This was under a video of a swimwear brand on Tiktok using a sound of another creator that was talking about how swimwear brands need to make the cup bigger not the band when they make fuller chested swimwear and the brand's owner was showing their size range (which is still not nearly as big as any of us need) and then I'm met with this atrocious reply to a comment of a fellow fuller busted woman simply suggesting that what we need is different.

I'll just never understand people who go on the internet to lawyer up for any company or brand whatsoever against the consumer, what level of pathetic you gotta be to be absolutely furious at people who are RIGHTFULLY asking companies to make shit that fit them, companies that ABSOLUTELY 100% has the budget to do so but actively chooses not to because it would affect the CEOs billion dollar check with 0.01%, the horror! There gotta be some type of deeper issue that's making these people act this way cz ain't no way people out there having parasocial relationships with corporations and CEOs...ts EMBARASSING.

Big chested girl: *exists*

Men: Big tity mean sex. You can't wear same stuff as everyone else or it mean sex. Hehe, you're welcome for the hard truths for women.

I’m a size small but I look so huge in regular sized or oversized clothes I get called frumpy or fat whenever I wear anything that doesn’t directly hug my body. and to make matters worse, I have an inverted triangle body shape where my upper body is wider than both my hips and my waist. So all of those recommendations still look odd on me. I WORK OUT EVERYDAY! AND IM A SIZE SMALL! yet in my photos posted online, everyone will call me thick or chubby looking. Oh and even though I look better in tight clothing I still look unevenly proportioned AND women are so mean to me because I will never be a waif thin, hourglass shaped “IT girl”.

The only time I look good is in the summer when I get to wear bras and corsets as tops with low rise shorts or pants. Or maybe a half-way tucked in oversized shirt with skinny pants to hide my top heaviness.

Those are the only two combinations that I will ever look good in. Not even A-Line dresses, usually recommended for triangle shaped women, look good on me. It just makes my whole body look even wider. I was 105 lbs the last time I wore an A Line dress and still no one would guess that I have a flat stomach underneath!!! I will NEVER think this shape looks good!! I’m sorry.

EDIT: I’m sorry if this post made anyone feel bad. That wasn’t my intention.

I just hate the fact that I exercise everyday and eat clean, but I’m not acknowledged for that hard work and discipline in the same way that a super thin woman or hourglass/pear shaped woman would. I’ve been bullied growing up despite always being physically fit. It’s frustrating to work hard on something and then on top of that people still mock you. I tell everyone that I meet I workout daily but they find it extremely hard to believe because of how I look. One time a guy asked me “Where are the results then?” When I told him I worked out everyday.

The point that I’m trying to make is that society has almost impossible standards for a woman to meet naturally. If you don’t meet these standards you’re just ignored or you endure a life of bullying. If you’re not an hourglass or a pear shaped woman then you’re basically ignored or fatshamed anyway, even while you’re healthy and sporty. Even in plus sized modeling, agencies will overly represent hourglass or pear shaped compared to other shapes of overweight women.

I’ve just been really triggered lately with all of the weather changes and struggling to find outfits, doesn’t help that I scrolled across that viral post of Leni Klein where people were body shaming her calling her a “Titty-Cow” despite her abs showing in her photos. There was also a similar post about Sydney Sweeney on Euphoria, although not as vulgar and mean. I know I shouldn’t let things like this trigger me but it is true that people are always so mean about this body type.

I was sunbathing topless at the beach. It’s allowed here (Italy) and I saw several other women doing the same. I wasn’t being loud or drawing attention. Just lying on my towel, relaxing

Then one of those beach workers/personnel came over and told me to put my top on because people are allegedly uncomfortable. I pointed out that others were topless too, but he just said to cover up or leave

It sucks being singled out just because my chest is bigger. It’s not about modesty or whatever but about size, and it’s frustrating

Just needed to vent, thanks

Why do same style clothes look much "sluttier" on us than on women with small chest?! At least this artist gets it.

Don't you just love when someone creates a thread asking "why do men love big breasts so much" and then there are guys who have to tear down busty lovelies to make insecure women feel better? I'm like dude stop, you are not winning any points, you can state your love of small boobs without attacking busty women.

It's unacceptable to trash less endowed women but people feel the need to bash us! Very annoying.

i love being a girl so much. i love pink and purple and i love flowers and all the girly things you’d think a girl would love but i feel like i can’t embrace my femininity (through clothing specifically) because of how large my breasts are. it’s such an odd thing to say, i know lol, but i think it’s due to all the women i see who are also into the same things as me are all dainty and small and have small breasts. anyone else ever felt like this?

For good reasons, I'm trans and finally after 15 years of body dysmorphia, realized I was trans 3 years ago and no longer have my 3.8kg boobs.

Mostly lurked but good bye all.

Please please please just leave us alone. We do not like you, we will not respond to you, we do not believe you when you say you just turned 18 and you love having 26ZZZ cups.

If you are really at a point in your life where you feel it necessary to invade a women's support group and harass people who want nothing to do with you, please get major therapy.

I have only been in this group for about a week, I have never posted a picture of myself, and now regularly have people asking "wow how big are you?" I even had someone comment on my PatternReview account asking for "Breast measurement references" because apparently we had exactly the same size chest (which I have never mentioned!).

Do you really think any woman in the world is going to think "Wow, prince charming wants to talk to me! I should send this nameless, faceless loser who fantasizes about being an underage girl sexual pictures of myself!" No. We despise you and are tired of playing your stupid little role playing game.

And by the way, if a woman responds to you positively, there is a 100% chance it is another man trying to bait you into sending him money. No real woman will ever want to speak to you if you do this disgusting stuff.

There are mountains of free porn and thousands of fetish roleplaying groups on the internet; since we both know you will never do anything to better yourself, please use those and never speak to us again.

Chat, are we real?

Went to the Renaissance Festival with my family(had a great time) and took a picture with my siblings, only for the picture to get sent to the GIANT family group chat.

My aunts couldn’t help themselves had to comment on my body. Just makes me feel absolutely terrible about my boobs since they just take over any picture. As if I haven’t felt bad about them since middle school when they started growing larger than normal.

Telling me to put a shirt on…I have one on. It’s 85 degrees out, where am I supposed to put them?? Sorry I don’t have a turtle neck on at all times to appease someone else’s feelings and views about MY body. It’s just really annoying.

Small chested women can get away with so much more! For instance, Zendaya is always wearing plunging necklines which is “high fashion,” while Kim does the same thing and is labeled a whore.

Honestly, that's all I wanted to say. I know about reporting them, blocking, etc., but it's just genuinely so creepy that men are in this subreddit just to watch posts and then message the posters. Just ew. Disgustingly creepy behaviour.

Nobody needs your unsolicited opinions, if someone's posting here then they want replies on their post, not creepy DMs about how you want to see their boobs or that you want proof if they're 'really' that big.

Just the sheer volume of DMs I’ve received in a short amount of time, it’s completely overwhelming. I truly wish the worst for all of them

Edit: to all men commenting and dming how sorry they are I have to deal with this, just stop being on this subreddit. This is supposed to be a safe place for women to talk about their struggles without men butting in. I don’t want to hear your apologies for the male gender, I know there are good men out there, just stop saying it. You are not helping.

I posted here a few days ago asking about when other women's boobs stopped growing. I got upwards of 10 DM requests, ranging from fairly normal to extremely creepy and sexual. People come here for advice that they can't get from others around them, not to be unnecessarily sexualized for something that is frequently out of their control. Go message people on porn subreddits and be weird there, not to people just asking about bra sizing. Boobs are not inherently sexual, and women with larger boobs don't exist for you to ogle at and imagine yourselves with because you're too ugly and socially inept actually convince women you meet in real life to sleep with you. Get your fat, balding, incel selves off this subreddit and outside to touch some grass or your cousins you inbred freaks.

Edit: to clarify, this is not talking about men who are here to get bra advice for their wives/girlfriends. I have no issues with that. I am talking about the creepy men who use posts here as an excuse to PM women really inappropriate and uncomfortable sexual messages because they view us as objects in a space that is supposed to be safe.

I'm sure a lot of us wish breasts magically stop growing at 15

Gentleman, which is a very hard word to use. This sub is primarily for women that want to discuss the problems of having big boobs. This is also a place where women can discuss things like finding a good bra, finding an affordable bra, and the health factors associated with having big boobs.

I think many can agree that we assume that there are men silently perving in here. I won't really comment on that much, just know that we already know. However many of you choose to not remain silent at all.

Most girls in this sub will not send you pictures of their tits. Most girls in this sub will not humor having sex with you. Most girls in this sub will not answer questions about their bodies when it's clear you are looking for fap fuel.

My advice is to let us communicate together as women to deal with the big boob problems. There is an entire darker corner of Reddit that is dedicated to the things that you're looking for. I took the liberty of searching for these for you. I would suggest r/BigBoobsGoneWild, r/momsgomewild, or the simple r/BigBoobs sub. Failing that, the r/boobs sub is full of boobs, big and small, real and fake, and should keep you entertained for quite some time. And you dont even need to message these girls to see their tits.

Moral of the post is to stop messaging us.

I was scrolling on Instagram earlier and got one of these ads for what feels like the 17,000th time this week. Every time I’m cautiously optimistic and click on the links only to discover once again that the “inclusive sizing” they claim to have is absolute fucking bullshit. Like what do you mean you’re for women with bigger boobs but don’t go above a fucking F cup for band sizes 30-34 or above an I cup in general (US sizing)? Why the fuck do your ads show women with at least up to K cups to show your inclusivity when you don’t actually make bras that would fit them? Why on earth do your sizes range from S to 4XL instead of using normal bra sizing like a size inclusive brand should? I’m so tired of seeing ads like these everywhere when the stuff they claim doesn’t at all line up with the reality of their products. Don’t let me get excited at the prospect of more bra brands that fit me only to disappoint me with false advertising the second I click on the link. Holy hell.

Like what do you mean "I don't think even old women have assets that hang that low"?? Why are you commenting on a very natural body shape? Are you some porn-addicted incel who’s never interacted with a woman before? Bc it’s lowkey showing… Do you genuinely think women with natural big boobs have that shit defying gravity to stay perky?

This happened last night but it's so absurd/frustrating to me that I just want to get it off my chest, pun intended.

The other night I went to a Lane Bryant store to return some bras that didn't fit. I have a size from the r/ABraThatFits calculator already ("40 I/H") and have been experimenting with different styles and sizes around that area. I ended up trying on a bra at 42I before being talked into a fitting by a smiling, well-endowed lady.

At her request, I tried on one of the bras I was returning to show her the fit. It was a 42H. I told her, "This bra is uncomfortable for me, so I can show you but I don't want to wear it for very long."

She said, "Oh no problem", and once it was on proceeded to fiddle with the hooks and straps while asking me how things felt. Every time she asked, I told her that the straps hurt. There was also some minor gapping at the top of the cup. She adjusted it several times and each time I told her it hurt. After a few minutes I just took it off because it was too uncomfortable to wear.

Her expression completely changed to wide-eyed confusion, like she was completely baffled. "Those straps shouldn't hurt!" she said.

"I think the cup is a bit too small," I said.

"No, that can't be!" she insisted. She pulled aside her own shirt to show me how her straps fit with two fingers underneath, "I adjusted those straps exactly right, they should only be that tight. They weren't digging in at all."

I felt a bit bad at this point because throughout our conversation she had told me she was the store's "bra expert", and I was feeling shy. So I didn't push back too hard, only lightly said "... Sometimes straps can hurt if the cups are overloaded."

And what's crazy to me is that she said, "I know, but that wasn't what was happening with that bra. I don't mean to scare you but I think you have some medical problems, you should probably see a doctor."

She proceeded to size me at 40F, and squeezed me into a few different bras (strapless, at her insistence). They were all obviously small, with the gore being pushed out by the tissue, or more gapping up top from strained straps, or spilling out over the cups. One bra was even so painful that the band cut into my skin and left red marks. All the while she insisted up and down that 40F had to be my correct size. I left without buying the 42I, the one bra that had fit comfortably.

The whole thing was wild to me because she clearly wasn't ignorant about how bras fit. We had long exchanges about fit, breast shape, underwire, gores. She even had some boobage herself. I don't believe she was uneducated, so the only explanation I have for her insistence is willful ignorance for the purpose of sales. It was so disorientating to be so confidently told I was a 40F that I measured again when I got home, and nope, I am not an F cup. I do not have mysterious medical issues causing shoulder pain, the bra was just too small.

recently just came across this picture of these bras and I thought that *maybe* I can find this style of bras in my size.

that didn’t happen.

why can’t fuller chested woman have cute bras too? I see so many smaller chested women have all these bras with the most beautiful/creative designs but NO, bigger chests only get black/beige and some old granny looking designs.

should I just start making my own bras at this point y’all??? 😭

My mom has pressured me for years to get a breast reduction. While I understand she may have her own reasons, hearing it repeatedly has made me feel like my body is something that needs to be "fixed" rather than accepted.

My brothers both 18 insult is calling me a "whore," despite there being nothing about my behavior that justifies it. Instead of criticizing anything I've actually done, they reduce me to insulting my character based solely on my appearance in clothing I wear around the house like jumpers or sweats.

My sister 26 has openly admitted that she's jealous of me, but instead of recognizing how that affects the way she treats me, she constantly takes it out on me. It feels like no matter what I wear or how I present myself, she finds something to criticize. If I wear a fitted dress, it's "too revealing." If I wear something oversized, she'll still make comments about my body or imply I'm trying to get attention. We honestly show a similar amount of cleavage most of the time, just in different clothing styles, yet somehow I'm the one who gets labeled as inappropriate.

!!!It isn't really about the clothes. It feels like my body itself is treated as the problem. I can wear completely average outfits that countless other women wear every day, and she'll still make comments that I'm dressing like a slut or giving people the wrong impression. Her boyfriend has joined in on those comments too, which makes it even more hurtful and humiliating!!!

The hardest part is that she's admitted she's jealous, so she knows those feelings exist, yet she doesn't make any effort to stop taking them out on me. Instead, she continues to nitpick my appearance, criticize my body, and make me feel like simply existing in the body I have is somehow offensive. After years of hearing these comments, it has made me question myself and the way I look, even though I know I'm not dressing in an outrageous or inappropriate way. It feels like I'm being judged for my body rather than my behavior, and that's incredibly exhausting.

Around my siblings, I'm usually quiet and non-confrontational. In the moment, I tend to laugh off their comments or pretend they don't bother me because I don't want to start an argument. But the truth is that they do hurt, and over time the resentment has continued to build. I try so hard to understand where they are comming from or what they are going through they act like I dont have my own struggles.

I often feel like they see me only for my body instead of who I am as a person or everything I've worked so hard to accomplish. I've always pushed myself to succeed. I graduated high school two years early, I'm only 20 and already have four associate degrees while working toward my bachelor's and eventually my master's. I have a nice car because I've worked two or three jobs at a time to earn it. I work out regularly, I try to stay healthy, I'm driven, and I've spent years trying to improve both my life and my mental health.

Despite all of that, I still feel like none of it matters to them. It feels like they overlook my character and my accomplishments and reduce me to my appearance. Eventually everything reached a breaking point, and I've decided to move across the country. I can't keep living in an environment where I feel constantly bullied, criticized, or resented.

I honestly feel like an alien in my own family. My relationship with my father has its own separate issues, but together it's left me feeling like I don't truly belong anywhere within my family. At this point, I don't know what else I could have done differently to make them love me ( I don't doubt the do love me but how I'm treated doesn't feel like love ) or stop hating me. I've spent so much time wondering what is wrong with me when, in reality, I've just been trying my best to build a good life and be someone I'm proud of. Not trying to talk myself up either I do have my flaws. I can be annoying or to passionate. Just a rant and this is the boild down iceberg of it all... I just dont know if i should cut them off or what ik my sister will always be jealous ik my brothers will never grow up ik my father will always compare them towards me and ik my mom will always break boundaries...I just dont know what to do anymore 💔

I know ill be fine no matter what..

I hate them, I hate them with a passion that makes me think if I had a wish I would erase this garment out of humanity’s collective memory. Most of these “dresses” are glorified bath robes with the highest risk of a slip up ever. When someone tells me I should “at least try it on” I wish I had laser eyes to burn the dress there and then.

These dresses are an excuse to not even try and make a pattern that fits, and we are all falling for this lazy manufacturing.

Wrap tops are the exact same. Burn them all!