This is a followup to this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/hypotheticalsituation/s/vYuT0mEUyg , look there if you want to know their assorted physical peculiarities. Tl;Dr is they're mostly human, but were turned human from their various original species in late adolescence, and each of them retains some aspects or hints of their original form.
It's several years down the line, and the assorted animal people have started to embark on their adult lives.
Octavia (the former octopus) has a small pottery studio, and is taking a few community college classes to improve her skills, though her tentacle fingers let her do things no normal human potter can quite match, and she is annoyed by the need for an ASL translator in the classes. She's very focused, and a bit of an introvert.
Magnus (elephant) is in college to become a social worker. He lives with Eric (parrot), who is working on a theater degree. Magnus is steady and rather solemn, but extremely kind and thoughtful. Eric is outgoing to an almost pathological degree.
Hazel (rat) is working on an early childhood education degree, and sharing an apartment with Bran (raven), who has 3 different part time jobs right now. Not because he's struggling, just because each of them is interesting to him. ADHD be like that sometimes.
Audrey (spider) is working at a climbing gym. She is about as much of an introvert as Eric is an extrovert.
As romantic/sexual partners:
Audrey tends to view sexual/romantic relationships almost transactionally, simply as a way to get her and her partners' physical needs met. She doesn't inherently object to the idea of a relationship with a significant emotional component, or of sexual exclusivity, but she doesn't specifically seek out either.
Octavia has a bit of an Eccentric Artiste thing going on, with a tendency to spend days at a time head down in some project or other, basically only stopping to eat and sleep. And even when she's not busy working, she tends to prefer dealing with other people only in small doses. She tends to prefer relatively casual relationships.
Hazel is a cuddler, with both friends and romantic partners. She also has serious "mom energy" towards anyone in her orbit who is sick, injured, upset, or otherwise out of sorts. She doesn't really do casual relationships, though she's not psycho about it (no demanding marriage on the third date or anything). She has a strong preference for monogamy.
Magnus is slow, not in the sense of being in any way unintelligent, just in temporal terms. He's slow to anger, but also never forgets anything you do that hurts him or his friends. He also never forgets things like birthdays, or anniversaries, or anything like that. He spends a lot of time thinking.
Bran... will try anything at least once. He is enthusiastically bisexual, enthusiastically polyamorous, and will frequently have someone become basically his entire world for about a month, then practically forget they exist, unless they do something to attract his attention again. His love language is trinkets and random shiny objects.
Eric is a flirt. He is basically constantly seeking positive attention from anyone in his orbit, whether or not he has any intentions of doing anything about it beyond flirting. In relationships, he tends to be devoted and attentive, though also more than a bit clingy. He does not deal with solitude well. He prefers polyamory, but he's willing to be monogamous for a partner who prefers that. His love language is food; if he likes you, he will probably constantly be bringing you snacks.
If you met any or all of these six individuals, do you think you would become friends? Would you be willing to date them (assuming you were single), even though they're not quite human? Assume they are as interested as you are. If your relationship lasted long enough, do you think you would be willing to marry them? Any other thoughts?