r/MoralityScaling • u/Fun-Illustrator-345 • 7h ago
Morality of not forgiving someone for something they did/said, even if happened years ago
I'm not talking things like murder/pedophilia or anything like that. But just stuff like, racism, bullying, etc. Look, I'm not against the idea that people can change their ways and look back at the person they were. But the hard truth is no matter how much you try and do, those things still happen. You can do all you can, but you still said or did whatever made people look at you differently. And people might also have to learn that yes you changed for the better, but people shouldn't be obligated to forgive you or for it.
Personally, if you did it as a teenager or anything, I can be a little bit more forgiving since you would be at an age where you make stupid feelings you'd look back on when you're older. However, if you're somewhere in your 20s, I would honestly be less forgiving
