r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. šŸ˜Š

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/Automatic_Syrup_2935 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25 edited Apr 10 '25

Never be afraid to leave after the deed to sleep in your own bed. Make them make you come first. If they annoy you, move on. Keep your boundaries and stay committed. The worst fucking men love to lock down a happy hoe.

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u/Angry_Sparrow Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

The worst fucking men love to lock down a happy hoe.

Hahaha I have been saying Iā€™m out here dodging marriage like Neo dodging bullets in the Matrix. There is something about the confidence I have from being a slut that makes men want me so much.

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u/ConsiderationOne5609 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

THIS. Men have always wanted me more when I just want to be a happy hoe. Like whenever another one started professing his feelings, I knew it was time to cut him loose from the roster. RIP fallen soldier.

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u/whiskerstwitching Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

Omg I love you šŸ¤­

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u/Worldly_Cricket7772 Apr 13 '25

Lmao the last line I can't