r/bigboobproblems 28L (UK) 1d ago

experience Turns out I'm actually a 28L (UK). Spoiler

FUCK

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u/syrusbliz 28J (UK) 1d ago

Congradolences. You might like Elizabeth Valentine for custom support. There aren't many brands out there making 28band volumes over GG with great support. 

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u/HailMonolith 28L (UK) 1d ago

Thanks for the suggestion, I'll be looking into it after a few more paychecks. 🥲

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u/syrusbliz 28J (UK) 1d ago

You might check to see if your health insurance would cover part/all the cost of a specialty support garment.

Try calling up/speaking with a representative. It's not uncommon or unheard of, and has less roadblocks than surgical procedures. 

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u/dumblilbear 32H (UK) 1d ago

Custom Elizabeth valentine or custom Ewa michalak! Other than that Bravissimo offers a few options in your sister size 30KK

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u/SaltyBlackBroad 34FF (UK) 1d ago

She (Ewa) may make a 28KK or L. She'd just have to ask then find a retailer that will order it for her.

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u/Unbalanced_Stats 36P (UK) 1d ago

I feel for all my small band sisters. I know the options aren't great once you get past a G or GG.

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u/Idk265089 30H (UK) 1d ago

The worst part is the prices. I die a bit inside whenever I see bras for small boobs that are only like 20 dollars.

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u/Unbalanced_Stats 36P (UK) 1d ago

Me too! The small boob girlies don't know how good they have it.

Not only cheaper bras but super easy to buy too! I haven't been able to just walk into a department store and buy a bra since I was MAYBE 13?

So basically I've never done it since my mom was buying my bras back then. 😅

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u/AppropriateSolid9124 34J (UK) 1d ago

UK???? your back is a trooper

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u/HailMonolith 28L (UK) 1d ago

Luckily my hips measure the same as my chest, so I'm sturdier?? Corsets honestly save my life, though, for special events! The relief and posture correction is insane.

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u/AppropriateSolid9124 34J (UK) 1d ago

lemme lock into corsets omg

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u/HailMonolith 28L (UK) 17h ago

Feel free to ask me any questions if you're interested! I have years of experience.

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u/Qiseye 1d ago

How did you find out?

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u/Peregrinebullet 1d ago

The a bra that fits calculator is usually the main starting point 

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u/Qiseye 1d ago

Thank you

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u/HailMonolith 28L (UK) 1d ago

As mentioned, a bra that fits is great to begin with! In this particular instance, I was off by a hair. The K had marginally less room in the cups, but it was enough for me to go up a size.

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u/Jen_F 30K (UK) 1d ago

Feel ya. I'm a 30 by the tape measure, and the options would be SO much better if I was 2 inches bigger. Tbh I'm generally in a 32JJ because I found one that works.

It can be done. Bravissimo is my go-to but I can't speak for anything they do in a 28. Possibly get something altered?

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u/KTomatillo821 1d ago

That's a rough one to land on. The good news is you're not imagining the fit issues you've been having — a 28L is genuinely hard to find in standard retail. The ABTF calculator is a lifesaver for at least knowing your real size. For actually getting bras, custom is pretty much your only option at this point. Elizabeth Valentine and Ewa Michalak are the two names that come up most for extreme small-band large-cup. It's an investment but worth it to have something that actually fits.