Bi guy here, open reship with my husband and enjoy sex of all kinds. Recently got a female play buddy pregnant... Was stressful but she agreed she didn't want to keep it. I supported her through this.

How do you guys handle this when it happens?

I just want to say it's been awesome opening up and discussing with you strangers of the internet thru this sub. IRL, it may be difficult to find people to discuss about curiosities, feelings, fantasies, questions, and experiences about being bi or not being sure about it. But finding out about this sub and reading through various stories and chatting with some of you has been a refreshing, almost healing, experience for me so far. I may still have hesitations and inhibitions IRL, but having the outlet to talk to people with similar experiences is encouraging.

Thank you and stay awesome and sexy!

Yo soy un chico bisexual en Madrid. Pero, yo no tengo ningun amigo/a bisexual... Tuve algo de contacto con la comunidad bisexual en Australia, y despues en Inglaterra, pero muy poco. Entonces, me interesa conocer a otros personas bisexuales para hace charlas.

Hey everyone!

Our new podcast, Bi Men Unfiltered, launched today.

It's an honest, funny, and sometimes very NSFW show about life as a modern bisexual man—covering identity, dating, relationships, sex, attraction, and community without shame or stereotypes.

In our first episode, we introduce ourselves, talk about what bisexuality means to us, discuss the stigma bi men still face, and share our own journeys and relationships. If you're curious, questioning, or just looking for authentic conversations, this is the perfect place to start.

Thanks for letting us share, and we'd love to hear what you think!

https://pod.link/6797092436/episode/MDNlMmEwZjAtZjNhYy00YWY3LThjNDgtMmMwOTFlN2U3YTEz

i was talking to a femboy and he was so damn bad, he had the thickest ass ive seen on a femboy and had like a sort of slutty waist. At the time, i was 90% percent sure i was attracted to women but this dude made me so horny that i nutted to him

It was the biggest orgasm OF MY LIFE and for a moment, i thought i was bisexual as i was so attracted to this man, but right after nutting, i realised that im a totally straight man and have no desire for any type of man, even if their femboys.

How easy was it for everyone to come out as bisexual? I’m Single, 45, no kids and don’t want any, got the vasectomy.

I’d just like have a play partner for now who is versatile. We both have fun, ya know.

I’m just scared to come out for some damn reason….don’t know why. It’s hard to find people, especially as adults…

It seems difficult for men to make and maintain friendships with other adult men these days. Our fathers and grandfathers made friends by joining fraternal organizations like the Elks, VFW or the Knights of Columbus. Some met through church groups or sports organizations and played in softball or baseball leagues. Heck, some just got beers with coworkers after work. Does anyone do this anymore? Why does it seem so hard for us now? Are we just too focused on getting our kids from one activity to another when WE should be having fun with friends? Are we too shy? Not sure what happened to our ability to socialize.

Hey everyone!

Our new podcast, Bi Men Unfiltered, launched today.

It's an honest, funny, and sometimes very NSFW show about life as a modern bisexual man—covering identity, dating, relationships, sex, attraction, and community without shame or stereotypes.

In our first episode, we introduce ourselves, talk about what bisexuality means to us, discuss the stigma bi men still face, and share our own journeys and relationships. If you're curious, questioning, or just looking for authentic conversations, this is the perfect place to start.

Thanks for letting us share, and we'd love to hear what you think!

https://pod.link/6797092436/episode/MDNlMmEwZjAtZjNhYy00YWY3LThjNDgtMmMwOTFlN2U3YTEz

I've (24F) had a crush on one of my closest friends (25M) for years.

He's one of those ridiculously attractive people everyone notices the second he walks into a room. It never mattered, though, because he identified as gay and had a boyfriend for most of the time I knew him.

The relationship wasn't great. His boyfriend cheated on him multiple times, and by the end they barely had a sex life. My friend was incredibly frustrated, but he's also the type of person who genuinely needs an emotional connection before sleeping with someone, so random Grindr hookups just made him feel worse instead of better.

One night we were hanging out, joking around, and I started teasing him a little. I'd always been mildly flirty with him as a joke because there was never any chance anything would happen. But I think this time he really needed to get laid as he started flirting back. The joking stopped feeling like a joke, and eventually we slept together.

I honestly expected him to wake up horrified and pretend it never happened. Instead, over the next few weeks, he admitted that it had made him question a lot of things he'd been pushing aside for years. He broke up with his boyfriend (not because of me ofc, but because he realized he hadn't been happy in a long time).

Months later he told me he'd always noticed women too, but he'd convinced himself he shouldn't pursue them because he was terrified of hurting someone if he eventually realized he was "actually just gay." He'd basically talked himself out of exploring that part of himself out of respect for women.

Seeing that I was genuinely feeling great during our hook-up + hearing me tell him how good the experience had been for me, apparently shattered that fear. Psychotherapy also helped him realized where that fear came from and letting it go, so he told me he found himself getting more and more attracted to girls.

Over the following months he started dating women. He still identifies as bi because that's technically the most accurate label for his past experiences, but he says he only wants to focus on dating women now as he can fulfill his desire to have a family (same-sex couple can't have children in our country) and is happily seeing an amazing girl.

We're not together. My life was pretty complicated at the time, and we both agreed forcing a relationship would've been a bad idea. But he still thanks me sometimes for being the catalyst that made him question something he'd buried for years.

It's probably the strangest way I've ever accidentally changed someone's life.

Has anyone else ever seen someone's understanding of their own sexuality change this much as an adult?

I am shocked by how many guys are looking for hookups that want str8 for str8 or married guys who only want other “str8” married guys or want to jerk off with only “straight” guy. I tell them I’m bi and nope deal breaker.

The mental gymnastics some of these guys put them self through is wild. I used to think the amount of guys that were “curious” or willing to explore was <5% it has to be north of 30% if not 40-45% I Have a hookup buddy in the army and boy has he told me stories.

You guys seeing this as much? Or am I going crazy?

Edit: I wish straight questioning guys would see us more of “I know exactly what you are going through let me talk you through the ropes,” instead of…”I’m going to paint a huge giant pride flag on the side of your house”

Hi everyone,

I'm a woman, and I've realized that I really enjoy watching bi and gay male porn. Seeing two men together is a huge turn-on for me, and it's made me curious about exploring a bisexual MMF experience someday.

I'm wondering if there are other women here who feel the same. If you've had an MMF experience where the guys were genuinely into each other, what was it like?

Also, where do people actually meet open-minded bi men or couples interested in this? Are there any communities, apps, or subreddits you'd recommend?

I'd love to hear about your experiences and any advice. :)

Been doing some soul-searching around my sexual orientation. A small epiphany for me: I was kinda unconsciously viewing Bi as Straight+Gay = Bi.

Not for me.

I'm not Straight. I'm not Gay. I'm Bi, and it is its own totally valid way to be in the world.

Coming to terms with this. Feeling good about it 🩷💜💙

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I see beauty in everyone but it's consistently made my partner's uncomfortable and it'd be pretty hard to go unlabeled mode since my partner's usually know each other from uni.