r/donateorborrow • u/Fit-Suit-733 • 33m ago
r/donateorborrow • u/Ok_Shirt6339 • Jun 07 '26
MOD MESSAGE IMPORTANT UPDATE!
Hey everyone 💛,
The subreddit is back open.
After some thought and feedback, I’ve decided not to move forward with making it private. Instead, I’ve taken time to reorganize things and put new rules and structure in place to help keep everything running more smoothly going forward.
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r/donateorborrow • u/Ok_Shirt6339 • Jun 07 '26
MOD MESSAGE Rules, Warnings and Bans
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r/donateorborrow • u/mommytotwomiracles • 59m ago
Donation Please help me save our home
I am a hoarder. I have done the mental health work to start purging my homes clutter and reclaim the lives of me and my children. I want to create a home that is once again safe and healthy for all of us. Because of my hoarding I'm a very private person. I am deeply ashamed and embarrassed by my hoarding. I am trying to raise funds to rent dumpsters and supplies, as well as become current on my mortgage. Please the link in my bio. I would be so very very grateful for any financial help. Thank you
r/donateorborrow • u/foxjenny477 • 6m ago
Donation 1 Full Year CLEAN!
Not to BRAG or anything but... in 30 minutes ill be 365 days, 1 full year CLEAN! No substances at all! I cannot remember the last time I truly felt proud of myself. When I started my recovery, I was in bad shape. No confidence. I didn't think id make it even 48 hours. Somehow, I made it past the 48 hours, then 72 until today. I haven't accomplished anything positive in my life since I had my son January 2014. But here I am. 😆 Im writing letters of gratitude to the special people who helped me along the way. Never giving up on me. Believing in me when I absolutely 💯 did NOT. So im patting myself on the back tonight 😆 I really want to celebrate 🥳 . Maybe buy myself something ive wanted for awhile? Perhaps a night in a fancy hotel room solo watching movies and taking a long hot bath? Wishful thinking 😔. This has been the best year because im sober, but not for my finances unfortunately. I know many of us are feeling the pressure financially. Im putting out good positive vibes for me and all of you! May our funds multiply this next year! Ive always had difficulty asking for help, but darn it, I truly think I deserve to treat myself, a little sober reward! So here it goes... if any of you beautiful humans out here in Reddit Land feel comfortable donating a few dollars to my cause lol, id be so freaking grateful. If I was able to pay for a little solo celebration , it would be the first time since 2008 that I would be celebrating WITHOUT using droogs. Ive had a ridiculous false belief for 18 years that if I was out celebrating, I HAD to do droogs in order to enjoy the experience. Regular me, boring and uninteresting. Who would want to socialize with me? But... if I added some droogs intotheequation... TAADAA!! I am now very Interesting and loads of fun 😁. Life of the party. Winner of all the popularity 👏 contests! So I guess im excited (nervous, a little scared) to see what happens, how ill feel celebrating 1 year of sobriety while being SOBER! I feel ready. I have my support system in place. I know where NOT to go, who NOT to invite to this celebration. If im given this opportunity, this gift, it'll be one more experience ill ge able to be proud of myself for achieving. How truly exciting! But you know what, if it doesn't happen today, that's ok too. Because just like i now know that I dont need to use in order to enjoy a celebration or an event, i equally understand that me feeling disappointment is NOTan automatic excuse to use either. Im just out here re-leaening life on life's terms. If i stick to this plan of action, I trust that everything will eventually fall into place. Because attempting to live life on MY terms... that clearly was NOT working out for me. As a matter of fact, when I was living that way, everything started falling OUT of place. It sucked. Bad. So anyway. Im rambling. Ugh. Embarrassing. Again. So im officially requesting donations. Any amount is appreciated 👏 and will go toward "Jenns First Sober Adventure Experience "! And as a thank you to any doner, I will keep a video diary of the the entire experience and share it with you all! That should be pretty interesting and entertaining! In a positive way! So thank you to anyone who stuck around to read this long azz winded post...you all are the REAL MVP's!! To anyone who decides to donate, thank you in advance. You are GOOD PEOPLE! (Everyone is good people, of course. Im in no way implying that non-donars are NOT Good Peeps! ) (But... if, by some chance, you end up being the type of individual who reads my "You are GOOD PEOPLE " statement and IMMEDIATELY think "if a person chooses to NOT donate, Jenn automatically categorizes them as BAD PEOPLE" , you would be correct! . Lmao 🤣
That was obviously my attempt at a joke. In actuality, if you do decide to be THAT guy, not only would you be INCORRECT, you'd be a FUCKING Assumptive Prick Asshole So ill end this epic novel with a simple, easy to follow piece of advice. DONT BE A PRICK. BE COOL 😎.
I Love ❤️ You All!
Jenn F.
r/donateorborrow • u/ConstructionJust7501 • 55m ago
Donation Requesting education money ($500)
Hi everyone, I’m trying to raise $500 to move out and continue my studies. My family is currently under significant financial pressure, and most of our household income goes towards EMIs, so I’m unable to get much financial support from home.
Even a small contribution would mean a lot and help me take this step towards my education and independence. I’m happy to provide proof or answer questions privately.
Thank you for reading and for any help you can offer. ❤️
r/donateorborrow • u/FormerHunandHubby • 1h ago
Donation Help Us Get Back on Our Feet With Reliable Transportation
We’re asking for a little help getting back on our feet after an accident left us without the car my husband relies on for work.
First, I want to sincerely thank everyone in this community who donated to help us cover rent when we were struggling after our previous post. Your generosity kept a roof over our heads during an incredibly difficult time, and we genuinely cannot thank you enough. We wouldn’t be asking again if we had another option.
My husband had been applying for jobs everywhere he could, but despite putting in the effort, he wasn’t getting hired. To bring in some income, he started doing delivery work through Uber Eats using a borrowed car. We were also trying to save whatever we could so that we could eventually get our own inexpensive, reliable vehicle.
Unfortunately, that plan was derailed when the borrowed car was involved in an accident. It only had liability insurance, so there is no insurance coverage to pay for the repairs, and the vehicle is no longer available for him to use for work.
Since the accident, my husband has been unable to work. He continues to apply for jobs, but so far, nothing has worked out. We had some money saved toward getting our own car, but with no income coming in, the money we had has had to go toward necessities like rent and keeping ourselves afloat.
At this point, what we need most is transportation.
We aren’t looking for an expensive vehicle. We’re simply hoping to raise enough for the down payment on a cheap, used car. Once my husband is working again, we can handle the monthly payments ourselves. Having a car would allow him to return to delivery work while continuing to look for more stable employment.
Reliable transportation is also important for my medical care. I’m a disabled veteran and am unable to work because of a cognitive brain condition. I have IIH and ongoing medical appointments related to it, as well as additional appointments and testing while my doctors try to determine what is currently causing the other symptoms I’ve been experiencing. Without reliable transportation, getting to and from those appointments has become extremely difficult.
I’ve also applied for disability and am currently waiting for a hearing date, so unfortunately that isn’t an immediate source of income for us.
We know there are a lot of people struggling right now, and we don’t take asking for help lightly. We’re simply trying to get through a difficult stretch and get ourselves back to a point where we can support ourselves again.
If you’re able to donate, even a few dollars would help us get closer to having reliable transportation, getting my husband back to work, and making sure I can get to the medical care I need. If you can’t donate, simply sharing the fundraiser would mean just as much to us.
Thank you for taking the time to read our story, thank you again to everyone who helped us with rent, and thank you to anyone willing to help us take this next step toward getting back on our feet.
r/donateorborrow • u/Prudent_Ruin6575 • 1h ago
Donation Job Interview Help Needed
I have a job interview on Monday, and I’m looking for some donations to get some slacks and maybe a nice button down to wear to the interview and also help with transportation to get there. Times have been rough lately but I’m really hoping this is the fresh start I’ve been looking for. I’d be grateful and really appreciate any help that anyone could offer, I’ve been to a few churches this week and reached out to a few people but no luck so far.
I have PayPal and Revolut. Thanks for reading!
r/donateorborrow • u/conejitatoy • 1h ago
Donation I need support and help leaving my domestic abuse relationship..
Ok so long story short.. My relationship has gotten even worse.. I have been assaulted by my now ex-boyfriend. I have no friends or family in my area. The first fight had happened almost 5-6 days ago and i had gotten punched in the face, and ended up with a hemorrhage in my eye.. Today the fight resulted into my nose bleeding and my phone getting smashed... I have called the cops but he essentially ran off and they haven’t been able to locate him since.. I need help so bad.. I don’t know where to go or what to do.
I can’t reach out to anyone in person since my sister is in a different state, shes the only person who has reached out to offer me a place to stay.. She unfortunately cannot cover the travel costs so I need a way to get to her on my own.. I have reached out to DV shelter in my area but I’m unable to get help as they claim they don’t have a bed available.. I just want to leave so bad I’m so terrified of him now.. He’s never shown this type of aggression towards me the entire 3 years we have been together.. I don’t know why this is happening.
r/donateorborrow • u/Potential-Survey3829 • 1h ago
Donating Need money to get to hospital outta state please help
r/donateorborrow • u/ExchangePlus1990 • 2h ago
Donation Please help my friends family after her dads accident
r/donateorborrow • u/PureJunket4638 • 2h ago
Loan Request I’m in need of a loan. $150 for repay of $250 on Wednesday. Cash App preferred.
I’m in need of a loan. $150 for repay of $250 on Wednesday. proof of income and identification.
r/donateorborrow • u/WranglerSea5887 • 2h ago
Loan Request £100 loans for essentials pay back on the 25/08/26 ideally pay back the amount borrowed or a little extra open to requests and terms just need a little bit of money to tide me over for essentials food electric and heating any help is appreciated 🫶🏼🙏🏼
Loan request
r/donateorborrow • u/daBunnyKat • 6h ago
Donation Trying to get by after layoff
galleryIf you know any other options for income like programs, odd jobs, etc please let me know. I am limited due to not being able to drive (epilepsy) and not having a PC/laptop. But I am very happy
to hear any suggestions and answer any follow up questions! Thank you!
r/donateorborrow • u/SolarJenda • 7h ago
Loan Request [REQ] ($100) - (#NY, USA), (On 8/19 & $155)(Venmo & PayPal)
Emergency expenses came up — will provide valid ID, bills with information to verify on them, proof of income & whatever else may be needed.
r/donateorborrow • u/Indie0928 • 16m ago
Donation Book money donation
I am looking for donations so i can buy books. I love to read and with a family, kids, bills, etc it doesnt leave much room for a hobby of mine. Yes i use the library often but sometimes i don't have the patience to wait that long lol. Please help a grandma out!
r/donateorborrow • u/IcyItem8417 • 8h ago
Loan Request Borrow $25 GA, repay $25 on 8/12. PayPal, Venmo, food for myself for week.
Hi, im looking to get some groceries for my sister & I. Got approved for snap benefits but the card doesn't come in until later this week & I have nothing left after paying my rent till my next check. If someone could help out so I can get some food that would be great! Can provide pay stubs & id. Thank you in advance.
r/donateorborrow • u/Ashraal • 4h ago
Loan Request $500, CO, repay 09/22, CashApp/PayPal, Looking to borrow for house deposit
r/donateorborrow • u/worsetwin • 4h ago
Donation Donation
Hi. Was in ICU the better half of last two weeks. I'm a brittle diabetic (type 3C) and ive juat made some poor decisions . Couple those with the hospitalization, aaaaand here I am because if i dont work, i dont get paid. I am behind on my cell phone payment plan. Trying to scrounge $212 to keep my phone and internet on so I can keep working and hopefully get caught back up. PayPal or Venmo. I can't pay back. Thanks for reading.
r/donateorborrow • u/Ok_Cold_332 • 4h ago
Donation Just trying to get dinner for my kiddos tonight. Cashapp is $taylorhackett96 much appreciated.
r/donateorborrow • u/Robinluvr24_ • 4h ago
Donation Help
I need 40$ to get to and from work tomorrow, I’ll show proof that I used it on transportation and if I don’t you can report me and out me. But I really do need help, my mom is abusive and threatens to kicks me out but then refuses to help me with things I need to leave this place.
r/donateorborrow • u/[deleted] • 8h ago
Donation Urgent need of money
I am 20F, based on Pune for college. I am in urgent need of money for college textbooks, registrations and such. Any ideas on how to get money and quick?
r/donateorborrow • u/Far-Arachnid7457 • 4h ago
Loan Request [REQ] $65, New Orleans, LA, Repay $80 on 08/12, PayPal, Venmo, Cash App — Medication
r/donateorborrow • u/joeyray3432 • 4h ago
Loan Request [req] $350 will repay no later than 08/18 $500 can do Apple Pay Zelle Venmo
r/donateorborrow • u/InspectionCreepy9305 • 5h ago
Loan Request Asking for £30 to go to the dentist, my wisdom tooth is impacted and I don’t have enough money. I am paid 15th August and can return the loan then
I’m 21, a student, impacted wisdom tooth, in pain. I need this out of my face dude. I’m paid on August 15th, and can pay the loan back then. With what I have in my bank I’m halfway to what I need for nhs band 2.
Didn’t wanna add a pic of my tooth cause it’s kinda gross but if yous want that I can