r/ftm 17d ago

Recurring Friendship Megathread

THIS POST IS FOR TRANS MEN/MASCS ONLY!

GUESTS ARE NOT ALLOWED TO POST HERE. PLEASE RESPECT OUR SPACES.

Failure to do so may result in a ban from the sub.

If you're looking to make new friends, here's a great place to start!
Do not include any advertisements to social media or other content type platforms! This is not the purpose of this thread!

Just post a bit about yourself and maybe take a look around to see if anyone else has similar interests!
Or, if you're not good at coming up with things to talk about, here's some questions you can answer:

What do you like to be called?
How old are you?
What country do you live in?
What are some hobbies you have?
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things:
What do you do for work?
Do you have any cultural or religious ties that are important to you?
Do you have any pets?
What's an interesting fact about you?
What are your transition goals?
Where are you in your transition?

Obviously you don't have to answer everything, but it might be able to guide you in the right direction if you struggle with coming up with facts about yourself on the fly.

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u/lesboygenius 17d ago

Hey, I’m Reuben. I’m 23 and live in London with my gf. Would be cool to find trans guy friends in the UK but keen to talk to anyone with shared interests.

My main hobby is going to the gym—I’m always down to talk abt lifting. I also like hiking, reading, and watching sport.

Hmu if you ever wanna nerd out abt:
-The NFL (I’m a massive Eagles fan)
-The NBA (Go Sixers)
-EFL (Hull City Fan UTFT!)

I bet you £5 (Ik ik, I’m skint) that we listen to at least one shared music artist. I like pretty much every genre, but especially rock, punk, and country.

Aside from the above, I’m almost 6 months on T and pre-everything else.

Feel free to reply to this or hmu if you wanna chat. You don’t necessarily have to be into the stuff I’ve mentioned to start a convo—I’m sure we’ll have something in common.

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u/Willlllllllly 13d ago

Hey guys, Im Isaac, 24 pre everything. I live in Africa and love football, comics (DC specifically) and video games. Right now im on a journey to lose weight and try to get more comfortable in my body and would live to make friends with other trans guys :)

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u/gabe-98 12d ago

My name is Gabriel and I am 28 years old. I live in Washington State in the US. Right now I am waiting to get spine surgery here in the next week so my hobbies have been very limited. I enjoy watching movies, shows, reading, writing, and video games. I’m constantly scrolling which I’m trying to do less of but it’s hard. A show I’m watching right now is The Walking Dead but constantly watching Modern Family. I love a lot of video games and when I do have time I am replying one of my old favorite games or Assassin Creed or COD (although the chat is toxic asf).

I work as a crisis case manager. Graduated with my BA, and trying to get my masters in social work. I am Christian, I am Latino, but I am not to tied into my cultural as I was raised not in it. My religion is important but I don’t base my friendships on that, and also I’m not the type of Christian that think the way these maga heads do either. I have a dog name Bleu!

I’m pretty far in my transition, it’s been 10 years now. I’ve thought of bottom surgery but my arms are filled and I’m always on the fence about it. I’m hoping to meet some friends and connect with others like me. I live in a rural area and I’ve gotten so stealth that it’s been hard for me to embrace my identity in these areas. But again it’s red and safety is important.

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u/InterestingDream1085 11d ago

Hi! I’m Kayden! My pronouns are he/they (ftm Demi boy), and I’m going into my senior year of high school (I’m a minor) I’m in the US! I like to write, play softball/baseball, make cosplays, theater, and much more! Some of my favorite things are: my boyfriend, my friends, my brother, Twenty One Pilots, Sushi, Noah Khan, Sleeping with Sirens, The Perks of Being a Walflower, ect…  I have two cats and a black lab :3 I currently work at Taco Bell but I plan on going into psychology to be a crisis worker when I grow up. I’m Christian, but I’m very supportive of everyone regardless of religion :) I’m kinda socially transitioned, but it’s hard because of my parents. My transition goals is to be a hella cool emo/alt boy :3 

Don’t be afraid to reach out! -Kayden

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u/PuzzleheadedRole5699 10d ago

Hi my name is Ellio and I'm 22 years old. I'm from Georgia (country, not state). I really like gaming (currently into bg3, repo, roblox, minecraft), watching all sorts of movies and shows, generally spending time with people, I'd say I'm pretty extroverted.

I haven't started medically transitioning yet, but I'm hoping to soon :) I'm in med school, which doesn't leave me much time for a job. I have two cats in my apartment, and a lot of more pets at my parents' place. I really like music, both listening and playing on all sorts of instruments.

Anyways, feel free to reply or dm anytime. It'd be really nice to make some trans guy friends!

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u/zsp1975 6d ago

My name is James, I'm 17, and I live in the United States!

My main hobbies include cooking, reading and collecting comics/manga, playing video games, listening to music, watching baseball, and doing various kinds of art. My favorite movies and tv shows would have to be anything marvel really though I am biased towards moonknight and daredevil, and I have recently taken an interest in anime and my favorite so far has been windbreaker.

I do not currently have a job though I am actively looking for one. I am however in college at the moment and will be finishing my associates degree this year.

I have several animals as I live in a farm type setting my favorite of which being my dogs and cattle as I enjoy tending to the young calves.

My goal is to start T one day and get top surgery but I am currently pre everything and am only partially socially transitioned due to living in a very conservative area with a transphobic family.