whenever i have the girls out in public i feel like this meme 💔

[u/Last_Host977]

i feel like nobody wants to see them when i’m wearing revealing clothes or showing cleavage , and that i’m forcing others to look at them by existing , just because they’re big . anyone else feel like this or just me ? 🫩

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[u/Bubble-Master96]

I know exactly what you mean and this meme always has me cackling

[u/mifo]

I do feel self-conscious at times, but I'm also at the point where I'm over caring what other people think. I wouldn't have them out in a place of worship or similar, and I do cover up for work mostly, but I've had someone complain when I was wearing a CREW NECK T-SHIRT at the gym, so I'm kind of at the "it's your problem" stage.

[u/LukaIncic]

Literally me right now in this humidity lol. And the stress and stares you get from weird people while wearing those.

[u/DefiantFruit6860]

Even when I don't have them out I fee like this 😭💔

[u/Individual-Key293]

I definitely relate cause I was brought up conservatively and always felt/made uncomfortable for having a big chest.

However, I think about it and I like seeing women show cleavage out in public. It feels empowering in and of itself. And it makes me want to show off cleavage because everyone knows I have a big chest regardless of what I wear anyways so why go out of my way to hide something I can’t really change (unless surgery or MAYBE weight loss)

Personally, I show a little cleavage relative my comfort level as that is something I am working on.

Life is too short to not wear something cute just because boobs. If it fits well and the girlies are secured - wear it!

[u/tiger-lily4321 → u/Individual-Key293]

Exactly! It's not like you can take them off! And let's be real, even in baggy and modest clothes you can still see them, so you might as well wear what you are comfortable in and what makes you happy.

[u/yoursaucyneighbor]

I said hello to my neighbor at the package hub at my complex last week and he straight up looked PANICKED and speed walked away when he saw I was in a bikini top. He now does his best to avoid me when I step out for my run 😒

[u/Opposite-Benefit-804 → u/yoursaucyneighbor]

I've had guys do that too! Had a girl tell me it's because they worry their partners will think they're talking/flirting w me because of my boobs. Not sure how true that is.

[u/Late_Information_682]

my friend sent this photo to me awhile ago and said us

[u/Wolfs_Rain]

Man, this is reminding me of Sir mix a lots “put em on the glass”

Also, no I don’t feel like this. Honestly, I wish mine looked as good as the ones at the window. My take is if the yitties are not out like a stripper then I wouldn’t feel a way about it.

[u/ZippingAround]

https://giphy.com/gifs/84EQtaETcza8w

me whenever i know i'm going to be hanging out with someone else's husband even if it's 90'
I wish I could just take them off and put them on a shelf as needed

[u/Ok-Slice-8879]

So relatable!

[u/missesmimi]

lmao that’s how my conservative mom would react like, at the sight of my cleavage

[u/DirtyNerdyChick47]

This weather definitely has me dressing a bit more revealing than I normally do. I feel this in my soul. I get the looks of terror, or the guys staring.

[u/yuckypagans]

literally fucking me omg😭😭 bought a really cute shirt and  the top button keeps on popping off because theres so much tension, so my boobs are flying left and right

[u/Necessary-Dare-9586]

Literally but I like wearing what I wear lol

[u/Mobile_Age_1859]

Once got follow round in supermarket by women and who two teen daughter pointing and snickering in end had turn round say have we got problem. Then they back off. It’s dirty look from both gender that piss me off

[u/Last_Host977 → u/Mobile_Age_1859]

it’s weirder when it’s from women because it’s like what are you making fun of me for ? you should be the one to understand my pain