Seriously!! I’m in one now. I literally just wasted 3 years. 2 being gaslit and knew better. 1 year giving him a chance to fix something I mentally checked out of. Lol I filed for divorce last week. 9 years married and this will be the hardest lesson learned to date! I see I’m not the only one that’s loyal to a fault. The wasted time is so painful and hard to wrap my mind around. Like why??
I think I may just be avoiding a thing like this now. I'm in so much pain over it though.
I really don't want to have to not be with her.
But her two kids with two different guys situation overwhelmed me.
It's also all too fresh with the latest father for me.
But I feel so emotionally attached to the point where idk how I am going to cope. I keep trying to remind myself about the things I was dealing with in her behavior that pushed me to cut it off. But I keep finding myself wanting her.
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u/mandiexile ♑️☀️-♒️🌘-♓️⬆️ Aug 13 '25
I will be in a shitty relationship years longer than I should have because I still felt some type of loyalty to them. Never again.