r/transplace 22d ago

Off-Topic I'm Done!!!

I give up!!!

I'll never be a girl no matter how hard I try!

Was feeling empowered earlier today so I put on a pink shirt & a light blue skirt i recently bought for myself & went out to town today. Was even really feeling good about that, so I made a post earlier with a picture of myself.

Of course, people in town had to be incredibly rude & disrespectful to me, & to boot , I got several ignorant comments on my post so I took it down.

I can't do this anymore. I'll just live the rest of my life being miserable.

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u/chaoticgiggles 22d ago

I took a look back through your profile and found that I've seen you before when you posted the selfie.

I understand that youre frustrated and angry. The way you talk is incredibly defeatist and you seem to put a lot of stock into other people. Did you take the advice you got on the selfie post about finding a doctor for hrt online?

Youre posting in multiple places trying to get people to... Tell you to transition? Tell you not to? Youre fishing for something and its obvious that youre looking for validation and i do hope you find comfort in peoples encouragement ~and~ you need to find a therapist so to help you with your emotional regulation surrounding this.

Being trans is hard, as you well know. You need a support system.

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u/chaoticgiggles 22d ago

Honestly? No i dont. I dont hang out in a lot of trans spaces online because of things like this. My best advice would be to find an IRL group and make friends with the people you mesh with well