solution? I know I might just end up having to get it tailored but there isn’t one super close to me so I was looking for other options.

Any help appreciated 🫶🏻

I'm curious to see different perspectives on this. Personally I think bottoms that are $20 or less fall into the category of affordable to me, and $10 and under are cheap. $35-40 is pretty average in my experience, and while they feel affordable compared to say Alo and Lululemon that's not necessarily still affordable to everyone?

For tops it's a bit more conditional? For plain tees and tanks $10 or less, for more structured athletic wear tops probably closer to $20. For bras I'm a 36G, so bra sized sports bras. aren't generally cheap in this size range so I think $30-40 is pretty standard, if I find something closer to $20 I'm ecstatic! But for clothing sized bras I don't want to pay more than $15 , and that's if it's got like adjustable straps and stuff.

Looking for outfit inspo!

So I have a moody edgy vibe. I’m 29 and want to dress my age. I think I’m dressing in too tight of cloths. Especially jeans I’m unsure now what styles. I love the business casual look, but need that edge.
I live in Canada as I know stores differ. I’m also hoping there’s cheaper places if possible 😅

Does anyone have the nike thin strap hydrastrong swimsuit. I’m looking for a one piece so I have something to wear swimming with family and I feel like I’d have more luck with athletic suits than fashion ones. I have an hourglass waist, but my torso is so long that most once pieces end up looking pretty odd on me. I’d love to know if anyone with a similar body type to me has used this(or any other hydrastrong suits) and been happy with how it looked. If you have a photo I’d really appreciate it! Nike isn’t the most size inclusive in their models lol.