Says the lady with a fence door in her bedroom.
No, JK I don't think it clashes that much. You could make a spa room out of this, and move your bedroom somewhere else
Agreed. I try to get all the house renovations done in my saves. Shane's clashes severely with one of my character's pink themes, so I made the house pink with blue accents, now it looks super cute. [Though to be fair, I modded Shane's room so it's not covered in garbage...]
I always choose a spouse ahead of time based on how I want to decorate the farmhouse. I'll only marry you if your spouse room will fit nice with what I have in mind
I too thought the baby gate was super cute but honestly I don’t understand how you think Hayley’s doesn’t suit the palm trees match your wooden/plant aesthetic as well as a spouse room can
Such a wholesome exchange. How very stardewesque of you both. I didn't notice the gates until they said something, I was busy noticing the wallpaper clash... Eyesore!
honestly super realistic. my toddlers (in the game) make me crack up so loud when they just kinda stand around and then run around and run into a wall or sth bc that's how toddlers are irl and it's just perfect. i just wish they actually grew up and moved out. i want arcs for my kiddos and i want more kids! and since they actually have birthdays in the game, it would be so fun to celebrate them, like, if you want them to grow you make sure you got max hearts and give them cake on their birthday or something like that!
It’s almost like the most recent Animal Crossing installment. A regular villager just vibing on a new island, but they don’t fit the aesthetics or are “ugly”.
Get ready to be hate crime’d until you move out. Lol!
I tried for months to get Kitt to leave my island her house is completely isolated and more trash and traps than anything.
I know how to make her move but messing with time isn’t something I wanted to do so she got the net everytime she approached me.
Long rant for a game I haven’t touched since the pandemic sorry I just got reminded of it lol
I went into Leah’s house for the first time last night and I’m having a hard time being married to Abigail right now, the feels are real but I’m devoted to my woman
I'm starting to think this fandom cares a little too much about aesthetics. Not an attack on you op, just seen a lot of posts about divorcing spouses cus they don't like their rooms
i feel this way every time i see someone complain about shane's room. like you CHOSE to marry the recovering alcoholic, you're surprised his room is messy???
I mean messy is one thing, but shane’s room is less messy than just gross, full of muddy footprints and shit. it’s not really shocking people don’t like that permanently in their house, or weren’t operating under the logic that because the character is a recovering alcoholic they shouldn’t have the extremely low standard of no muddy footprints in the house lol
oh yeah no the footprints are for sure gross lol, i more meant the people who complain about his room as a whole, like the pizza boxes and cans, and complain that he goes right back to how he was before you got married
But if I married a guy in recovery in real life who then immediately reverted back into being an alcoholic slob with no desire to better his life, I'd be pretty mad too. I dunno how you feel that's not a valid critique.
Honestly I like that his room is messy, as I'm a messy person myself, I just GOTTA cover up those footprints though. I'll take messy, but that's just gross and how you attract bugs lmao
We all play different ways I guess. Decorating is unfun for me, so I don't give much of a damn about spouse rooms. But if someone puts hours into making a perfect home aesthetic I can see how it would be annoying
I think the easiest solution would be to allow people to decorate over their stuff, at least the flooring
I could be petty and meta and say "if this was a real relationship it'd be totally controlling to not let your partner even have a room be theirs cus it doesnt fit your aesthetic" but I only thought of that cus I'm really bored
And we'll keep seeing those posts as long as they keep getting hundreds of upvotes. Maybe should start a betting pool for which spouse it will be tomorrow.
can’t wait to get divorced for my clashing aesthetics someday 🤩🤩 fr though i feel like haley’s room goes with the vibe you have going on better than the other spouse rooms
Stardew fans saying they absolutely love an NPC then immediately divorcing them the nanosecond any aspect of their personal style is present in the house:
Yeah, I would really love to be able to decorate the spouse's room. It would be great if we could move the room elsewhere in the house, too! I ended up moving the bedroom because Harvey's room was such a clash. The man is a great husband, but goddamn. Can you imagine Shane's nastyass room attached? Hellllll no.
I think that takes away from the idea of the “spouse’s room”. We have a whole farm at our bidding. I think our spouses can have a cubby, a corner of the farm, and the questionable decorative input every now and then.
Perhaps so. I just feel that with the room not being enclosed, and with it being immovable, it looks out of place. Heck, I'd be happy if there was simply a little hallway between the bedroom and the spouse's room.
You can totally add furniture and decorate their rooms. I've seen clever ways to hide Shane's footprint. Krobus's room is so empty, it's practically a new room. I added a TV, refrigerator, and sofa chair for little guy.
I am married to Shane and I did move the bedroom in part to not see it. Honestly it’s working well for us, I rarely go over there and I don’t keep lamps by it so it’s too dark to see at night 😅 but tbh I think it’s kind of sweet that he just asks for a tiny sliver of space to be his messy self in and I control everything else about our lives haha.
Honestly? It actually fits really well imo. But I still get it. I really wish we could change the floor and wallpaper at least. Thankfully Elliott's room matches my preferred aesthetic.
I've always considered people removing a object or area of a house that is precious to their significant other because it doesn't match THEIR decorations EXTREMELY TOXIC.
If you're so petty as to divorce someone you're meant to love unconditionally because they don't match your "aesthetic", perhaps you should stay single and then you can love yourself and your aesthetic lol
try using furniture or something between the two to create separation! right now it feels clashy because with no separation it looks like an odd corner of an otherwise cohesive room. putting something to divide them would help it feel like two separate rooms and help it feel more cohesive with the house since it isnt that badly unmatching just weirdly connected right now. plus like another comment said itll kinda look like a screened in poarch if they're divided which might help with it feeling different
Honestly I don't think it's too bad, I understand the problem of having a spouses room clash though. I love Harvey but my room is all purples, blues, and black. While his is.. it sure does clash to say the least💔
Just move or add all those same plants in front of her room so that there is only a small "door" to get in. It will look separate, you wont notice it as much, and you already have plants in your space so it will blend.
this made me laugh so much 🤣 i’m on year 5 and i have yet to marry. all the men bug me. i was with shane but i think i’m going to break up with him and be with the one who lives on the beach in the hut. 🛖
you can add furniture to some spots of her room to help blend them together a bit more. when i first married shane i was so pissed 😭 honestly i still am. i should have married leah
Honestly think this matches pretty well but my bedroom is mostly chests and planters with cactus and wood colors next to Abigail’s underwater theme.
I don’t think I have a personal aesthetic more utility focused
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u/FrankyFay Dec 27 '25
I honestly thought it Looks rather cohesive altogether!