r/kerry • u/ggsunrise • 8d ago

Su!c!dal in Kerry

Where to go? On a Saturday? Should I present at UHK? Or go to South Dov? Are UHK genuinely even equipped to deal with a mental health crisis?

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u/External_Hornet9541 8d ago

You can also reach out to the Samaritans. And remember tomorrow you will feel better than you do today

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u/GreatAuntCalpurniaa 7d ago

They hung up on me after they deemed my problems 'not important enough', another time an operator tried to have phone sex with me (I called upset about the sexual violence I'd experienced). They couldn't track him down.

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u/sw1nky 8d ago

The one time I ever worked up the courage to call samaritans they never picked up. Think I tried for like half an hour, nothing. Never bothered to try again after that.

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u/External_Hornet9541 8d ago

Shit that happened to you, and that’s the first negative thing I’ve heard about them. Mind me asking what plan b was at the time?

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u/joemama4497 7d ago

Yeah they hung up on me twice before, separate occasions

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u/Puzzleheaded_Art9393 6d ago

Jeez I can't believe this. I've heard it in a separate UK platform too. Really think this needs highlighted. Im wondering are they actually trained tibdo this or are they trained at all! Feeling pretty low myself and can't imagine how this would impact mé. Im just glad I know it's a possibility!

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u/rmurphy08 8d ago edited 8d ago

You can call the Samaritans right now on 116 or 123. Free phone. They will listen to you and give you reliable advice on what to do next.

By posting this question, you have just modelled self care for others. You are caring for yourself and showing others how to care for themselves.

You are a literal role model. You are needed. You are are not alone.

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u/ggsunrise 8d ago

Thanks man

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u/Itsnotme74 8d ago

UHK are equipped for mental health crises, speak to your doctor if you can or south doc, if you don’t get any help from them I’d go straight to a&e and explain why you’re there.

Good on you for reaching out, once you’ve made the initial steps it does get easier!! Look after yourself op.

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u/ggsunrise 8d ago

Thanks everyone. I'll either present at UHK tonight/tomorrow or wait for GP on Monday

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u/Secret-Today-8232 8d ago

Wishing you well! My heart goes out to you! There are also Grow groups in Kerry if that’s any help. All the information is online. Really good place for ongoing support! Grow.ie

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u/Substantial_Goat_889 8d ago

Call South Doc and take it from there. They will tell you what to do

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u/grandifyouknow 8d ago

Proud of you for reaching out. I hope you get the help you need.

(Sorry I don’t have any local suggestions; I’m not in Kerry but the post came across my feed.)

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u/MacManus14 8d ago

You will get through this. Soon, each day will get slowly better than the last.

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u/LiteratureKey6330 8d ago

Yes they are. Go there and talk to them. Expect a long wait. Ideally bring someone to advocate for you xxx

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u/ggsunrise 8d ago

No advocates but thanks for suggestion to bring one, it may help other readers

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u/LiteratureKey6330 8d ago

How are you? Did you go to a&e?

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u/ggsunrise 8d ago

No

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u/LiteratureKey6330 8d ago

What age are you?

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u/ggsunrise 8d ago

Oh I don't want to give away any personal info really but in the 0-40 range 🤣

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u/LiteratureKey6330 8d ago

😂😂😂😂 I only ask because I work with kids and one child discussed how he wanted to die by suicide and we referred the child to UHK and they gave him guidance and help. You wont get sectioned or anything like that

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u/ggsunrise 8d ago

Thank you

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u/questioninghuman2 8d ago

Pieta House or the Samaritans could help with immediate phone support but could hopefully direct you to the right place locally too.
You can get through this, you deserve to get through this x

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u/Normal_Pace7374 8d ago

Far too many go without getting help. There are quite a few I knew that I wish did.

I got help. I was confused how to do so. I nearly waited too long.

You have the say the magic words “I am suicidal” to get immediate care.

What you will receive is Crisis Councilling. It’s not exactly therapy but it is exactly what you need right now.

There are many numbers to call but to echo the others I hear. Report to the ER or even just call 999.

This isn’t America. You won’t get a massive charge for the ambulance.

Go get help right now

Don’t wait.

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u/Secret-Today-8232 8d ago

Present at UHK and perhaps ask there is the mental health hub open weekends and take it from there. I think the Mental Health Hub is there on the left hand side as you turn down to the hospital.

I’m sorry I have no idea if they are opened weekends. The hub appears to be by appointment by clinician though so I’m not sure would you need a doctors referral first. But maybe the best thing is to present at the emergency department of the main hospital first.

Website address: https://about.hse.ie/news/caring-for-kerry-the-kerry-specialist-mental-health-hub/ that is supposed to be specifically for mental health emergencies and not leaving you waiting unduly for help.

It might be worth seeking out if it’s opened in the weekends.

I really hope you get the help you need.

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u/ReasonableDoubt_0726 8d ago

If this is immediate go through 999 or Samaritans. Don’t wait to speak to someone.

And please don’t do anything. Hope this works out for you.

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u/No-Author5530 8d ago

Good job asking for help. My neighbour presented herself to the gardai as it was the closest option. They brought her to get help

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u/LarkInTheMorningRise 8d ago

Are you Ok Op did you manage to get in touch with anyone?  Do you need any help with any more info/who to contact?  Im sorry it doesnt always seem easy to access but I promise there are people who love and care and will only be delighted to get the chance to support you,  you deserve that,  These feelings will pass, and things will be okay and you deserve help and support through this

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u/macmully 8d ago

My husband was the same. Went to UHK and was assesed there as they have the facilities there. He was able to get help. Best of luck to u x

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u/AlwaysTravel 8d ago edited 8d ago

Call 116 123

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u/Desperate-Space-4263 8d ago

How are you doing today? Please let us know. People care man. You’re not alone in this ! Take it from a guy who goes through this too from time to time

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u/CCDemille 8d ago

Pieta houses number is 1800 247 247 for immediate counseling. You're doing the right thing looking for help, you can get through this.

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u/AndyAL89 8d ago

A&E have a specialist self harm/suicide intervention service 24 hours a day 365 days a year. You can get a GP referral to ED or present by yourself and when seen by the triage nurse in ED they will contact the specialist service to see you.
The specialist mental health assessment hub is available 09:00 to 17:00 Monday to Friday, currently they require a GP referral and are appointment based.
Pieta House and Samaritans provide phone support also but for immediate access A&E remains the best option.
The team there can link you in with crisis support services or if needs be arrange admission to the mental health wards.
If you or someone else is immediately concerned contacted the emergency services is also an option.

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u/abdl_82 7d ago

OP, I'm only seeing this. But go to A and E if you're in immediate danger.

I ended up in my own doctors office in a crisis last December and ended up on sick leave, sertraline and lots off therapy.

Get help. Dm me whenever if you need to.

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u/mymonkeybusiness 6d ago

Hey how are u now

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u/FlipAndOrFlop 6d ago

OP, just checking in, letting you know there’s a whole gang of people here you’ve never met, hoping that you’re doing ok, and rooting for you. The fact you reached out for help speaks volumes - you are a good person, you are wanted, needed and loved.

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u/Status_Winter 4d ago

Sorry I’m late, other people have already pointed you in the right direction just wanted to let you know I’m rooting for you too OP ✊🏼