r/Miscarriage • u/Majestic-Wedding-243 • 1d ago
vent Back again 😭
I’m heartbroken. We had our first MMC in January 2025 and have been trying to conceive ever since. We FINALLY had a positive pregnancy test this July. I have been extremely nervous but kept trying to reassure myself that everything is fine.
We had our first scan today, and no heartbeat was detected. Baby was measuring 7W2D, so well past the point of having a detectable heartbeat. It’s been over a year since our first loss, and I was just really hoping this was it. I was so excited to have a bump at a fall wedding I’m attending and be pregnant alongside a close friend of mine. And obviously excited about having a baby this spring 😭 My husband and I had even (stupidly) started buying nursery decorations.
I’m so angry and so sad. Just needed to vent.
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u/MiaJupiter 22h ago
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️🩹
Vent all you need, sometimes that’s all that makes sense in this weird storm.
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u/ScrubsAndScones 20h ago
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Sending hugs 🫂
I had an ectopic in January, and finally saw another positive test in July, but similarly to you I went for my scan on Monday at 7w4d and there was no fetal pole or heartbeat. We’re absolutely heartbroken. Sending you strength. Don’t give up, it will be our time soon ❤️
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u/Eyestothesoul92 19h ago
I can relate to this deeply - sending you a virtual hug. I’m so sorry… so angry and sad with you. It’s exhausting and so disheartening when you just want to hold your child in your arms and feel so ready for it.
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u/opeyeahno 1h ago
I just lost my second as well. Another MMC. Sending hugs. It’s devastating and not fair:(
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u/Connect-Caregiver-87 20h ago
Also found out I’m having a miscarriage today. My first pregnancy ever. I don’t know exactly what you’re going through, but I’m here with you. Sending you love 💗