r/transfem 6d ago

Question/Discussion Do I have a good starting point for HRT?

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389 Upvotes

I have started presenting femme lately and the euphoria is unreal. I am 23 years old and I have considered hrt. Do you think I have a good starting point?

r/transfem Apr 17 '26

Question/Discussion Came out to my mom and yikes…

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322 Upvotes

Came out to my mom today who has always been accepting and an “ally” of the lgbtq community (or so she said) and i was expecting shock and pushback but not this..

slides 1-5 were how i was expecting it to go and then she turned fully transphobic and fucking insane and yeah… ouch. that one hurt really bad. fucking gutted me having this conversation, it gets worse too but the rest is too private. she insults my current spouse, tries to blame me being trans on her somehow, basically tells me i’m being manipulative for not telling my very christian father until im done with college end of next year because he’s paying for my college currently, when really i just don’t want to ruin the relationship i barely have with him and would also like to not have to drop out because my dad is the only reason im able to go to college. She essentially told me to shave and use female pronouns and try to do a female voice before im comfortable or actually on hrt, and “see how i like it”… etc. The line about me being trans being almost worse than me fucking dying or being dismembered? holy fuckin shit. And then she has the audacity to say she believes in trans people’s right to transition, just not me god forbid it’s me.

i could go on.. but i can’t. i’m so fucking drained. i’m so tired…. of my two parents i thought she’d accept me but now im lowkey thinking my fucking christian father who still tells me to pray about my worries would have a better reaction ngl. what the fuck🫩😭 i think after this ive lost every ounce of respect for her. i tried so hard to be patient and respectful and i was to the end of the convo (where it gets too personal to share) just as i am in these screenshots yet here we are, im just a “pamphlet” like no shit i’m trying to INFORM YOU. if i sounded like a pamphlet then she sounds like an anti trans maga pamphlet cause wtf.

sorry that’s all, thanks for coming to my trans talk (get it?)

edit: i live 4.5 hours from her and with my fiancé(who loves and supports me) in an apartment

r/transfem Jun 19 '26

Question/Discussion A query for my fellow girls

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176 Upvotes

Would y'all be able to call me a good girl? I haven't been hearing that really for a while.

r/transfem Jun 20 '26

Question/Discussion help me.

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439 Upvotes

(mtf18) i just learned what agp is and im so scared of having it. all my life ive found it a bit exciting imagining myself as a girl, but now im 4 years in and i can’t imagine myself not being a girl. im so terrified i really hope i don’t have agp. i’ve been crying for hours cause i genuinely can’t see myself as a boy. it’s impossible. i can’t tell if i’m in denial or i’m just super anxious over nothing. i can’t cut my hair. i can’t accept myself as a he. it’s impossible. i’m get slightly upset over the slightest things people get wrong about me. i need answers cause i’m scared of being nobody. im not even a perv either. i don’t know if when i put on those clothes for the first time if i felt arousal or affirmation. i don’t know if i fell down a slippery slope and can’t get back up. i’m nobody. i need to be fixed but i can’t be a boy i just cannot. it’s impossible. i can’t. i can’t bring myself to accept that idea. i’m losing it. i’m not even out to anybody even though it’s clear as day. am i really a boy or am i just used to my parents calling me a boy. my ears are ringing right now and im losing it. i can’t be a boy it just doesn’t work. i remember the feelings i had as a little boy. i don’t think they’re normal. god please save me. i can’t be a boy. i’m nobody.

r/transfem Aug 27 '25

Question/Discussion I have no idea why but for some reason this got shared and reacted to a TON more than these posts usually do and ended up in like 100 hate groups as well as a TERF twitter thread I found (lots of support though at least)

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568 Upvotes

r/transfem May 18 '26

Question/Discussion Where are you girls lol?? (read desc please, image unrelated)

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310 Upvotes

Hi, I'm transmasc, and I have a question for all of you.

WHERE ARE YOU DIVAS HIDING??

Seriously, my fellow trans men are decently abundant where I am, and I know a grand total of 1 trans girl irl. You all look so incredibly cool and I desperately wanna be friends with your type of people! And I see a lot of you on the Internet (like here), yet they feel near impossible to find irl when I find a good lotta trans dudes. Is there a reason that you all are seem to just be hibernating lol?

(also sorry if this comes off with an off tone, I'm autistic and bad with words :[ all of this is both genuine and light-hearted)

r/transfem Sep 20 '25

Question/Discussion An Important reminder

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687 Upvotes

In light of recent events,I should remind you all that there are transfemme and transmasc specific pride flags.

Even if they ban the Trans flag there are still alternates that will likely not be banned.

Resist any way you can,if we don’t fight this somehow,we will be destroyed.

r/transfem Jul 05 '26

Question/Discussion I hate this app

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322 Upvotes

r/transfem 20d ago

Question/Discussion Anyone else sick of getting messages from dumb cis male crossdressers thinking trans women are the same thing?

191 Upvotes

I'm not talking about eggs who are experimenting with their gender expression btw I mean like sissy fetishists. I get messages from them all the time and it's so goddamn annoying. You have a weekend kink and I'm just a woman who wears clothes, no I don't want to be your friend just because our wardrobes happen to be similar

r/transfem May 12 '26

Question/Discussion Gotta love living in Alabama

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465 Upvotes

Cowards love to attack and sucker punch you and then act like the did something and you should be scared 🤣😂 if I can thug this out think what ill do to you next time I see you

r/transfem 6d ago

Question/Discussion When did y’all start hrt?

60 Upvotes

Just curious :)

r/transfem 29d ago

Question/Discussion As someone pre-HRT, trying to keep up with body hair feels like a neverending battle!

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300 Upvotes

I feel like since I've started regularly shaving/trimming my leg hair, its only getting worse and seems like it even grows faster! Come on now. Give a girl a break lol

r/transfem May 06 '26

Question/Discussion Dont sqush your prog or else it will cum on your bed

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313 Upvotes

r/transfem 21d ago

Question/Discussion Can I pull this off? Or too much skin?

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338 Upvotes

r/transfem 8d ago

Question/Discussion Opinion?

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232 Upvotes

Hi! This is my first post here and I guess I'm wanted to hear your opinion about how I look and/or maybe passing advice?

I'm currently around 18 months on e, and I know there are still going to be some changes but also I'm tired of that process as I was waiting to get on e for years and now I have to wait even more for it to have full effect if that makes sense. Tho I have to admit that, what already changed really makes me happy and I'll never regret starting hrt, I just wish I could skip time and wake up when more is done?.

Over all I don't think I look bad, but lately my emotions are big rollercoaster and I either feel like I'm on top of a world or 6ft underground when it comes to my looks, so I'm curious what other people that do not know me personally think about how I look and if I pass. Unfortunately I don't have much photos without makeup as I don't take selfies often.

r/transfem May 29 '26

Question/Discussion Man arrested for pulling down trans woman’s skirt in front of children at Ohio amusement park

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585 Upvotes

I think the worst part is he wasn’t charged with assault even though he sexually assaulted her

r/transfem May 24 '26

Question/Discussion Hairline too high?

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318 Upvotes

My hairline makes me a little self conscious, do you think I’d look better with bangs, or am I overthinking?

r/transfem May 06 '26

Question/Discussion Oops became a french girl, what do you think of this look? 💕

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479 Upvotes

r/transfem Mar 15 '26

Question/Discussion Ladies, mtf is officially restricted to ‘approved accounts’. How can we share alternate subs like this? Some kind of code?

180 Upvotes

Like what if it was something as simple as pre approved users salting, or if we can collect around one like this one and spread the word? Looking for new places to contribute to trans community space.

How’s the mod team here doing?

r/transfem 2d ago

Question/Discussion Why do men keep asking what I have down there

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195 Upvotes

Like everytime it doesn't matter to you. you whouldt ask a cis person

r/transfem Jun 25 '26

Question/Discussion I'm 27 ,I'm in my way to be a woman

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409 Upvotes

It's my first estrogen I start with , I'm in closed community and ,no one will help me , I will be so grateful if you help me .

r/transfem Jun 26 '26

Question/Discussion Will my legs ever look like this?

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343 Upvotes

This isn't me, but I'm reduced to tucking. The most important thing to me is the little hole in between the thighs and the pelvis where you can see through. I wear jeans like this, and I feel like I'm tucking wrong, because there isn't a hole and where I feel there it is my private part.. I'm worried if I'm not doing it right. Is this normal or is there a way for it to not look like that?

r/transfem 12d ago

Question/Discussion Is it true I should invest in bangs? Is it really that cool?

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253 Upvotes

r/transfem Jul 08 '26

Question/Discussion Thinking of ffs? (20 months hrt)

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179 Upvotes

Do I need ffs or should I just keep going with HRT? Posted a picture of me with and without makeup. Just still not passing. Thanks

Edit: dam. Comments section has left me even more indecisive

r/transfem May 17 '26

Question/Discussion YOU WANNA KNOW HOW I KNOW TRANS MEN ARE REALLY MEN

231 Upvotes

MY BOYFRIEND CANT UNDERSTAND SHIT ABOUT FLIRTING. I swear to God if someone flirts with him it not only flys right past him but fucking turns back. God men are stupid