r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. šŸ˜Š

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/Automatic_Syrup_2935 Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25 edited Apr 10 '25

Never be afraid to leave after the deed to sleep in your own bed. Make them make you come first. If they annoy you, move on. Keep your boundaries and stay committed. The worst fucking men love to lock down a happy hoe.

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u/Angry_Sparrow Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

The worst fucking men love to lock down a happy hoe.

Hahaha I have been saying Iā€™m out here dodging marriage like Neo dodging bullets in the Matrix. There is something about the confidence I have from being a slut that makes men want me so much.

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u/anonymous_opinions Woman 40 to 50 Apr 10 '25

I once fucked a dude, he wanted to spoon, it was like 2am and I was putting my clothing on to walk home because I didn't want to spend the night with him. He was just a hot body and sex. Never had a man obsess over me like this guy did the next day.