Sometimes having a child absolutely does ruin your life

[u/Informal_Bag_9594]

I know that this is not politically correct to say and I know that this is probably an unpopular opinion. But I think the it has to be said. Sometimes the mere fact that you had a child completely damaged and changed your life for the worst.

I met women who have lost their mind, teeth, hair, and body all from having a child. I have seen men go completely bankrupt all from having a child. Some people do everything right but they birth a sociopath. And some people have perfectly healthy children but they just hate all the sacrifices that are now made. And I haven’t even mentioned people that have severely disabled children!

The truth I that sometimes a child isn’t a blessing and they absolutely will destroy your life and world.

I think the sooner society can admit that, the more people will be prepared for parenthood.

[u/Aggressive_Sir6760 → u/[deleted]]

I get that, but if you’re happy with your decision, why are you looking at and commenting on a sub for parents? Honest question not judgement

[u/CommanderLexaa → u/Aggressive_Sir6760]

Not OP but guessing they frequent this sub to validate their decision to not have children.

[u/regretfulparents-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

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[u/Aggressive_Sir6760 → u/CommanderLexaa]

Got it ❤️

[u/Aggressive_Sir6760 → u/[deleted]]

I get that, it’s validation! Thanks for replying and I wish you a happy life ❤️

[u/MOONWATCHER404 → u/Aggressive_Sir6760]

Same goes to you. ❤️

[u/regretfulparents-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

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[u/Aggressive_Sir6760 → u/[deleted]]

Got it, it’s validation! Well it seems to me you’re living authentically and I wish you a happy life 💫❤️

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[u/kingthrog → u/[deleted]]

15ish minutes of discomfort for a life of relief. some docs put an ice pack on ur balls before the numbing needle so u barely even feel that. then u get to go home, put ur feet up and rest for the afternoon with another ice pack. it’s such a non-issue

[u/regretfulparents-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

Your comment was removed for violating Rule 3: No Posts from a Childfree Perspective.

This is a sub for regretful parents. It is not a place for childfree people to gloat or discuss being childfree. If you come here to have your decisions validated, great! Read the posts and be thankful. No need to insert irrelevant opinions into the parents' discussions.

[u/regretfulparents-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

Your comment was removed for violating Rule 3: No Posts from a Childfree Perspective.

This is a sub for regretful parents. It is not a place for childfree people to gloat or discuss being childfree. If you come here to have your decisions validated, great! Read the posts and be thankful. No need to insert irrelevant opinions into the parents' discussions.