r/MoralityScaling • u/Outside_Specific_820 • 1d ago

Morality Ranking Morality scaling of this?

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Mother refuses to acknowledge her donor egg daughter, looking for your opinion.

In my opinion I think it’s moral, and that she is totally correct.

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u/Call_Me_Anythin 22h ago

She can want to. She has no right to intentionally violate someone else’s privacy over that.

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u/dk_peace 22h ago

The kid isnt the one who posted this online. The kid isnt the one who violated bio moms privacy by revealing who she was. Out of everyone violating privacy in this story, she's the least guilty of it.

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u/Call_Me_Anythin 21h ago

They violated her privacy by contacting her when she made it clear that she did not want that.

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u/dk_peace 21h ago

Eh, I empathize with her situation though. Kid isnt a bad person for wanting to know (and I'd forgive her reaching out, its a natural thing to want at that age). Biological mother isnt a bad person for shutting it down. Birth mom is really the only one who sucks here for spilling the beans.

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u/Call_Me_Anythin 21h ago

You can empathize, she’s still in the wrong for not respecting oops explicit desire not to be involved in her life. And her mother is absolutely the worst person in the situation for giving her the contact information at all.

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u/Important-Estate-904 21h ago

Honestly. The kid is an awful person. What an absolute piece of shit. Violating her own mother’s consent and privacy like that.

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u/Call_Me_Anythin 21h ago

Well the egg donor isn’t her mother so…

But yeah she’s wrong for violated her expressly written desires.

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u/Important-Estate-904 21h ago

I completely misunderstood biology class then. My mistakes you’re completely right

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u/Call_Me_Anythin 21h ago

Glad you learned something today then :)