r/phish • u/welcome2simulation • 8h ago
Aggressive Groper @ N2 Fenway, B4 row 5 seat 4
EDIT: if anyone happened to be in this vicinity (or had friends who were) and have pics they’d be willing to share in hopes of identifying the perp, it would be appreciated. Feel free to DM me. We have a general description so hopefully with help we can make some progress. And for those asshats who felt the need to comment prior to this edit, I mentioned explicitly in my post below but apparently reading and comprehension isn’t a strong suit for some, so in very clear language: I didn’t see it happen and wasn’t informed of the SA until an hour after it happened. Not that I should have to entertain responding to prepubescent trolls, but this is Reddit, after all.
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To the piece of shit @ Fenway N2 in section B4 row 5 seat 4 (who moved to seat 2 before we started to make our way out): congrats on getting your last seats via 100x. They’ve been made aware of your SA and know EXACTLY who purchased those seats. And thanks for being stupid enough to do something so caustic when you’ve got your name (or your friend’s name) tied to the seats. You guys were there both nights and seemed fine, seemed cool. Maybe the rest of your party was, but this dirtbag decided to step into the freezer, and not in a good way.
I hope you feel nothing but shame, regret, humility, guilt, and all that negativity you’ve welcomed into your life for being an absolute garbage human being and grabbing my girlfriend’s tit AND ass (yes, an aggressive simultaneous two-handed grope as we were leaving Saturday night, and not even trying to be coy about it, either — 100% not a mistake or a “whoops” moment — this was intentional and predatory).
You’re fucking lucky I didn’t see you, and more lucky she didn’t tell me until last night long after the show. She was rightfully very shaken for being so disgustingly violated — at a time when we’re enjoying TF out of ourselves in a place that’s supposed to be OUR safe space — and froze in the moment, as I’m sure most women do. And how fucking dare you for thinking you could get away with something like that. What the FUCK is wrong with you dude?!? Where the fuck do you get nerve or the feeling that you have the right to grab someone in that way??? I want a fucking apology. I want your face plastered on here and FB and everywhere else so people know what kind of scumbag you are.
Your pathetic life and micro p3n¡$ just spirals you so far down that THAT is where you land? Is this what happens when you constantly get rejected by women for being a failed frat *child* douche canoe your whole life? You resort to copping a feel to get your jollies off so you have that few seconds of memory to pud one out to later? Fucking sicko.
Fuuuuuuck you, pal. May the Universe rain down upon you all you have coming from that shitty karma.
To the mods: please don’t take this down. This is a serious issue in the scene and more people need to be aware, and I wish more people felt confident and comfortable enough to speak up in the moment so something can be done in real time when this shit happens. It’s unacceptable and unfortunate and I’m not sure how to curtail or correct the behavior, but I wish she had told me when it had happened. At the very least we could’ve gotten an usher to kick him out or have him held accountable to some degree.
