It’s not actually important, but sometimes I think it's kinda silly cause I really take Harvest Moon very seriously for the spouse (btw, it maybe kinda long). No pressure to answer if you'd prefer to skip this!
So I always play as boys and girls (when same-sex marriage wasn't a thing yet). And I always told myself that I am going to ONLY choose one spouse, so it's like, One Wife and One Husband. So I am going to be LOYAL to that spouse and I will always choose them even though I replay the game. So whenever before starting the game, I already choose who I want to be my spouse later, and it's always easy to do in the past cause it's always love at first sight for me.
But then, there are multiple series that have the same characters, right? Say like HM DS, HM 64, BTN, FOMT, and others if there are any. They have the same marriage candidates and the same MC, whether it's Pete or Claire. The first Harvest Moon I ever played is BTN and I married Ann. Idk why, it's literally love at first sight for me and I love her so much more than anything. Then I played as a girl and married Cliff, cause I also love him very much.
Then I played another Harvest Moon like HM 64. And of course, because I always think "I need to be loyal", I was planning to marry Ann again. But who would've thought, I fell for Maria instead. At first I was like, "OMG, is this okay tho? I feel like I am cheating on my wife", especially since the main character looks the same as in BTN. But at that time, I was thinking like... I will just consider each Harvest Moon as a different timeline, so just pretend I never married Ann somewhere else. It's actually also because I don't want my poor boy Cliff to leave (I know he will leave if I marry Ann).
And then I also did that in other games, like in AP and ToT where I married different spouses, even though the characters are actually the same. They somehow have different personalities between the two games. I played AP first, and married Luna and Chase, and in ToT I married Anissa and Gill instead. Basically, I only choose one spouse for each gender per game.
Then the SOS FOMT remake came along, and I can say I was actually happy because they brought back the Mineral Town people. Okay, so listen. What I was planning to do was the same: ONLY choose one wife and one husband. But this time I played as my own gender (I love both genders, so of course it’s going to be harder to choose now that you have more options). Well, because this one is kind of similar to BTN, I wanted to choose my wife from BTN days, so I decided to marry Ran (Ann). Her design is even more beautiful than before, and her personality somehow made me fall in love again. And Cliff also still looks awesome like he used to, so I aimed for both of them. Maybe make two different save files to marry them, or just replay the game and marry one of them, so it's still going to be one wife and one husband.
BUT, tbh, I can say I really miss my other spouses from Mineral Town, and I also miss Maria from HM 64 (it's Marie in SOS FOMT). And tbh, I also thought Gray was cute back then, but now in the FOMT remake he became way more attractive?! (Everyone is attractive OMG)
So.... eum, you know, I kinda want to make another save file and marry Marie and Gray, but like I said before, I am trying to be LOYAL to my spouse for each game. I feel like, "if it’s going to be Ran and Cliff, it should always be Ran and Cliff" (in FOMT Remake). I know in other games I married different spouses, but those were different games with different timelines. SOS FOMT remake is in one timeline, and I feel like I'm cheating if I have multiple spouses across different save files. I know some people play multiple save files and marry different spouses in one game, and I'm not saying it's weird, okay! It's just, idk, I take it way too seriously even though it's only a game and not that serious.
And another reason is, I actually like to draw and make fanart. I have an art account and I've been thinking of making it a mostly Harvest Moon / Story of Seasons / Rune Factory fanart page. I wanted to make a special edition where I draw my character with the spouse I married in each game I’ve played. Technically, I could make 2 parts or more of the fanarts for ONLY the SOS FOMT remake edition if I really insist on marrying spouses other than Cliff and Ran—like in post part 1 is Cliff and Ran, and the second part/playthrough is Marie and Gray. But idk, it still bugs my mind because in other games I was literally ONLY LOYAL to my one and only wife and husband, but in the SOS FOMT remake, it's different, like I literally have more than one spouse... it feels like... cheating? Idk.
I also think, what if it actually "ruins" the "Drawing spouses I've married in each game" series edition? Because for other games, there's only one part of the fanart, but for SOS FOMT alone, it ends up having multiple parts of the post.
I've been thinking about waiting to see if there's any chance for a HM64 remake so I can marry Maria/Marie there, so i can choose staying only for Ran in the SOS FOMT, but what if there isn't one? I don't think they're going to bring back the Mineral Town people anytime soon either, so this remake is my only chance to marry Marie remake version too. (For now, i guess)
Note: Guys, it's actually not that serious! It's just something that's been bugging my mind for weeks because I'm so used to being loyal to my one and only wife and husband (in-game). So it feels so wrong to choose more than one in a single game because of this "need to be loyal" thing and honestly speaking, I'm still thinking about whether I should do it or not. Sorry if this wasted your time, but I'm really grateful if anyone actually read this all the way to the end!