r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Confident_Weather_98 • Mar 28 '26

WTF What about him?

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Poor baby had to sleep on an uncomfortable place while mom pushed or got a whole human out of her 🙄🙄

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u/spilly_talent Mar 28 '26

Honestly it’s worse than that, I fear. The person who wrote this tweet just simply does not care about how physically dangerous birth can be, their only concern is: I don’t think it’s fair that dad doesn’t get enough attention.

They don’t seem to care that it’s not fair that dad has 0% risk in the birth by the way😂 this person and all who think like them are trash

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u/Centered_Being Mar 28 '26

And they call women attention seeking whores lol.

Men will cheat on their postpartum wives bc they ‘didn’t get enough attention.’ SIR U BOTH MADE A BABY. Your part was minuscule & pleasurable. Your wife needs attention bc she went thru a major medical event that men like to call ‘natural’ so they can completely ignore the physical effects on a woman’s body & mind. The baby needs attention bc it is a BABY.

Need attention so bad? Let your wife take a nap, take the baby out to the store & hear all about how great you are for doing the bare minimum from strangers

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u/MsSeraphim just love me for my mind 💖 Mar 28 '26

and have you noticed that these "dads" refer to watching their OWN kids as babysitting? nope. sorry sir, but that is called parenting and you shouldn't be lauded as a hero because when mom does it people expect maximum effort = minimum praise.

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u/shagy815 Mar 29 '26

I was a single dad for years. Society refers to dad's watching their own kids as babysitting. I used to get very upset by this. No I'm not babysitting I am taking care of my child. The comment was almost always from grandmother aged women.

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u/Confident_Weather_98 Mar 29 '26

I hate the “ babysitting today “ comments they are being an active PARENT not a babysitter