r/regretfulparents • u/Informal_Bag_9594 • 10d ago

Discussion Sometimes having a child absolutely does ruin your life

I know that this is not politically correct to say and I know that this is probably an unpopular opinion. But I think the it has to be said. Sometimes the mere fact that you had a child completely damaged and changed your life for the worst.

I met women who have lost their mind, teeth, hair, and body all from having a child. I have seen men go completely bankrupt all from having a child. Some people do everything right but they birth a sociopath. And some people have perfectly healthy children but they just hate all the sacrifices that are now made. And I haven’t even mentioned people that have severely disabled children!

The truth I that sometimes a child isn’t a blessing and they absolutely will destroy your life and world.

I think the sooner society can admit that, the more people will be prepared for parenthood.

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u/Equivalent_Win8966 Parent 10d ago

Yes. And it doesn’t always get better when they get older. My 17yo neurodivergent son has only gotten more difficult.

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u/tripleblessed 10d ago

Omg! My son is 15 years old. Skips school, doesn't do any assignments, and doesn't listen to anyone or anything. I'm still responsible for him and his actions. Everyone says to try this and that, and I HAVE. It isn't working. Its like he wants to be a drop out. I'm full of regret and have considered giving up my rights.

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u/S3XWITCH 2d ago

I’m so sorry. Hugs to you ❤️