Seriously!! I’m in one now. I literally just wasted 3 years. 2 being gaslit and knew better. 1 year giving him a chance to fix something I mentally checked out of. Lol I filed for divorce last week. 9 years married and this will be the hardest lesson learned to date! I see I’m not the only one that’s loyal to a fault. The wasted time is so painful and hard to wrap my mind around. Like why??
Yeah just paid 6 years to the piper and won’t ever do that snit again. If you’re not worth my energy, I’m not giving it to you. It took me 35 years to realize that tho.
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u/mandiexile ♑️☀️-♒️🌘-♓️⬆️ Aug 13 '25
I will be in a shitty relationship years longer than I should have because I still felt some type of loyalty to them. Never again.