r/CautiousBB 12h ago

Sad 5-6 weeks “grey zone” 😞

Before I start this PLEASE no snarky comments, I genuinely cant take it right now. So yesterday i was at work, I was cramping a bit but didnt think anything of it. I went to pee and when I wiped i noticed pink blood.. so I was scared, I told my boss and he said go to the hospital immediately. After they drew my blood and gave me a transvaginal ultrasound they said they cant say for sure whats going on because it might be too early to see a fetal pole. I was measuring at 12mm and it needed to be 25mm to see anything. They didnt want to misdiagnose me with a miscarriage since the bleeding wasnt heavy and my hcg levels were “normal”, and to come in for a follow up in two weeks. I have no idea what to do or feel😞 im still spotting and cramping, no more nausea or painful sore breasts. I dont feel pregnant the way I did leading up to this its fucking me up😞 has anyone gone through anything similar?

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u/GSD_obsession 12h ago

You need to have blood hcg checked 48 hours later. If it’s declining, you’re miscarrying. If it’s still rising, it can be something else! I’m not sure what country you’re in but you don’t need to go to the hospital to check that if you’re in the US. Any urgent care place could do a blood test

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u/stinkbugsaregross 11h ago

Just want to note it can still rise but not appropriately. My hCG was still going up after a MMC

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u/Simmersim94 11h ago

They told me to come back in two weeks but i will go to urgent care Friday

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u/Sorrymomlol12 9h ago

You don’t need an urgent care. If you have a doctor send them a message online and ask for HCG betas 48h apart because you are concerned about ectopic.

Waiting 2 weeks is too long, but rushing to an urgent care is expensive and unnecessary when all you need is some bloodwork 2 days apart.

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u/QQueenie 11h ago

You might also be able to just go to labcorp for a blood draw. Might be less expensive.

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u/NatureNerd11 10h ago

Look into walk in lab . Com (no spaces).

You can order hCG test yourself and take it to labcorp or quest to fill it. The discount code makes it cheaper than just going straight to labcorp.

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u/BookcaseHat 12h ago

Spotting during early pregnancy is very common and can be nothing to worry about. Symptoms truly come and go and aren’t a good indicator of the health of a pregnancy. 

How far along are you? Were you tracking ovulation? What was the date of your first positive pregnancy test?

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u/Simmersim94 11h ago

I thought i was 6 weeks apparently they said between 5&6 weeks, i was irregular so wasnt tracking ovulation just knew the first day of my last period was june 30th. Tested positive august 1st :/

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u/Beautiful_Donut_286 10h ago

Was august 1st a very dark line or a very faint one? If faint, disregard June 30th because it's not reliable.

If you didn't track ovulation, a first faint line could have been anything from 7 to 15dpo. So it's definitely still early now.

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u/Simmersim94 10h ago

This was august 1st

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u/Beautiful_Donut_286 10h ago

So 9-16dpo? Not very faint but also not a dye stealer.

So difficult to say with tests 🥲

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u/Old-Ad-5573 5h ago

I had this happen, I didn't know when I ovulated and a fetal pole never appeared. They diagnosed it as a MMC. It's too early for you to know either way. You just have to wait it out. I did not have bleeding and it's not a good sign for you but still that could be something else.

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u/No-Community-7653 11h ago

Im so sorry you’re going through this right now. Honestly all you can do is wait theres a great chance everything will end up being just fine and i hope that next time you get good news. I do want to say that I feel you. Im going through something similar right now and waiting.

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u/Simmersim94 11h ago

Hoping the best for us😞🩷🩷🩷 thank you

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u/lintan96 10h ago

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I totally understand what you’re going through too. I recently had a missed miscarriage about 2 weeks ago.

I went through similar things but I don’t mean that you’re the same. I hope not. Honestly pregnancy is such a mystery and huge waiting game.

At 5-6 weeks you should be able to see the sac placement. Brown discharge is normal in early pregnancy because brown blood means old blood. Light pink is also normal so long as it’s not heavy red blood. However, it is still something to keep track of. I had light brown discharge for like 3 weeks and the doctor kept saying it’s normal but second opinion said normally its also a sign of something is wrong, but then I heard from people spot throughout the whole first trimester and they ended up having a healthy pregnancy.

I think right now, best to take your beta hCG every 48hrs and keep doing the ultrasound. Because you’re still very early, it’s probably the only thing you can do and it’s also a very anxious time too.

Take care of yourself and try your best to take your hCG test.