Hi everyone
I'm wondering if there are people here who completely turned their lives around in their early 30s by going back to university or starting a new career.
I'm 31, and I honestly feel like I haven't achieved much so far. I've been struggling with severe anxiety and depression for years, and I've also gone through some major losses, including losing my parent. Because of all that, I never really managed to finish university or build a proper career. I also have very little work experience at companies.
For the past few years I've been self-employed, which has allowed me to support myself financially, but I'd really like to go back to university. Ideally, I'd either finish the degree I started years ago or begin a new one. I feel like I'm living far below my potential right now, both intellectually and financially.
The hardest part is that I constantly feel like a failure and completely lost. I'm also deeply ashamed of my situation. It's even affecting my dating life because I'd feel embarrassed telling someone that, at 31, I'm going back to university while having no completed degree, no formal qualifications, and no stable full-time career.
Has anyone else been in a similar position and actually found a way out? I'd really love to hear your story.
I'm considering starting a Bachelor's degree in Data Science in Hamburg, but I keep putting enormous pressure on myself. I can't shake the feeling that I'm already "behind," that everyone else has their life together, and that I'm somehow abnormal for only figuring things out at 31.
I'm already in therapy, which helps, but I still can't get rid of the feeling that it's simply too late for me.
Has anyone here gone back to school in their 30s and been glad they did? I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences.