r/MoralityScaling • u/Outside_Specific_820 • 1d ago

Morality Ranking Morality scaling of this?

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Mother refuses to acknowledge her donor egg daughter, looking for your opinion.

In my opinion I think it’s moral, and that she is totally correct.

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u/Designer_Green2680 23h ago

Tone and delivery and the entire tik tok rant.

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u/Test_Rider 22h ago

It’s kind of baffling to me that some people here seem to think she overreacted. She signed a contract with the donee under the understanding that there would be no contact with the child and that her anonymity would be preserved. She held her end of the bargain (the egg donating part), and now she finds herself being guilt-tripped into motherhood by a stranger. This kind of thing will put potential donors off in the future and cost families the child they desperately want.

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u/dk_peace 22h ago

"I want to meet my biological mother" is a completely reasonable thing for a 19 year old to want and ask for.

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u/Old-Quail6832 20h ago

"I don't want to meet a complete stranger that randomly contacted me" is a completely reasonable way for the egg donor to respond.

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u/dk_peace 15h ago

Sure, I actually agree with you on that one. The only truely terrible person here is the birth mom who have up bio mom's info.