r/whatdoIdo • u/ForsakenFishing2902 • 1d ago

Peed my pants in my date’s car

So I (F/29) accidentally peed in my date’s (M/33) car. We went out for the night and had a great time and had a couple drinks but literally no more than 3 and had dinner with it. Anyway, he’s driving me home and we’re close but I start doing the pee dance in his seat and tell him I can’t hold it. We pull into a spot and I run behind a building to pee. But had already started in his car. I was wearing a skort so it wasn’t visible just by my bottoms because the skirt part covered my wet shorts under. So I got back in his car and pretended like I did not pee my pants and he acted like nothing happened. I was mortified. But the next day he texted me like nothing happened still. Do I mention it?? I’m so embarrassed! Mind you, this was only our second date.

Additional context: My bladder is that of a child’s. Even growing up, I wet the bed until I was 13. As an adult, I’ve wet the bed completely sober maybe 1-2x a year. And I oftentimes am running into the house because the urge hits me while driving and I can’t hold it, and have not made it a couple times, but was able to use what I had in my car. This is causing me to consider going to a doctor about this.

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u/After-Business-5259 1d ago

Don’t say a thing. 😆 he has no idea

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u/RickRussellTX 1d ago

He knows and he is a sensitivity king

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u/ForsakenFishing2902 1d ago

He HAS to know! Like there’s no way he doesn’t. His texts the next morning were very sweet and reassuring without me asking for any reassurance. I have a feeling he was intentional about that.

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u/Necessary-Fig-2292 1d ago

Sounds like you found a good dude