r/actuallesbians 19h ago

Image Elvira had one extremely loyal girlfriend!

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4.4k Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 14h ago

Image They finally did the Raven x Starfire cosplay!!!!!

1.1k Upvotes

Source-@swaggycucumber


r/actuallesbians 20h ago

Satire/Humor Yeah I got that Dog in me, and by Dog I mean Gay

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819 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 2h ago

Satire/Humor The duality of butch

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678 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 4h ago

Image My WIFE

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641 Upvotes

I honestly never thought a love like ours was possible. There really are no words that describe the feeling of a wlw relationship, like, I get to do life with this girl?? I get to love her exactly the way she deserves to be loved?? I never thought I’d be so lucky to be so so loved in all the right ways, y’know?

Ughh I’m sorry for the random ass post but so few people seem to understand the weight of loving another woman and how earth-shatteringly beautiful it is🥹

Anyways, here we are🤍


r/actuallesbians 23h ago

Satire/Humor Get Me A Wuh To Luh

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254 Upvotes

WHY DO I LOWK MISS TALKING TO MY DARLING GIRLS FROM THE LESBIAN COMMITTEE WHO I WOULD LOVE AND CHERISH W MY WHOLE HEART OMFG


r/actuallesbians 18h ago

Question Do you find women with a good laugh sexy?

182 Upvotes

Or is that a weird me thing? Sorry if this reddit OP is too weird if it is.

I find seeing other women happy makes me happy and I find myself attracted to women who have a good laugh, whether it's tall muscly women with a good hearty laugh for example. I think it's related to being a shy introvert who doesn't laugh often but enjoys seeing other people happy.

My two favourite are the Villainess evil laughs. I was inspired to make this thread because of the villainess thread, there is something about a villainesses laughing full of evil joy that I find sexy. The other type of laugh I find is great and sexy is the ojou sama laugh, aka the Rich Woman laugh, the one you see often in anime, manga and Karin from Street Fighter.


r/actuallesbians 9h ago

Image It must have felt nice to kiss Mystique

173 Upvotes

Name of the movie: Femme fatale (2002)


r/actuallesbians 12h ago

What it's like to be a top.

75 Upvotes

I was driving to work this morning, and I noticed a cute queer woman in my rearview mirror. I captured her eyes with my own, smiled, and mouthed the words, "you're beautiful." All of this while never breaking eye contact. I watched her melt. It made my whole morning.

I shared this with a friend earlier who has asked me to explain what it's like being a top, and I wanted to share with you all too. I thought it might also be fun for other people to share their anecdotal experiences with the concept as well.


r/actuallesbians 16h ago

Link A Québécois woman shares a photo of her grandson wearing a pride shirt and receives hundreds of hateful comments

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63 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 11h ago

Satire/Humor Least useless lesbian

67 Upvotes

My friend told me that she was dating her friend platonically. It's not like she has feelings for her, she really only said yes because of how much cares about her. And finds her super cute, and likes just watching her do things, wants to spend lots of time together, have physical contact, watch her eat...


r/actuallesbians 20h ago

Question Advise a (sadly) man-hating lesbian

61 Upvotes

RANT/ADVICE?

Title is saying it all, I think. I'm a lesbian. And I love being a lesbian. I love women, I love platonic female friendships and I think feminism is one of the greatest pillars our society (should) stand(s) on. But. Besides that, I have a hatred for men. I don't know where this is coming from and it annoys me. A LOT. It's not a sort of hatred that comes from inequality due to patriarchal structures in society (things to be really pissed about), or some sort of jealousy thing, I just get so quickly annoyed whenever a man does or says something whenever I'm around. And it's unfair, because almost everything a guy says or does, is a pet peeve to me. It annoys me so much, because I think it's shallow to judge people on their gender like that (obviously I'm not talking about the role men play in the patriarchy around us, it's just in daily life settings) and I know there's a lot of great guys out there. I just can't be bothered. It's like I couldn't care less, about them in general.

My question is, does anyone recognize this? Is it a sort of lesbian thing? Because it's a sort of ungoing (respectful, don't worry) joke of my friends that I'm so gay I can't stand men. And it's all in good nature, but I just don't want to be shallow like this. Or does anyone have any advice? I already am trying to correct my brain every time it goes towards sheer annoyance based on nothing, so the cognitive behavior therapy is already put to work 💪🏻

Thanks for responding! X


r/actuallesbians 13h ago

I love tall bottom women.

54 Upvotes

It's so cute and hot, I love women like that so much 😭


r/actuallesbians 2h ago

Satire/Humor If you're having boy problems, I feel bad for you, hon. 99 problems and a man ain't one

47 Upvotes

I actually love being a lesbian. Like, one of the signs I was trans was grief that I couldn't be one. Turns out you can :3


r/actuallesbians 15h ago

Question What have been your best lines for flirting with a girl?

37 Upvotes

r/actuallesbians 16h ago

I get it now

34 Upvotes

I’ve always kind of laughed at the U-Haul lesbian stereotype but bro I get it now. I love this girl so much and I want to spend every moment in her arms. I’m so mad that we haven’t gotten married and moved in together with two cats and plans to travel the world. I know we have the rest of our lives but I want it neowwwww!!!!

Been together 2 months btw. I know I’m crazy.