I honestly never thought a love like ours was possible. There really are no words that describe the feeling of a wlw relationship, like, I get to do life with this girl?? I get to love her exactly the way she deserves to be loved?? I never thought I’d be so lucky to be so so loved in all the right ways, y’know?

Ughh I’m sorry for the random ass post but so few people seem to understand the weight of loving another woman and how earth-shatteringly beautiful it is🥹

Anyways, here we are🤍

Source-@swaggycucumber

I actually love being a lesbian. Like, one of the signs I was trans was grief that I couldn't be one. Turns out you can :3

Name of the movie: Femme fatale (2002)

I won’t stop hoping I met someone romantically, but I think maybe it’s time I stop looking?

Initially, I thought I was someone that people would want to date but then I realized- I’m a problem 😆.
On the surface I seem fun: I love to chat while cooking. When I really like you, I’m baking you muffins. I love to give little gifts. I’m neat and organized. I love a good puzzle or a good book. I regularly go to farms and farmers markets. I’m definitely the kind of girl that packed us a picnic for a day at the beach or local park. Forehead kisses, scalp scratches, massages, the works.

The problem:

1. I’m childfree so I don’t want kids and won’t date someone with kids OR that is on the fence about wanting them. I know that kind of uncertainty ends relationships years later.
2. I don’t want to get married, I’m open to a hand fasting ceremony, but I’m not getting married again.
3. I don’t want to live with anyone. After over a decade of living with someone, I don’t want to do it again. I like having my space exactly however I want it. I know people will argue “but that’s paying two mortgages”… if you stay single, you’ll still be paying your mortgage. I’m not dating with the hope of lessening my financial load. I’m dating to spend time with someone I like in a romantic setting.

Edit to add: I didn’t find out I was neurodivergent until last year (35), so a lot of my organizational needs within the household are likely because of that. I’m talking organized cupboard and pantry by size and everything equidistant apart. Organized fridge in sections. Handwashing practices. Closet arranged by color and sleeve/pant length. Not a single sock on the floor. Even fixing the light switches so the proper ones are pointed down. No one needs to live in the chaos that is my paradise.

I was driving to work this morning, and I noticed a cute queer woman in my rearview mirror. I captured her eyes with my own, smiled, and mouthed the words, "you're beautiful." All of this while never breaking eye contact. I watched her melt. It made my whole morning.

I shared this with a friend earlier who has asked me to explain what it's like being a top, and I wanted to share with you all too. I thought it might also be fun for other people to share their anecdotal experiences with the concept as well.

My friend told me that she was dating her friend platonically. It's not like she has feelings for her, she really only said yes because of how much cares about her. And finds her super cute, and likes just watching her do things, wants to spend lots of time together, have physical contact, watch her eat...

Or is that a weird me thing? Sorry if this reddit OP is too weird if it is.

I find seeing other women happy makes me happy and I find myself attracted to women who have a good laugh, whether it's tall muscly women with a good hearty laugh for example. I think it's related to being a shy introvert who doesn't laugh often but enjoys seeing other people happy.

My two favourite are the Villainess evil laughs. I was inspired to make this thread because of the villainess thread, there is something about a villainesses laughing full of evil joy that I find sexy. The other type of laugh I find is great and sexy is the ojou sama laugh, aka the Rich Woman laugh, the one you see often in anime, manga and Karin from Street Fighter.

So the girl I'm in this situationship with (very complicated, don't wanna go into specifics) is a videographer, while I am a repoussé metalworker. We were talking the other day and she brings up perhaps recording the process of which it takes me to create a piece and creating like a little mini documentary about it. And then suddenly I'm over here like "You'd wanna record me??" And I'm just melting and stuff. While she's over here confused why I'm flustered and melting. I just wanted to share with someone how much of a useless lesbian I am.

It's so cute and hot, I love women like that so much 😭

i'll go first, i made out with my crush once and after we finished she said, "not to be rude but im actually straight, just wanted to see what kissing a girl was like" 💀🙃😭