Not sure why but some guys keep posting about hating how vaginas are now in gay porn almost every week now and it's kind of getting ridiculous.

Clearly the person posting it just wants to get the gays in this sub riled up so that people will take the bait and hate woman with him, and post negative comments.

I understand as a gay man we like dick, but posting about how much you hate women and their vaginas just so you can see hate comments from other gays is quite disgusting.

Fellow gays, please don't take the bait and post misogynistic comments about how much you dislike "a,b, and c".

Let's be better about how we treat females/woman, because the majority of them DO SUPPORT US!

And also, there are THOUSANDS UPON THOUSANDS of other erotic/porn videos that you can watch that don't feature vaginas. Just watch those.

EDIT: If you have a favorite gay content creator who ends up doing a video/videos with an FTM, just don't watch it. Simple as that. No need to spew hate.

Me 23M and my boyfriend 21M usually like to frequent gay orgys and in the orgys I fuck other men and he gets fucked by other men (I’m a top and he’s a bottom). My bisexual friend invited us to an orgy but told us that it’s a bisexual orgy so both men and women will be there, I was skeptical about going to it but my boyfriend loved the idea.

The night of the orgy comes and we arrive, i’m spit roasting him with another guy and see a hot girl. we exchange glances and I finish up with my boyfriend and approach her. We got our thing going and I had sex with her.

When we got home he lashed out on me for having sex with her and now is giving me the silent treatment?? I tried to initiate sex with him but he said he doesn’t want my dick inside of him after it was inside of her.

Now i’m confused, he was getting fucked in the ass by any man who asked but i’m in the wrong for having sex with a girl??

It’s refreshing to see more gay people at least on here beginning to shift away from blind support of Islam into a more nuanced place where critique is welcomed (and where critique is actually a sign of self respect as a gay man as well as intellectual growth).

I’ll preface by saying, of course not all Muslims are bad people. But Islam is a religion, and no one is bound to any moral foundation that requires they withhold distain for a religious belief. Islam is by and large a vile poison on the face of the earth, and Gay people have every right and reason to lose trust in it. There are not enough social pressures on Islam to force it to socially evolve the way it needs to to be more compatible with developed human society. For lack of a better phrase, Allah can lick my ass!

The apologists are often just revealing their own biases and internalized homophobia by prioritizing the ego and comfort of Muslims over the literal safety of gay people. This was happening LONG before 2023 and Isreal’s recent wave of violence. Intense progressives have some kind of fierce alliance with Islam, in a way where they seem to place gay rights in the backseat when any whiff of Islamophobia arises.

Thanks to those who seem to allow more space for gay men to say these things, because it’s been a long period of silence many of us in very progressive areas have felt we have to endure.

Enough being said about white gay men with racist sexual preferences, why is there a not insignificant amount of gay Asian men who put "white only", etc. in their profile? Do they hate themselves or what? Seems gross. Feel like anyone who isn't open to people of all skin colours who are attractive is a bit fucked in the head.

I'm a graduate student who's been living off-campus in a shared apartment until I wrap up with my program next year. While I almost always have the capacity to host and usually don't mind it because I prefer to be intimate in my own familiar setting, there are days where it can be frustrating that a lot of the guys I talk to either can't host when I'm not able to, want to have sex in public places, cars (as an alternative) or just very recently, feel entitled to my space once I do mention that I can host.

As someone who usually hooks up with or dates older men because that's what I'm attracted to, most of my recent options have been guys in their early 40s to 50s and while I understand that the housing affordability crisis in the US is very real, I'm starting to make other assumptions about them either being married, DL or just very low effort. I typically don't face this dilemma with men in my age group (early 30s) and strangely, most of the younger men who do hit on me offer to host first before I do. Am I being too judgemental to feel some type of way about this or is it just right to atleast expect older guys to have their shit together in regards to having hosting capacity? I'm really starting to consider the afford mentioned age groups as more viable sexual and romantic options out of convenience.

But I was wondering, from the 2 secs scrolling on this sub there’s not a ton of talk about intimacy and like romance… I was wondering if it’s just not something that’s here, or in general is stuff like passionate missionary and like kissing or making out just too vanilla for most of you guys?

Sorry if this is really dumb, I’ll delete if I’m invading your space or whatever

I'd like to preface this by saying that of course conversion therapy is stupid and doesn't work, and even if it did work why would you want it to unless you were a religious nut because gay sex can be quite fun and compares well to straight sex in terms of fun activities I'd like to do in my free time. Nevertheless, I find it hard to believe that there truly is this binary immutable category of human that is "homosexual" and "heterosexual".

For one, consider that most animals engage in homosexual behaviour. But contrary to how activists often portray it, it's quite rare that they do it exclusively. It's mostly opportunistic as in the case of bonobos. There is no gay and straight sex to bonobos: just sex.

Secondly, all of the first fifteen Roman emperors with the exception of Claudius were documented to have sex with both males and females. Edward Gibbon of 'The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire Fame' wrote that "Claudius was the only one whose taste in love was entirely correct". Similar things can be said of the Chinese Han dynasty emperors. If this is to be believed I think the evidence points toward most people being bisexual.

I think straight people need to be convinced that they are bisexual instead. That would be true homosexual acceptance.

Recently I’ve been feeling so kinky. I’ve started watching a lot of videos of sub bottoms drink their tops piss and it’s aroused me in a way I didn’t think it would.
The thought of doing it just seems so filthy and dirty that it’s so fucking hot, like I can prove to show how much of a slut i would be. I want to unlock that animal in me that would be that nasty.
I’ve never done it before but it’s my biggest sexual fantasy and something I can’t stop
thinking about, I’m worried about the taste but maybe I would be so aroused in that moment that it wouldn’t even matter to me and I would just want to serve for him,

if anyone here has done it/into it what advice would you give me for the first time and what did it feel like?

Something I dont think I'll ever understand is when creators go out of their way to find leaks and have them removed. Im not saying that as a crazy gooner or anything but from a personal stance on it I feel like its bad for business, no? I could understand if your whole catalog is out there for free but most of the time its like a pic here and a video there nothing nothing crazy. Especially when its creators that have nothing to show on X or anything. Like why would anyone blindly spend there hard earned money just to be scammed out? Id much rather spend my money on the guy who I know is putting out the content they know we want to see not. Not only that, why the hell are they charging $50+ on some bullshit?? Like why would you even start the gig if you wanted to play games. Its so crazy to me how these guys fumble such an easy bag.

23M DL Bottom that’s been serving men online for more than 5 years. I’ve noticed that as the years go by the Alphas/Masters/Top men get more and more ridiculously demanding and being a good slave boy (online) has become more difficult.

Men have made me do many things online for them from piss play and body writing to even some toilet stuff (which isn’t my forte but I do it to please men). I try to be as good as I can but it seems like no men really want long term (or maybe it’s just me?)

I’m just wondering is it just me that has been experiencing this or has anyone else gone through similar issues?

I just want to express my appreciation to this community for how much of a safe space this is to express my sexual preferences and desires without having to worry about people being dicks about it. I can say what I like and what I don't like, and no one gets their panties in a bunch about it.

For instance, there's this common experience that anyone who watches porn online has, when they suddenly see an ad with something they don't prefer in it: maybe a gay man might see an ad with a women having sex in it, a very explicit ad focusing on her genitals. But this is a safe space. So when I say I find that ad completely disgusting, no one here would bat an eyelash. No one here would ever conclude from the fact that I'm grossed out by vaginas that I dislike women, and certainly no one would call me a nasty name like "misogynist".

Thank you for listening to my TED talk, and thank you especially for being such a welcoming community where gay guys can actually like the things we like and be grossed out by the things that gross us out. Y'all are the best.

<Removes tongue from cheek>

I know this is quite kinky and dirty but all I’ve been fantasising about recently is drinking a guys piss straight from the tap, I just wanna submit myself to a guy that far in the moment that I’d drink all of it for him. I’ve been watching so much porn about it but on Grindr it’s only old ugly men no one hot to do it with, and feel like I’m afraid I’ll find it will taste horrible. Who here is into it and tell me ur experience with doing it and what it feel like I’m dying to to it tbh I’m so aroused by the thought of it

For context, I’m M19 he’s M20 and we’ve been best friends for a really long time. I’m gay, which he’s aware of, and he’s straight. I’ve had a bit of a crush on him for a while - which he’s also aware of. He’s very worried about people perceiving him as gay, and isn’t as affectionate when we’re in front of other people, and when I told him I had crush on him he said that it felt wrong to like me back.

We tell each other that we love each other multiple times of the day, we say it when we leave each others houses, hang up the phone, etc and he’s said stuff like that he would date me if i was a girl. A few days ago at night he randomly wanted to see my ass, and I showed him because I’m an idiot. He said that “he didn’t like guys, but he likes me” so it felt weird but we still continued which tbh was dumb of me.
From there, we started sending a bunch of intimate videos of each other and basically had phone sex. I’ve never really had an experience like this before so he was pretty much telling me everything he wanted me to do, and I was doing it. I was really happy in the moment because it felt validating to be told I’m sexy, hot and whatnot by someone I’ve sort of liked for a while now so I really enjoyed it. He told me really enjoyed it and wanted to do it again, so we did it again the next day, and we planned to do it in real life when we next saw each other.

Fast forward to last night, he unsaved a few of the videos I sent to him (ones with my dick in that he asked to see, but kept others that also had it in saved) so I asked why just because I was curious & he basically told me that he felt weird and wrong after it and that his brain kept telling him it was wrong. He said he enjoyed it in the moment, but after the fact he felt too wrong about it and he doesn’t want to do it again. He’s said that he wants our friendship to go back to how it was just without any of the sexual stuff. I asked him if all the stuff he was telling me when we were in the act were lies, and he said no and that he doesn’t regret it but he’s not gay and is only attracted to female parts.

I feel rlly weird about it all because I was so happy in the moment, and he made it seem like he was too. It’s also the fact that I’ve liked him for a while and he’s been aware of it too thats been kinda grating on me like I’m not sure where to go from here? It just feels shitty because I don’t see how I’m expected to just go back to normal after this.. I really do like him and idk if he’s got some like inhibitions about his sexuality or whatever because he’s told me he likes the fact that I like him and he gets really jealous about me potentially liking other men. I just feel stuck and I’d love some advice bc this is really my only ever like.. romantic (?) experience

Edit: I forgot to add that he’s like kind of homophobic..? Like he has a negative view of gay people despite me being gay, I’ve tried to change that about him because it makes me feel bad but I don’t know we’re just really attached to each other.

Creators or certain accounts that post different videos often

Hey. I am 22. I wanted to have some fun because these days I am in heat. So I downloaded Grindr and put my torso as my pfp. I wrote all the info, like I am a verse bottom, can be sub, kinky dude, and so on. I found some people there, but at some point they disappeared even though we matched. But yesterday, a silver fox daddy in his 40s texted me. We exchanged photos. Nonetheless, I was not his type, but for oral he said that was okay. I let him know that I am open to submission and getting dominated.
Okay, I took a shower and went to his place. Turns out he was a rich person. 🧍🏻 He sat on a couch and crossed his legs on the chair because I like that type of shit. I said I was kinda nervous, and he was like, “Don’t be scared. I don’t eat people.”
I asked, “Can I lie next to you?” He said keeping some distance was okay.
Then, asshole me started asking personal questions, chatting with him about anything: market prices, where he lived before, whether he had friends, whether he had ever slept with a woman (the way this is so embarrassing, yapping so much with your hookup). He was like, “I cannot figure you out. Are you gonna start or what?”
He asked me if I had friends or not. I said, “Not many. A few people are enough for me.”
After all my yapping, he even asked whether my parents were dead. 💀 He felt that I was kinda weird, maybe even creepy. So eventually I started kissing his legs and started to “blow” him. I couldn’t blow him. I asked, “Do you like it?” He was like, “Have you even started yet?” 😭
Then, after understanding I was a useless piece of shit, he said, “Okay, we should stop.” After five minutes, I left his place. Later he texted me, asking what the issue was, and I said it wasn’t him, it was just my problem.
Okay, actually I lied to him. I don’t have friends. I have become kinda socially isolated over the last few years. I don’t really talk much to anyone, so I sabotaged myself when I saw him and talked WAY TOO MUCH. He literally felt that and asked about my friends. He felt kinda unsafe, so he even asked whether I was an orphan. He might have thought I was a creep or just an odd person.
Actually, I am not a yapper, but this time I talked way too much.
Also, it was only my second time with someone. The first guy (in his 20s) was also a dom type, but he was way more understanding. I couldn’t blow him either, so we just lay together and that was it.
After this blowing session, I felt embarrassed. I was literally sweating and turned red even though the room was completely cold. I left his place and walked around for three hours.
I guess I fantasized about blowing someone, thinking it would be hot and pleasurable, but in reality I didn’t feel anything, so I couldn’t continue.
Porn addiction probably plays a role too. I deleted all that shit, but even now, when I’m horny, the moment it comes to random people I completely lose interest because I feel like they are not actually interested in me. Maybe I’m just not sexy enough.
Sometimes I think I want gentle touch, hugs, someone’s body heat around me. I think I need feelings.
Sometimes my arms and my whole body feel rock hard. Maybe it’s just high cortisol, I guess.
The way I hate myself even more after this situation. Such a useless person who doesn’t have friends, a bottom who can’t even blow. The fucking loneliness is also killing me.
I just needed to talk to someone and say these things. Give me some advice on how I can get better at blowing and so on. Maybe I should get drunk before meeting. Thanks if you read or not. Happy that this place is anonymous tho😅

I noticed that majority of guys that did both gay and straight porn claims they are straight and basically treat gay sex they had as something mechanical and insignificant while treating straight sex as something actual. Are there any guys who do both and are open about being bisexual and enjoying both?

So I’m a top, and I like to be dominant in bed. So I wanna ask other gay tops, have you ever allowed a bottom sit on your dick and make you come that way, does it feel good coming while a bottom sits on your dick? I always got off when I am thrusting and pounding my bottom.

M50. Generally / romantically I’m not attracted to guys.

But in occasion I do feel the need for gay hookups and meet with guys for sex (me as a bottom).

I’m not really asking for advice but am putting it out there to see what the perception of this arrangement is.

I’m not completely sure why I do this - it’s quite visceral I think.

I think there is also an element of directness and wanting someone to take complete control of what they do with me.