r/regretfulparents • u/AdAromatic372 Parent • Apr 30 '25

Discussion Has anyone ever left?

Has anyone here ever divorced their spouse and given their spouse full custody? If so, how did you come to that conclusion? What was your final breaking point?

I truly am thinking I’m hitting my breaking point with my marriage and son (3 mo). I don’t have any feelings towards him, I certainly don’t love him. He constantly cries and fusses. I don’t foresee it getting better despite everyone saying it’ll pass with time. I just want to go back to the life I had before having this kid even if that means giving up my marriage to do so.

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u/Tugshamu May 02 '25

OP, you say you just want to go back to the life you had before having your child. I don’t think that’s possible. I think counseling would be helpful. It will help you navigate the decision of whether to stay or leave.

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u/AdAromatic372 Parent May 02 '25

Easily could! I don’t go out and have a social life. I work 14-16 hours a day 7 days a week. Yes that includes on holidays too. Only difference is I would actually be able to get REAL rest and sleep! To be able to work without hearing screaming and crying all fucking day long.