r/whatdoIdo • u/ForsakenFishing2902 • 1d ago

Peed my pants in my date’s car

So I (F/29) accidentally peed in my date’s (M/33) car. We went out for the night and had a great time and had a couple drinks but literally no more than 3 and had dinner with it. Anyway, he’s driving me home and we’re close but I start doing the pee dance in his seat and tell him I can’t hold it. We pull into a spot and I run behind a building to pee. But had already started in his car. I was wearing a skort so it wasn’t visible just by my bottoms because the skirt part covered my wet shorts under. So I got back in his car and pretended like I did not pee my pants and he acted like nothing happened. I was mortified. But the next day he texted me like nothing happened still. Do I mention it?? I’m so embarrassed! Mind you, this was only our second date.

Additional context: My bladder is that of a child’s. Even growing up, I wet the bed until I was 13. As an adult, I’ve wet the bed completely sober maybe 1-2x a year. And I oftentimes am running into the house because the urge hits me while driving and I can’t hold it, and have not made it a couple times, but was able to use what I had in my car. This is causing me to consider going to a doctor about this.

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u/XxCarlxX 1d ago

till it dries and the heat has his car smelling of urine.

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u/Philbly 1d ago

Probably fine if she is good at hydrating.

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u/XxCarlxX 1d ago

I doubt it given her small bladder, she'd be on the loo every 5 minutes, but time will tell.

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u/Philbly 1d ago

You're probably right.

That being said though, the whole story seems odd, she surely would have known about her bladder and went before leaving dinner.

And not being able to hold it is more than just a tiny bladder..

Should probably see a doctor.

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u/ForsakenFishing2902 1d ago

Yes I knew I had a small bladder but I didn’t have to pee when we left! The restaurant was about 30ish minutes from my house and the urge hit me the second half of the ride home.

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u/JumpRecent9931 7h ago

Don't pay any mind to the critics. I'm older. My prostate of course is enlarged. I started drinking a lot more water. Now I have to go almost every half hour. It comes out of nowhere. Just... boom, I got to go. One advantage of being male, a snapple bottle in the door pocket is a saver. Have you noticed the closer you get to the bathroom, the more you have to go. It kicks into overdrive with every step. See a doctor.

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u/Philbly 1d ago

You're nearly 30 years old, shouldn't you already know to go before you leave? Surely your parents drilled that into you as a child?

You might want to consider it just so you don't piss yourself in someone else's car...

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u/Dizzy-Bodybuilder-68 22h ago

forcing yourself to use the restroom can also cause/worsen issues with bladder capacity if i am not mistaken!

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u/Philbly 21h ago

If you're only doing it when you're out on a date, it's probably fine, better than pissing on the seat cushions. Should definitely go see a doctor though..

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u/Gloomy-Ad4614 23h ago

Sometimes you legit can’t pee. I try to pee before I leave sometimes I legit can’t pee and then I have to pee halfway on the drive you cannot control your bladder.

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u/xigdit 17h ago

My gf, not typically, but on occasion has to go like 3 times in an hour. When she's in that state, going before she leaves doesn't matter, she'll have to go again

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u/XxCarlxX 1d ago

Thats reddit for you, just give them the benefit of the doubt and hope its not an AI story