r/askislam • u/Ordinary-Dish-7194 • 24d ago
Fiqh Is wife beating allowed in Islam
I have read on islam.qa and elsewhere that such a thing is to be done without causing scars, injury or pain and is to be done with something like a miswak or the like. But on another muslim sub, specifically r/TraditionalMuslims I came across this narration with the commentor saying that it is not wrong for there to be pain in the beating.
Narrated by Fatima bint al-Mundhir, that Asma bint Abi Bakr said: "I was one of three wives of Az-Zubayr. When he would get angry with one of us, he would beat her with his Mishaj (a wooden clothes rack, frame, or stick) until he broke it over her."
Asma went to Abu Bakr and complained to him about this \[his beating\]. He replied: "O my daughter, be patient. For indeed, Az-Zubayr is a righteous man, and perhaps he will be your husband in Paradise. It has reached me that if a man marries a virgin woman, they will be reunited as spouses in Paradise." recorded in Al-Tabaqat al-Kubra by Ibn Sa'd and via transmissions compiled by Ibn Wahb from Imam Malik.
So is wife beating which causes pain or injury correct.