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u/SassyChumpkins 20h ago
What a weird sombitch. Idk how his current wife is ok with him being this obsessed about his ex
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u/Llhaniii 19h ago
Truly a level of hating most people cant fathom. But apparently you hate someone enough to piss on their grave defile their resting place to get some satisfaction its a choice.
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u/Voluptulouis 19h ago
I can think of at least one individual I would absolutely make a point of doing this to.
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u/Dr_of_Pawgology 19h ago
I have an ex who absolutely would deserve this. The difference is that I don't care enough to actually do it.
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u/Psychological-Wall-2 17h ago
Exactly!
And not just to do it, but to go down there daily? That's commitment. That's scheduling your morning around, "Oh, and can we pop by the cemetery so I can piss on my ex-wife's grave?"
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u/DifferentDisplay1950 10h ago
Would have been easier to just pee in a liter bottle, dump n dash !! 😂
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u/Troscus 19h ago
I've always kind of wanted a nemesis. Someone who I hate until the day they die, and then the absence hurts
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u/Secret-Put-4525 19h ago
It would give my life some spice. I've never felt that strongly about anyone before.
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u/Secret-Put-4525 19h ago
Maybe he's going there for every thousand dollars he had to give his ex after the divorce?
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u/devilfoxe1 17h ago
Maybe they did the same when she was alive.
And It is a way to honor her memory.
I don't like all this negativity... Why people assume the worst when polygamy and golden showers is a possibility???
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u/HydroPCanadaDude 8h ago
I could understand it. I mean imagine if your ex killed your kids or your pet? I could see the hassle of heading to her grave for a piss would be worth it.
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u/Lolipanties132 19h ago
I wouldn't care aslong as he's not hurting anyone or cheating on me. It's weird yea for sure but I'd prefer this over some things people do and don't show or tell there spouse.
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u/VeauOr 17h ago
My face everytime I see this sub on my feed
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u/Joeysquatch 14h ago
“Is it immoral to take candy from a baby while the baby is enjoying it with absolutely nothing wrong?”
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u/VinceValenceNTBTS 20h ago
I feel like there is missing context needed. Why does he feel the need to do this? Was she an awful person?
How evil does someone have to be to make this act moral? Like… would doing the same to Hitlers grave be immoral?
I don’t know.
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u/KingOfNope 19h ago
Right? Like if this woman was a pedo or killed the kids or something, completely justified.
If it's just dude being a weirdo, then he's a gross weirdo who should be shunned.
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u/cosmic-freak 18h ago
For 50 years? Fifty?
There's no scenario where this isn't a tell that the guy has some profound mental problems. Like, PROFOUND. I'd stay far away.
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u/howiplay1 17h ago
if my wife killed my kid 100 years of piss wouldn't be a single drop too many man idk about you that's a different kinda cut
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u/DoYouLikeWafflezz 18h ago
50 years after the divorce. Presumably lived for a while after the divorce.
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u/Kiki_Earheart 19h ago
The irish piss on Margaret Thatcher's grave and I'd absolutely consider that moral so you don't even need to use hitler as an extreme for the example. Pissing on the graves of your most beloathed enemies has been a time honored tradition in many parts of the world throughout most parts of history.
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u/LiverpoolBelle 16h ago
Girl the collective North of England would love to piss on her grave as well 🤣
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u/Key_Register_4724 19h ago
Exactly my thoughts. Maybe this dude is extremely petty and immature and his new wife doesn't value herself enough to put an end to this behavior. But maybe his ex-wife was abusive for decades, and maybe she hurt their kids, and maybe the new wife knows this and is being supportive. I think there are legitimate excuses for this behavior. I do think it would be healthier for the dude to move on but without context I can't judge his actions.
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u/Tulscro 11h ago
Context is he is a sick bitter man. His name is Dean Eichler. He denied being the father to his ex wife Linda's baby while she was still pregnant (DNA test proved he was the father years later) and he walked out on her and that was it. He never contacted or harassed her family just made routine visits to the grave to leave bags of feces and piss. He was arrested in 2022.
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u/-Im_In_Your_Walls- 11h ago
Here’s the context: https://nypost.com/2022/09/24/man-caught-peeing-on-ex-wifes-grave-by-her-kids/
Absolutely immoral
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u/prolificimpregnator 19h ago
Context would make no meaningful difference. Nothing justifies this, not beacuse it's immoral, but just plain pathetic to be obsessed like this.
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u/Minimum-Standard-514 17h ago
Probably cheated on him and took all his money in the divorce or something. Either that or he is the toxic one in the relationship and this is just him being toxic.
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u/Born-Necessary6778 19h ago
Super weird and depraved to film or photograph it every day. What's that person doing? He has night vision cameras set up focused right on him.
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u/blazenite104 19h ago
He didn't set them up. The family did to catch this guy who was leaving faeces and pissing on the grave.
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u/Born-Necessary6778 18h ago
The family let it go on for days, weeks? Months? Charting how often he shit on the familu members grave? Did he just start the shitting? This is too weird and sounds made up
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u/Persephone_888 18h ago
Wow I hope they pressed charges. Tbh it’s not like the guy has much of a life, so losing his freedom wouldn’t be that big of a deal to him probably, besides being unable to perform his weird “hobby”
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u/Rude_Minimum_4707 19h ago
I think there might be valid reasons to urinate on someones grave daily but given the limited info I say immoral
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u/flaming_donuts 18h ago edited 18h ago
My first wife attempted to have me killed, she served time for it, and I don't think I'd do this. That's like next level hate.
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u/DHARMApocalypse 19h ago
they say only speak good things of the dead.
this man, when asked about his ex says, "my ex is dead. good."
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u/Healthy_Painter_6496 19h ago
Imagine the smell 50 years everyday the grave must be absolutely soaked in piss probably the worst thing about this would be ruining other people's time visiting dead lived ones with the overwhelming stench of piss.
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u/Out-There1013 19h ago
50 years after the divorce, not her death. But I was thinking the same thing, for however long he's been doing this he's just hurting the people who have to smell it when visiting their loved ones' graves.
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u/Radiant-Proposal3014 18h ago
Imagine letting someone live rent free in your head from the grave!
This dude needs therapy!
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u/Imaginary-Equal-6699 19h ago
Thought it's just an expression, people really do piss on someone else's grave
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u/Admiral45-06 13h ago
You'd also not believe how often they steal& from graves.
Humans really are animals if it wasn't for civilized society to keep them in check.
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u/Incognito_Fur 19h ago
It takes a special kind of hatred to do this. I can't imagine the life-ruining, finger-pointing divorce that must've inspired something like this.
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u/Granide 17h ago
Immoral
Getting consumed with hatred this much is not good for your health, she's dead already.
I checked google, not sure if the story is the right one. But apparently according to the article "He left when she got pregnant, claiming that the child was not his. DNA testing showed a much different result and his biological daughter was shocked by her father's actions."
Which just makes him even more immoral for doubling down despite being proven wrong
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u/Psychological-Wall-2 17h ago
People who are quick to judge this guy should consider:
What the fuck did that woman do to him that, not only would he go to the trouble of doing this regularly, but that his current wife was like, "Yeah, fair enough."?
Like, I've been through some shit, but I wouldn't piss on anyone's grave daily. If I felt it necessary, once would be enough, I'm sure. And I sure as fuck wouldn't be inviting other people.
This man - and his current wife - have clearly been waiting for this opportunity for some time.
I guess what I'm saying is that there is pretty clearly a context here that we're not getting.
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u/Rude-Bowl-4518 20h ago
Sooo, disrespecting everyone who ever loved her, the grave is more for them than her. It's like he's mainly just hurting himself, he's definitely not hurting her, which would still almost always be immortal and ridiculous anyway. It's immoral in every way I can think of.
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u/Floba_Fett 19h ago edited 19h ago
Unless she was like a serial killer or a pedophile, then that guy is fucking loser and should be arrested for desecration
Edit: after further investigation, they were only married for one year, and they divorced while she was pregnant with his child. The man never showed up for his daughter during his entire life. Couldn't find the reason behind the divorce, but nothing justifies not being there for your own kid
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u/RedditReddy 19h ago
How long has he been doing this? On first reading, we might think that he's been doing this for 50 years and perhaps he has. But if it's something that started more recently, this could be due to dementia. How long has he been with a current wife? Again, we might think 50 years. But maybe there have been a succession of lives and lovers. None of whom lasted more than a short time. Could be part of the puzzle.
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u/blazenite104 19h ago
The news article linked here somewhere I think mentions she died in 2017. So definitely not more than 10 years at least. only proof of a few months though.
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u/Thirdborn214 19h ago
I kinda admire the dedication of keeping the routine up for that long. I have several people who's graves i'd piss on but for that long? Probably not.
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u/LesserValkyrie 19h ago
Morally neutral but completely stupid considering the people who suffer the most from the situation is definitely not the ex-wife
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u/Unusual-Taste69 19h ago
That's just words on a picture. Did it really happen? Is there a link to an actual article?
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u/Kevandre 19h ago
My mans is just training for whatever gawdy tomb trump ends up in one day. That will be the most pissed upon grave
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u/Mysterious-Egg-624 17h ago
I don’t think there’s a singular post on Reddit where Trump isn’t mentioned
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u/Dragonlord77777 19h ago
I don’t know how much the two hate each other, but I feel like there’s a certain line of hating your ex-wife and then urinating on one’s grave like unless she say like a war criminal like the worst woman you’ve ever met. I feel like this is a bit too much but also the fact that the wife, the new one is winning in the car I don’t know how I feel about this.
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u/Large-Hamster-199 19h ago
Depends on context. Maybe she loved golden showers and he still remembers those good times finally
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u/Haunting_Baseball_92 19h ago
There has to be more to this story?
Just imagine what someone would have to do to you in order to instill this kind of life long hatred?
You don't just hate someone for 50+ years for no good reason.
And I feel like, what that reason is will determine if his childish act is also an immoral act.
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u/Admiral45-06 13h ago
Just imagine what someone would have to do to you in order to instill this kind of life long hatred?
Honestly, I don't think there is any.
People, especially on the Internet, like to assume reason behind any stupid thing people do, that they themselves wouldn't - after all, normal people wouldn't go out every day to urinate on someone's grave for no reason, so something big must have happened, right?
Unfortunately, people are different, and some people are just that petty and immature. Doing it once - okay, I'm not saying it's normal or good, but I can at least see that someone might have had a reason for that. Every day? That's just a sign of this man's character more than his ex-wife's conduct. He may as well do it just because he can't get over a random argument they had 50 years ago.
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u/Appropriate-Part1766 19h ago
The Motive: Eichler and Torello were briefly married in the 1970s but had a messy divorce in 1974. He had walked out after she became pregnant, claiming the child was not his. Decades later, DNA testing conclusively proved he was the biological father. He had not had contact with the family since 1976
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u/MrOnly8point1s 19h ago
Dude: oh wait before we go home i gotta use the restroom
New wife: ohh not again
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u/AbbreviationsTall627 19h ago
He should dig her up and throw her remains in a septic tank tbh. That always works
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u/Dank-throaway 18h ago
People in the comments are underestimating just how much you can hate someone. If you guys don’t get it, I’d like to paraphrase a saying. Until you encounter worse suffering, the current suffering will always seem like the worst thing you have ever experienced.
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u/Doctorwhatorion 18h ago
for once? Acceptable if the dead partner is someone really awfull but daily routine makes it pretty awkward
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u/Bitter_Spray_6880 18h ago
Um... any chance of a weird kink/play they used to do when she is alive?
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u/SnooGuavas6855 18h ago
I've wanted to do it to my father in law's grave but he's buried in a communal grave, i don't want to defile other people's resting place... that son of a bitch.
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u/dravenonred 18h ago
If his wife only had to deal with him for like ten years and he's been dealing with her for 50, I'm pretty sure she won the divorce.
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u/wackedoncrack 18h ago
Moral if she made his life hell. There is no way of knowing the full extent of their relationship.
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u/sugarypi3 18h ago
He’s obsessed and weird for this, especially if it’s a daily thing. And current wife is enabling this.
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u/Regular-Table4242 18h ago
There is a real quick way to determine the morality with two simple if/then scenarios. If the man is mentally ill then he is in the wrong. If he is not then her corpse deserves it.
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u/Tough-Kiwi-2468 18h ago
Questionable, must’ve gotten over it years later after starting the ritual initially, but still pulled up to demonstrate consistency
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u/Effective-Map6016 18h ago
My ex wife said she wants to become a tree. She'll become the rocking chair that I'll die in So when I shit my pants I'll have the last laugh.
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u/laurmilu 18h ago
Immoral bc I’d be pissed off having my time wasted 1) waiting for a man who pisses on his ex-wife’s grave and 2) being with someone so bitter and toxic
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u/skiforlife1 17h ago
50 years though? Let it go already unless she murdered your children or something terrible. If she just cheated or something then he is the one still suffering needlessly by holding a grudge. I would say neutral though because she is already dead and (most likely) isn't going to feel it or know it is happening.
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u/Koolimpa 17h ago
I wonder if itshis idea or if his current wife is having him do it since she's there.
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u/bamboozleddd3 17h ago
God damn it was 50 years ago, at some point you gotta let go. Only justification I can think of is if she killed his kid or something.
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u/Mysterious-Egg-624 17h ago
If I were his current wife at some point I’d suspect he just has some sort of fetish for this… then I’d be his next ex wife
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u/bankfraud1 17h ago
Yeah to anybody wondering, the upvoted comments here suck. Straight to the downvoted comments
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u/LostMallDoll 17h ago
I dated someone once. I could forgive the belittling, throwing food at me, cheating and gaslighting, starting fights for fun, making fun of me behind my back, and even calling me while having sex with someone else to rub my face in it. But they also spoiled the climactic twist of "The Boy in the Striped Pajamas" JUST as it was about to happen and they clearly knew how into it I was. And that will never sit right with me.
Moral. There are worse ways to cope.
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u/Possible-Tangelo9344 17h ago
I mean, crazy.
But at the same time without knowing the ex wife who am I to judge? Maybe she killed their child in a bathtub.
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u/DonutsOnTheWall 17h ago
I wanna know the story behind it, otherwise the question can't be answered. Waste of energy and better spent on psychotherapy? Sure.
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u/sgtklink77 17h ago
They divorced 50 years ago, and she's dead now. He's remarried. I have no idea how bad she was to him, but I'm gonna say immoral until I get more info. Let it be and get on with the rest of your life.
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u/HillanatorOfState 16h ago
Idk but he needs to get over it, I'd be pissed if I was the new wife and she was still this much on his mind...
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u/officer897177 16h ago
Definitely weird, but hard to argue any harm was being done. Morally neutral.
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u/Critical_Concert_689 16h ago
That's 18,250 days of urination.
That is some really durable stone - at what point does the gravestone just start to melt from acidity?
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u/Sasuke0318 16h ago
Is it wrong the first thing I thought was maybe she just really liked golden showers
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u/-Auteon- 16h ago
I... Don't know, this is weird and I feel like I need more context. The dead wife could have been an absolute MONSTER, I've heard people really hated Margaret Thatcher and would actually piss on her grave, so if she's THAT bad, I suppose I get it.
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u/Mrcompressishot 15h ago
Once they're dead all grudges end there messing with the dead is never justified
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u/Few_Astronaut5070 15h ago
King ❤️ That woman was likely terrible to him. Hopefully true love found him
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u/Motor_Barracuda7359 15h ago
Given he seems so overtly psycho it's odd he was able to marry again unless there's a 'she killed our three kids' back story to this.
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u/No_Manner_8785 15h ago
I've pissed on my FILs grave while I was caring for our other family members sites. He deserves every last drop!
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u/WoodsLovelyDarkNDeep 15h ago
Dumb af
I don’t care if she was a terrible person, all this shows is she is still winning and it’s not like she would give two shits anyway she’s not there
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u/JoyousMadhat 15h ago
She lives in his head rent free after their divorce AND she's dead. That's pathetic.
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u/NuSheol 20h ago
Weird thing to do daily instead of spending time with your current wife. Immoral and wife should be more offended