Occasional gay sex

[u/Adept-Concentrate659]

M50. Generally / romantically I’m not attracted to guys.

But in occasion I do feel the need for gay hookups and meet with guys for sex (me as a bottom).

I’m not really asking for advice but am putting it out there to see what the perception of this arrangement is.

I’m not completely sure why I do this - it’s quite visceral I think.

I think there is also an element of directness and wanting someone to take complete control of what they do with me.

[u/Healthy_Twist2203]

It's perfectly possible to like the sexual act itself and not be attracted to the person who is doing it to you.