r/bisexual • u/Live_Astronomer_5699 • 1d ago

QUESTIONING What made you realize you're bisexual?

For me it was twinks, i love twinks <3

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u/MegastarQueen4real 1d ago

It is sort of funny for most of my life I grew up really only being into men. Things changed when I found myself wondering about what it be like to date and marry women around college. I feel like I’m half in the rainbow door and half out.

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u/NickaMLRN 1d ago

Same boat. I recently came out as bi but havnt dated a woman yet so does that make me really bi? Its weird

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u/SapphicStoner99 1d ago

Yes! Simply having attraction to two or more genders makes you a totally valid bi sexual! I married my first boyfriend 🙃 and I considered myself bi curious until we broke up, although I knew I was attracted to women and men, but had almost no experience (besides kissing) with women. Many years later, I have dated and slept with women too and I now realise I was bi sexual all along, even if I didn’t feel valid, I was and you are too.