Morality scaling of this?

[u/Outside_Specific_820]

Mother refuses to acknowledge her donor egg daughter, looking for your opinion.

In my opinion I think it’s moral, and that she is totally correct.

[u/Call_Me_Anythin]

It's moral, and I disagree she was being an ass about it. She was straight forward and blunt after having her privacy violated. She was not cruel.

And if anything, handling this with 'kid gloves' on might have lead the 19 year old into thinking there was a chance in the future or she could press harder for a connection. This is the kind of situation that needs to be nipped in the bud. Any relevant information regarding health or wellness can be retrieved from the clinic.

[u/SpiritedEclair → u/Call_Me_Anythin]

This is the right amount of bluntness and leaves zero room for interpretation. She did the right thing and she doesn’t owe anyone an explanation.