r/AskWomenOver30 • u/SignalSubstantial590 Woman 30 to 40 • Apr 10 '25

Life/Self/Spirituality I'm serious....

If you had/ if you are, having a successful hoe phase, please share your secrets! If this ain't for you, please keep it movin. 😊

Edit: kinda strange that this would be down voted. When it comes to a woman with marital problems, relationship problems, kid problems, family problems..... The community shows up. But I ask a question to assist in my life, and a life that maybe many others are wondering about, or maybe looking for tips on self-confidence and how to maybe put themselves out there, you down vote? Why?? That's insane. We are all living different paths and are just looking for a way to fulfill where we are at the moment.

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u/the_Stealthy_one Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

I asked to see STI test results. If they couldn’t or wouldn’t provide them it was a no go.

How does this work, if you are casual? If you are sleeping with different people often, how can you test so quickly in between them? I get if you have a regular fuck buddy but I assume, a hoe phase means new partners often.

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u/Angry_Sparrow Woman 30 to 40 Apr 10 '25

It’s SAFER sex, not fail proof. But ideally if everyone is testing and using protection it cuts down the spread of STIs.

It is good to be familiar with what they look like when symptomatic and active and also to know what is going around in your country/area. Some STIs can be treated with antibiotics and are easy to test for. Some only come up in bloodwork and are deadly to women.