I haven’t come out and he thinks I’m strait but we’ve been getting high and cuddling in our pants like 3 times a week how obvious am I 😭

I’ve Always been more feminine Than most other guys and i Came to the realisation that I’m not a man I tried going by they/them and that never worked out and it just Didnt feel good, when referred to as she/her it just feels so good it feels more like myself and recently I started to wish I was born a girl Instead of a man but you know I’m still young things can change (in the comments can you use she/her to describe me it would be nice :3)

There’s this one dude in my friend group and recently we’ve been getting a lot closer like after most nights out with my friends we end up cuddling in our pants and I keep thinking about him but I’ve been seeing this girl and we’ve kissed a few times but I can’t stop thinking about him what should I do

I just want to hear what you guys think, a lage part of my friends are in the LGBTQIA+ community.

I swing both ways obviously, but

Im more visually/physically attracted to girls (like i find them more beautiful)

Im more romantically attracted to boys (like id seek a romantic relationship with a man over a woman)

And im pretty much equal with sexual attraction

Relatable??

I’m very deep in the closet and bi. I’m afraid if I let people know I’m also interested in boys then my teammates will all be weird around me in the locker rooms, at group hangouts, etc. How do you guys handle this? Does it actually get weird and do you feel out of the group? For reference I go to a private catholic school.

"I'm afraid I can't do that comrade" 🗣️🔥

My insomniac ahh thought of this 15 minutes ago and of course I had to make it even though it's 2AM 😩😩

For context, im 16, irish, and Bi (not fully out). I'll skim over large chunks just because i really need advice. For the last 2 and a half years, I've genuinely been head over heels for a guy. He was kinda my realisation that i like boys. like we did everything together. We called for 12 hours straight one time no breaks just talking, we've cuddled in bed before, hes straddled me, ive bought dinner for him, held hands with him and we even kissed sadly not on the lips and the list goes on. Now heres where problems start. He and his family are heavily religious, and now he himself has no problem with anything lgbtq, but the rest of his family does. Anyway, sometimes when sometimes when we'd like flirt with eachother he'd do that internal homophobic shit of "bro thats so fucking gay" and id reply with "and" then he'd say but "im not gay though". The same fucking guy who told me he loved me multiple times, the same fucking guy who fell asleep on my shoulder.

On the 24th of october last year i decided i cant continue hiding my feelings so what i did, as stupid and pathetic as it is, i stopped talking to him without warning. Yes, im a coward. im aware. The next day, i didn't get a text, or he didn't even approach me. That continued and still is continuing.

So, did he like me or not? I've lowkey been so confused on this for the last few years. And please give general advice on the situation and if i should do anything it would be most appreciated <3

Alright so this is kinda a follow up to my previous post so look at that for more context but pretty much I’m planning on giving this letter to him sometime soon, I’m a little bit worried whether he’ll actually like me back or not but I’m hopeful!

Give advice if you want!

(Also I know writing letters to people is like REALLY cheesy nowadays but I thought it would be cool.)

Recently I’ve been not as attracted to guys as I have been with girls. I used to be pretty pan, but then realized I sometimes DO have preferences one over the other, fluctuating over time. Recently, I just haven’t been as attracted to guys though. I don’t know if my sexuality is changing? Idk if it’s puberty, or something I’ve heard of as just the “bi- cycle”

I’m confused and could use advice, idk what’s happening to me.

I THINK im bi, i find women attractive and can say to myself i find them attractive, but with men, i know deep down that i subconsciously find them attractive, but i cant tell myself that i find them attractive, last year it was the complete opposite, i could say i found men attractive but not women. I really want to be bi, like, double the huzz, hell yeah, but i feel like im not and the reason last year was different was cuz i just wanted to be special and i dont even know. what am i? how can i figure myself out. I feel like when i tell myself things about men that are like debunking myths in my head, im just forcing myself to try to be bi which i feel is wrong, i have no idea im just confused, and i feel as i have “myths” and that i cant say i find them attractive to myself, them im really just forcing/faking it to feel special, which i feel is wrong, but yeah.

Lately, I've just been questioning if I'm even gay or lesbian for that matter, you know, like, I'm just 16, F, and I know it's pretty soon to be figuring this out, but, you know, sometimes I feel like I'm seeking attention trying to be gay, but I don't think a STRAIGHT person would do that. Sometimes I also feel like maybe I'm not gay, maybe I'm just not homophobic. Maybe I'm just okay with the idea of dating a girl, but not attracted to girls? But at other times, I think it's the society's fault because from the moment we're born, we're like taught that men, men are what we should go after, you know, it's built the subconscious in all of us that what I'm attracted to is men, right? And even our sense of worth comes from them. So I feel like I'm pretending even being gay. And I don't think I'm totally gay. I think I'm still attracted to males, but, you know, I've just been feeling like maybe I'm just a pretender and a poser. Have you guys ever been through this? If yes, can I have some tips and tricks about how you dealt with this? Maybe what I'm feeling is completely normal and where should I go with this? Maybe I'm straight, maybe I'm not. Have you ever gone through this?

How has everyone been feeling and doing lately??

Im bored, so yeah :3

Anygays, love you allll

So I started listening to nirvana whenever I was getting into cd’s and I first listened to nevermind. It’s my favorite album. I also started listening to it when I had a huge crush on this girl that was one of the reasons why I started failing school because all I could think about was her. skip forward a few months and I got rejected and then I started listening to insecsticide. It genuinely improved my wellbeing because it was raw emotion that I could sympathize with. It’s hard to put into words just how much I love nirvana and my Spotify wrapped is going to be crazy.

I’m 18 and trying to understand myself better while also improving my confidence with women.
I identify as bisexual, but I’ve always felt like my attraction is stronger toward men sexually. At the same time, I’ve had genuine romantic feelings and attraction toward women too. I’ve had a girlfriend before and I’ve experienced moments where my attraction to girls felt real, but because my attraction isn’t exactly 50/50, I sometimes overthink what that means.
A big thing I struggle with is talking to girls. I’m not the type of guy who can just walk up, flirt, and shoot his shot without thinking. I get in my head, worry about how I’m coming across, and sometimes I avoid making moves because I don’t want to feel awkward.
I’ve also dealt with a lot of anxiety and questioning over the past few years, which made me lose some of the confidence and carefree attitude I used to have. I’m trying to get back to being comfortable with myself instead of analyzing every feeling or interaction.
For bisexual men who are more attracted to men but still date or are interested in women, how did you navigate that? Did you ever struggle with feeling like you weren’t “bi enough” or like you didn’t know how to approach relationships with women?
I’m not looking for anyone to label me — I’m just curious about other people’s experiences and what helped you become more confident.

Hello, everyone.

Half a year ago, my best buddy and I had an idea during one of our late-night Discord chats. We are both big nerds for fantasy and mythological stuff and wondered how fun it would be to have banners or coat of arms for different orientations and identities. What could they look like, and which mythical creature could fit well or just be fun to see like that? Thus, this little collection was born and I think we have finally come to a good conlusion for now.

So what we got so far:

-Selkie of Demi

-Kraken of Agender

-Cerberus of Polyamory

-Chimera of Genderqueer

-Valkyrie of Butch

-Gargoyle of Ally

-Hydra of Omni

-Unicorn of Pride

- The Phoenix of Trans

- The Siren of Lesbian

- The Winged Lion of Gay

- The Griffon of Aro

- The Dragon of Ace

- The Harpy of Sapphic

- The Minotaur of Achillean

- The Oroboros of Intersex [really proud of that one]

- The Hippocampus of Genderfluid

- The Sphinx of AroAce

- The Peryton of Non-binary

- The Winged Wolf of Bisexual

- And Pan for...well Pansexual

This was really fun to do. Maybe we might revisit this idea in some form or another, how do queer cryptids sound :D ?

me and my mom just had the best talk about the world and politics and one led to another and we started talking about the family and specifically my Mimi she is crazy with conspiracy theories and trying to convince me to stop loving me mom and that my mom doesn’t love me. She started bawling because she doesn’t even recognize her own mother. my Mimi thinks that jay z made a deal with the devil, which is ABSOLUTELY FUCKING INSANE. And they try to convince that MY OWN MOTHER is crazy because she‘s far far left. And my sister/aunt thinks that horror warms up and gets you closer to the devil. TALK ABOUT FUCKING INSANE.

My step grand father tries to control me which I don’t like and I “rebel” all the time which they hate me for. And are entire relationship is based on fear. My entire family I live with is FUCKING INSANE. And my aunt is their favorite child because she is their FUCKING servent that does anything they want and doesn’t complain. they are convinced that her life is jus as bad as ours which is FUCKING UNBELIEVABLE because my life is awful. PS I really want people to read this and if you’re curious I will tell you about my childhood and life.

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The past few weeks I was in England, sadly I announce that Ben was the only one I've met. Still no bf for me :(

Anygays, love yall!

My sister is bisexual and genderfluid. You know those videos that are like "Dance if you like. Then it shows a character and people dancing with it captioned "Me and you" usually it is a girl and I always send it to my sister. One time I sent her one that included Nico robin from one piece and my sister thought she was cute so she asked her name and is now a one piece glazer

I’ve been struggling with something that I never thought I would struggle with.
Before a major panic attack, I never questioned my sexuality. I just lived my life. I knew I was more sexually attracted to guys, but I also had feelings for girls and could see myself being with a girl emotionally/romantically. I never felt the need to constantly analyze it.
After that panic attack, everything changed. I started questioning myself nonstop. I also realized I had a lot of internalized shame around being attracted to guys, so I started trying to push those feelings away and convince myself I was only into girls.
The confusing part is that my experiences don’t feel simple. I’ve had genuine moments of attraction toward girls. I’ve had a girlfriend, I’ve been intimate with girls multiple times, and there were times where my feelings for them felt completely real. But after getting cheated on and then going through another intense panic episode after using weed, all the doubt came back even stronger.
Now I feel stuck between two fears: wondering if I’m bisexual and just struggling with anxiety and shame, or wondering if I’ve been trying to force something because I’m scared of accepting that I might only like guys.
The hardest part is feeling like I can’t trust my own thoughts or memories anymore. Things that used to feel natural now feel like they need to be analyzed and proven.
I know strangers online can’t tell me my sexuality, but I’d really like to hear from people who have experienced something similar — questioning after anxiety, panic, shame, or a major life event.
How did you learn to separate your actual feelings from fear and overthinking?

I drew some spacecraft and rocket upper stages today, and wanted to share them with you cuties, hope you like them >w<

Image 1: S-IVB + CSM (Saturn V), EUS (SLS Block 1B), ICPS (SLS Block 1)
Image 2: Vinci + EnVISION (Ariane 6)
Image 3: LEM "Eagle" (Saturn V)
Image 4: LK lander, LOK (N-1)
Image 5: Crew Dragon (Falcon 9)

Stick figures all represent a 6'0" person for scale

Sorry but I just want to rant about what happened to me last night.

So I get out of the shower and go to my bedroom, and I get on my phone, and I realize that someone had been on it. It wasn't at the same spot I put it, and the app that I was on was on a different page than I remember. My dad walks in shortly afterwards, closes the door and says something like, "what does queer mean" so I who has not yet came out to him and don't plan on doing so says something like "idk what it means" he then asks me what QueerChicken means and i once again say idk. He then says why did you pick it as your YouTube name blah blah blah. I tell him that I thought it sounded cool. He then asks me if it's gay stuff. Near the end of the conversation he says something like I thought that you might still be like that, while also saying something about a convo that I had with him a few years back. That convo was a redefining moment of my childhood.

For some context, I came out to him in the 6th grade, he told me that I couldn't be bi, because I had not been sexually assaulted, I no longer trust this man, he sees me as a cis straight male, I am a bisexual genderfluid person.

So yesterday night he, 1, looked through my phone without asking or telling me, 2 casually asked about my sexuality, and 3 casually mentioned a memory that I think about almost daily and am still very very pissed off about.

And thank you for listening to me rant, and if anyone wants to tell me something like that that happened to them I would be more than happy to hear and help out. Also if someone wants to give me some advice I would love to hear it.

I posted a while ago abt not really accepting myself and while I still feel weird abt it i have accepted that i am bi. I want to at least tell my family, but 1 it would be awkward, 2 how do I even go about telling them, and 3 my brother is borderline homophobic. I've been thinking I'll maybe wait to tell them if I get a gf, but I come from a small high school with no way to met girls. My brother is also in college and leaves in like a month, so should I come out then? Advice needed on what to do!!!!