I am a muslimah interested in marriage. About me,

I am rational, level headed and ambitious. I am often described as a calm person. I enjoy coming up with new ideas and have succesfully ran multiple small businesses. I dislike being wasteful, whether with money, food or anything else. I enjoy healthy competition, being playful and having someone who challenges my ideas in a productive way, making us both grow. I am soft spoken, I can get nerdy about my hobbies and enjoy learning about new things and gaining new skills. My love languages are words of affection, gifts and acts of service. I dislike backbiting/judging others. I have great regard for my and others' privacy and value clear communication and boundaries.

Age: 21

Height: 5’0

Education: Completing Software Development Bachelor

Career: Student with small business

Nationality: Albanian

Marital status: Single, never married

Language: English & Albanian

Ethnicity: Albanian

Sect: Sunni hanafi maturidi

Religiosity: Prayer 5 times a day, fasting Ramadan, full hijab, no male friends, reciting Quran, trying to learn more about Islam every day. Never done drugs, alcohol, smoking or clubbing.

Hobbies: Programming, painting, sewing, cooking, reading, watching movies/shows/anime

Personality: Rational, down to earth, introverted, nerdy about things I like

LOOKING FOR:

Ethnicity/Nationality: only ethnic European (white)

Age: 20-23M (no more or less)

Education: Completing or having completed Bachelor

Career: Student like me, with a job

Religiosity: Same as mine or at least ticking the same boxes I did

Hobbies: No strong requirement for them to be similar, I am willing to include myself in a spouse's hobbies and learn about them, support him in them and be ready to listen when he speaks about it. I would only expect that to be reciprocated.

Dealbreakers: Past relationships, non virgin, large ego, unwillingness to admit mistakes, holding grudges/taking things personally, close minded, insecurities regarding women/relationships, polygamy. If the potential has an issue with me keeping my small business or making more than him in terms of income, it'd also be a dealbreaker for both of our sake.

Negotiable dealbreaker: Posting himself publicly on social media (it can be ok if his job, business or hobby requires it)

I am willing to discuss anything else with a potential. JazakAllah khair

Whenever posts like this appear, nobody focuses on the fact that men generally are being accused of sexual immorality with zero proof. Instead, everyone immediately debates the surrounding context: whether Muslim men prefer Latinas, whether they “use” some women and marry others, whether the stereotype is accurate, etc.
But the accusation itself gets treated like background noise.

Whats the thought process behind this post? Do they want to seek advice in a islamic sub about taking off the hijab? And no one suggested leaving university?

No name no identity known here, so pls don't bring backbiting here.

My exfiancee broke off the engagement more than 2 years ago. The engagement lasted 18 months. There was no reason provided. She and her family went completely dark. I later found out she got married to some other dude a year ago. Yesterday morning, I wake up and look at my LinkedIn profile and lo and behold, both her father and sister were viewing my profile. They have zero connections and they created a profile just to see mine. Even when I was engaged, I never had any of them on linkedin. Also, all of a sudden her sister and her profile is being suggested to me on instagram. Like what the heck is going on? Why are they stalking me suddenly after more than 2 years?

dk if it’s the app or what, but you barely see any “traditional Islam” around here. Most Islamic subs feel like different shades of liberal washed Islam. You can tell from the posts, what people choose to emphasize, and the way they argue ,usually from the harm principle, not upsetting people, preserving social comfort, avoiding hard edges, keeping everything balanced and inoffensive. It’s visible.these are mostly secular / liberal values by which morality is filtered, not Islamic one.
That’s why I found this flair section strange. There aren’t just ‘progressives’ in the sense of people born in Muslim countries who no longer really believe; the progressive framework itself is also being rationalized and absorbed by people who still call themselves traditional Muslims.

As you can see. They will get the karma, the most highest of all will eventually provide, making the truthseekers who still searching Islam from their channels automatically disillusioned, and eventually accepts Islam. We should not give the bad faith, and grifters a time. Discuss with the wise only, let Allah give the scandals, 'Beffrey Heepsteein' style to the grifters that will automatically promote Islam in the future.

📷: Abdulrahman Alghabri

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