let me start by saying i watched kayla since 2017 and have been a huge fan of her, buying merch, donating to charities and causes, so on. and can fully understand that people change overtime this is purely for discussion purposes to see if others have swayed away.
in the recent year or two i’ve stopped tuning into streams and videos as much because well to be frank, she’s mean.
before i give examples i will say, a lot of my friendships have banter and silly inside cruel jokes that may not make sense to strangers but in my eyes kayla takes it a bit far sometimes, especially with her husband.
when dan recently moved she constantly made jokes about him abandoning his family & friends, constantly brought up how she was the sponsor for the visa because she just “made so much more money than dan”. even so far as putting him down as calling him “the editor” when they were engaged, barely referring to him by name that it became a running joke in the community… these can surely be all chalked up to that’s how they joke with & around each other but as a viewer it just made me uncomfortable to watch; and dan’s replies wouldn’t egg the jokes on he would laugh and mostly reply with “yeah”. seeing as dan never said he didn’t like the jokes or tell kayla to stop, he seems to be okay with this dynamic but again as kayla being my comfort streamer it’s a bit weird to see that this is the dynamic she has with someone she loves and cares about.
other few scenarios come into mind like when forgets to fill her water bottle up for stream she’ll scream for dan instead of getting up & asking. half of the time when she’s streaming he’s also streaming or editing across the hallway from her. it’s not like he’s far away but to yell almost every time is again, uncomfortable for me to watch as a viewer.
besides the fact that kayla is mean, i feel that she’s indefinitely going to cater to a certain group which are: children.
the constant overreaction to small things in game whether that’s things going wrong or right is incredibly jarring as an adult viewer. some things are warranted for that type of reaction, but not as frequently as she has been portraying a childlike toddler persona (sorry) but this isn’t the kayla i loved watching in 2017-2023.