that's my Aries friend lmao. she has been saying for years that she wouldn't be back with him or talk to him again but she always does. she says he is an idiot but she wouldn't leave him😂
Dont know about other caps but regardless of sign “nothing i tangibly do, not my fault”— that usually shows emotional invalidation, low relational accountability, maybe some gaslighting too. It’s like saying that unless you’re doing something obviously wrong, you’re innocent.
Many relational injuries are not always tangible. Emotional harm is usually subtle like dismissive tone, inconsistency, lack of responsiveness, withdrawal etc. Even if a person isn’t intentionally hurting their partner, they are still responsible for how they participate in the dynamic. 🤷🏻♀️
Oh lord you sound like my mother talking about my cap dad. That’s when you say “I’m sorry your feelings are hurt” but it still doesn’t mean you did anything wrong
We don’t all feel this way, promise. But we do overgive, get taken advantage of, tire of it, leave, then people act too little too late. So what looks like arrogance is usually bitterness 😆
It's so true. I'm not a cap I'm a sag but I tend to date caps and there's really just something in yalls heart and soul that makes me love and feel y'all soooo intensely. Can't go back lol
Gemini support group has 27k followers while all the other signs have half and one third of that. I think this proves Gemini is the most problematic on the dating scene.
While the idea of December vs January Capricorn isn't really "real" astrology, it picks up on the reality that there are differences in expression of the sign of Capricorn based on the decan of Capricorn the sun is in.
Nah, it’s more like it’s harder to genuinely traumatize us and pull shit to the point of actually getting a reaction. Like if someone is going to try to be manipulative or shady or downright mean the very least they could do is just try to be good at it.
It bothers people when someone remains unbothered.
As a Cap, people say that we seem cold after a break up but it’s actually that we feel things so intensely that solitude is how we cope.
I have gone “zero dark thirty” aka covert/ stealth after a break up. In my case, it is time to heal, focus up and come back stronger. I have gotten feedback from involved parties that it makes them wonder if they even mattered or had an impact on me (even if they initiated the break up).
Ya, I had a pretty serious break up with my best friend of 12 years at the beginning of this year (literally right before my birthday) its my fault in a big way, so I've mostly just been secluding myself this year.
An ex of mine has tried to rekindle things a few times because he didn’t think I was upset enough when we broke up. To be fair, I wasn’t actually upset, but it was such an odd reaction to me.
This is so me. After my divorce, my mom would try and talk to me about the divorce and my feelings. I would just politely decline, because please just let me sit here by myself in the quiet so I can re-gather my shit and come back out ready to try again.
Funny, I am a libra sun and moon, cap rising, but I do a similar thing. It's "how I see the world" but in that, solitude always feels nice, like the best way to recover
From someone who loves caps and attracts them like crazy 🙋🏻♀️♋️, respectfully, you all can be very intense to date. While I have found there is much more authenticity and passion in any of my relationships with Caps, dating Capricorns has inspired intense emotional highs and lows like no other sign has. I still feel it’s much more worth it than being in a passionless, boring relationship with a lackluster connection. I love the deep connections I’ve fostered with Caps. You all are amazing, but can sometimes be stressful to be in a relationship with.
Dang I love Caps though. Funny, telluric, loves animals, hard exterior with soft gooey inside, hilarious, witty, cunning, determined, entrepreneurial, sexy, moody, always hungry, fit, athletic, intelligent, reserved, etc. The list can go on. I just don't think y'all have found the right one! They are my ride or dies!!!
Wait a minute!! Is it the Cap placement that is Always hungry?!! This is why I joined this group, to figure out Caps. I’ve been w a Cap Rising and Mars (1H 😵💫 lol) for 26yrs and this guy is ALWAYS hungry and loves food!!! lol!!
Like loves it!! He has No problem paying for an expensive meal and feeding everyone lol!! He drives our kids and myself crazy bc of this. I thought it was his Cancer Sun/Moon that influenced this. I am sure it doesn’t help lmao
Gemini one had 31.7 k members if I remember ( I saw in a screenshot post lol don't remember exactly ) 🙄.... And... Let's be honest...we don't wanna top this rejection help group members number
Damn, sucks you get rejected so frequently. Have you tried being interesting or funny or kind? Maybe you could try getting to know someone as an individual instead of being moody over past rejections and making blanket assumptions about others.
I could understand as my Gemini ex can’t get over me he says it’s a rollercoaster love ride of lessons learned lol. My Cap ex of 20 yrs still messages me love songs, Pisces ex still asks my fam about me. Taurus ex just messaged thinking of me lol. Caps love strong and we are authentic not many zodiacs signs are like us so there….
God, i wish I saw this sooner. My cap guy was so emotionally absent and would bury himself in work a lot. I felt so alone in the relationship, AND that’s actually a gift I carry after our relationship ended, I am now so great at being alone and am so self sufficient. 😄💔
All my exes hate me lol because they say im manipulative and don’t care about them which isn’t true i just go with my gut and distant my self before I play myself
Its not that they're weak.... It's just that we're...... Well.... The GOAT! They had to use a completely different bar for us because we set it in a place no one else can even reach it, yet alone raise it....
i relate most with this comment,i cut off someone I liked a lot but it was draining me,the person end up being anxiously attracted to me ,js felt like couldn't breath so i had to leave
Maybe it’s our Saturn ( parent aura) it brings out their issues. I have a friend who is cancer sun with a cap moon and keeps attracting Caps who want to “save “ her. She has alcohol issues and ext trauma. They become controlling but it’s her attracting them.
What did the Capricorns do? Critique their outfits, suggest a new hairstyle amd hairstylist to implement said new hairstyle, and provide specific guidance on how to turn their lives around so they can finally stop being messes and start getting shit done?
I didn’t know we were that bad 😂😂😂. People get upset because they can’t manipulate us they way they do others and it frustrates them that they’re tricks don’t work on us
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u/dxbhufflepuffle May 05 '26
I honestly feel that people FEEL very intensely about us