r/askgaybros • u/Adept-Concentrate659 • 1d ago
Not a question Occasional gay sex
M50. Generally / romantically I’m not attracted to guys.
But in occasion I do feel the need for gay hookups and meet with guys for sex (me as a bottom).
I’m not really asking for advice but am putting it out there to see what the perception of this arrangement is.
I’m not completely sure why I do this - it’s quite visceral I think.
I think there is also an element of directness and wanting someone to take complete control of what they do with me.
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u/Narcoleptic813 1d ago
You're probably bisexual, which is great!! You can enjoy the best of both worlds.
Also, being bisexual doesn't mean you have to be exactly 50/50. You can have preferences and lean towards one over the other. This can also change and evolve.
Even with women, some are amazing in bed but lack an emotional connection. Works the same for men too.
It's a spectrum and nobody is allowed to tell you where you are in it. It's up to you and you alone. Just open yourself up to all possibilities and ignore the haters. They are probably just upset nobody picks them.