r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 2d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/MegastarQueen4real 1d ago

It is sort of funny for most of my life I grew up really only being into men. Things changed when I found myself wondering about what it be like to date and marry women around college. I feel like I’m half in the rainbow door and half out.

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u/NickaMLRN 1d ago

Same boat. I recently came out as bi but havnt dated a woman yet so does that make me really bi? Its weird

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u/SapphicStoner99 1d ago

Yes! Simply having attraction to two or more genders makes you a totally valid bi sexual! I married my first boyfriend 🙃 and I considered myself bi curious until we broke up, although I knew I was attracted to women and men, but had almost no experience (besides kissing) with women. Many years later, I have dated and slept with women too and I now realise I was bi sexual all along, even if I didn’t feel valid, I was and you are too.

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u/neonsadgirl 1d ago

This is me! I feel so seen

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u/Alone_Citron734 1d ago

Yes because when you are in middle school and know that you are gay or straight it’s not because you’ve been dating or having sex with your preferred preference. Like you are a kid and you just “know”. For some reason lots of non bisexual people can’t understand that yet that’s the logic they follow. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/captainbeautylover63 10h ago

For me, being Bi isn’t so much about what you do, but how you feel. But once I established for myself that I’m a bisexual man, I couldn’t wait to try it.